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(@valeriesroc)
New Member     Rochester, New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I just joined last week and still getting familiar with the site. I just wanted to drop in to say hi, hope all is doing well during this difficult time.

A little about me I will be 60 this year (that was so hard to type) I have, like many have been living with my dysphoria for a good part of my life. Married 38 years - wife is not understanding or excepting. I have a grand-daughter whom I adore to no end. I am at a point I just wish I could be Valerie for the rest of my like. I do not feel comfortable or included in my male mode. When I wear the women's clothing and make up and present female (at least the best I can) I feel normal. I feel like me. I think there are many who understand that.

Wow! that got a little darker than I had intended.

Well have a great day

Hugs - Valerie

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(@mnewman111)
Famed Member     Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Welcome Valerie!

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(@patrickirish48)
Estimable Member     rolling meadows, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

welcome Valerie

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Lady
(@janene)
Active Member     Silverdale, Auckland, New Zealand
Joined: 5 years ago

My story too, only one year behind you, are we destined to live two lives, is this a privilege that we have ? I have made the break from wife and now have very supportive partner. She says she loves both of me.!

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(@Anonymous)
New Member
Joined: 1 second ago

Hello Valerie, welcome to CDH...

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

Valerie

welcome  ,  happy to have you join with us.  Certainly a place to discover cross dressing and learn if there really is more to this.  Our ladies here are fabulous in helping out, from advice to tips on improving ones self to the emotional feelings we are experiencing. Make friendships and feel free to contact us if there’s anything that you may need. Happy to meet you and enjoy being part of a community that cares.

Stephanie 🌹

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Valerie,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Duchess
(@985anythinggoes)
Noble Member     New Orleans, Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi, hello, and welcome to Crossdresser Heaven! You have just arrived at the best and greatest CD site on the web! CDH has tons of very helpful crossdressing information, tips, and support from real people just like you! We highly encourage new CDH members to ask questions no matter how trivial you think they may be, as we are happy to answer to the best of our ability. We also love a well written profile, this helps everyone to get to know you better as the beautiful woman you are! We hope that you enjoy your stay here at CDH, as we are happy to have you as a part of our wonderful community.

Thank you, Samantha Roarke

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(@tabithat)
Reputable Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Valerie! Welcome!

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(@jennyjstoned)
Reputable Member     Ypsilanti, Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

welcome Valerie. I imagine a lot of people feel that way, trying to sort out how they feel and stuff. It isn't easy. Learning little by little who they are and what they want. I am still sorting it all out slowly, but surely.

The people here are great, just look around, chat and you'll fit in in no time.

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(@Anonymous)
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Hi Valerie

Everything you need is here honey, from serious to laughs...I have been a member for a month and these girls are the world to me already....hugs.  Grace xx

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(@paula1)
Prominent Member     Newport, Victoria, Australia
Joined: 9 years ago

Hi Valerie

Welcome to CDH.

Paula from Australia XX

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(@Anonymous)
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Welcome to CDH, Valerie.

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(@queentl)
Noble Member     Gainesville, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Valerie, Teralynn here. Welcome to our wonderful online community community. Please forgive my tardiness in sending you this welcoming post. I am a week behind and try to keep the welcoming posts sent in the order that new members join! Thanks for sharing your story with us Luv. It is unfortunate that your your wife can not be accepting and supportive, but you are not alone in having to deal with such a situation! But being a CDH member and knowing that there are many other people who are in a similar situation  may help you cope with your own situation! You can find acceptance, understanding and friendship here! So please stay active on the site and remember you are not alone in having to deal with such judgmental people. Life is full of unpleasant experiences you have to deal with. So when things start getting difficult for you to handle turn to your CDH sisters for support and for a way to vent your frustration with the injustice that crossdressing people sometimes encounter in our world! If I can ever be of service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. A post on my home profile page wall will get the fastest response. Believe me when I tell you that I have a good understanding of what feelings you may be experiencing! - Blessings

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(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Valerie nice to meet you and happy you found us girls here. There is so much to do here as reading forums and posts and when you get comfortable with us please join in with some comments and ask many questions from clothes to makeup to anything you have wanted to know about being the girl thats inside your heart and sole.  We support you thru thick and thin easy times and the hard ones just ask for help and someone will be there for you  all of us dont know it all but some ladys do know alot and are willing to be there for you  . So get settled in relax kick your heels off and enjoy yourself as there is nothing to be scared of we really dont bite well some girls do so be careful(ha ha ) just kidding .Anyhow again nice to meet you and hope you can work things out with wife as support at home is a bonus and like we say here take baby steps and lots of conversations will sometimes help  good luck Girlfriend

Stephanie Bass

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