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Hi Ladies,
My name is Leah. I came here orginally at the behest of my wife. I've been having a bit of dsyphoria lately, and she thought you all might be the gals that can at least lend an ear or share the trials and tribulations you've experienced along the way. She has been so gracious and accepting of me, but her understanding of who I am with regards to crossdressing are not something she's ever dealt with, heck it's not something I've had to really deal with. I've never been in an environment where my femminity could really even begin to blossom. I'm so glad it is though. I've never felt more myself ... ever.. period.
That said, I've been reading many of the stories in these forums, and have been absolutley blown away, by not the just the acceptance that one would expect but the level of love and respect, and protectivness between all these gals.
I've been a bit of a blubbering idiot today, bouncing between feelings of withdrawl from my femme self, to feeling uncomfortable in my drab monochrome male clothes, to that creeping depression that makes you feel like throwing it all away just so it can be "easier" .. "normal" which I know it will never be. Then to have my wife not only remind me of her acceptance of the facts, but to find you girls here, attempting to live as the best versions of yourselves, despite all of the ugliness that this world can sometimes thow at people just becasue of our differences. I'm just elated and still blubbering a bit, but more feelings of happiness to know, that I like all of you, are not alone.
Lots of Love
Leah <3
Leah welcome to C.D.H and hello. i have read your post. hiding it for years is hard, telling some one that i as in u are a x dresser is even harder. don;t know what will come from there, being excepting or not, my wife knows and lets me dress up when no other child is home.feel free to read my profile
Hi Leah, I am glad you joined our site, welcome. This site is all about support and the members here are an incredible and amazing part of that support. And it shows us all that we are not alone. CDH has helped both my wife and I as we travel along and discover the journey ahead. Because, I do think of this as a journey that unfolds as you go. Having a supportive partner is a boon. So please let your wife know that we do have a Significant Other Only group on CDH that can help her as well. By the way, my wife is also a member of the site and joined the SO group. I am one of the volunteering ambassadors, so please if you have any questions about the site or want to ask me about my journey, I am happy to answer.
Hugs,
Michelle
Welcome Leah, you will find a lot of supportive and friendly girls on CDH!
Leah, welcome is so nice meeting you. Your a very special spouse and your partner is so fortunate. This is certainly the place you’ll find many of the answers you are seeking. Only a short while ago that I opened up to my wife after 40 years of marriage. It was a huge surprise for her and certainly very emotional. The biggest concern was the mistrust I caused. Seeing her and the hurt that it caused was hard. We had many talks and through this agreements and guidelines were set and together were slowly working it out. But Cdh and it’s resources helped my wife and myself understand more about our individual troubles. I learned more about myself and as it has been mentioned from others we have a wonderful group we have here exclusive for spouses where many GG gals like yourself could receive the help and support to get the answers your wanted to know. This group – private ( wives and significant others ) . For you special ladies where Cders are not allowed. Meet with them and get the support you need. Look into other forms written by others who talk about their experiences, their questions they may ask with many offering help and advice so everyone can understand better on so many confusing topic . Many face this troubling ordeal but be assured you have support and help from everyone here . Relax, get comfortable and enjoy being part of this wonderful community that really does care for all that passes through our doors. The best to you both as you venture through these new paths together . Very happy meeting you and welcome.
Stephanie 🌹
I appreciate the warm welcome everyone. I came to find out that my wife was actaully already part of the spouse only group here at CDH. She sent me here cause of all the love and support this community has to offer. She's such a great gal, I love her so much. She made my day yesterday, when she came home with flowers, and a cute top.. OMG tug on my heart strings some more. <3 I've never gotten flowers before. (and I have like no tops.. ugh..).
I feel like yesterday started off kind of bad, but ended up being so very good. I feel like she showed me her acceptance and that shes willing to travel this road with me AND I found all of you too.
What a difference a day can make in someones life.
<3 Leah
Quite right you are not alone Leah, and welcome to CDH. Yet another new member. Fantastic. The sisters heaven is growing quickly. Strength by numbers.
Welcome Leah!
Welcome Leah! You have a situation most of us could probably only dream of. Congratulations! You better take care of that wonderful woman!
Welcome Leah,
<p style="text-align: left;">Your story is very relatable and I am glad you have found this place. You seem to be right where I was when I found it a year ago. Always glad to see more girls our age around, so feel free to reach out!</p>
Hearts and rainbows,
Aoife
Hi Leah and welcome. You have such a wonderful partner to be with. Enjoy this place and be happy here. Lot's of support and understanding for all who enter.
Carla
Leah you are such a lucky woman to have a wife who is supporting you and encouraging you to find your feminine side. You are a brave and strong woman and I for one find you inspiring.
Hugs
Kathy
Welcome Leah and embrace your femininity. It is part of you! Moreover, you are among friends here, supportive real friends who understand you exactly. I was a kid, growing up in the 50s and 60s, and I just wish there had been something like this way back then. I thought I was the only boy in the world who enjoyed wearing female clothing once in a while. It was a mystery to me, I liked girls only, but I also like their clothes.
Hugs, Enjoy being a girl,
Peggy Sue
Hi Leah !
Welcome to CDH !
Hugs
Autumn
Hi, hello, and welcome to CDH! You have just arrived at the best and greatest CD site on the web! CDH has tons of very helpful crossdressing information, and support from real people just like you! We highly encourage new CDH members to ask questions no matter how trivial you think they may be, as we are happy to answer to the best of our ability. We also love a well written profile, this helps everyone to get to know you better as the beautiful woman you are! We hope that you enjoy your stay here at CDH, as we are happy to have you as a part of our wonderful community.
Thank you, Samantha Roarke
