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Lady
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(@lanam)
Trusted Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

I’m so excited to be a new member and looking forward to sharing and, hopefully, connecting with new friends.  Finding a place where there are so many with a common story who have so much more experience than I is truly wonderful. 

My story is probably much like everyone else’s.  Since childhood I have always been infatuated with women’s clothing and lingerie. Dressing in my mother’s lingerie, dresses, and shoes made me feel wonderful and it felt so natural I knew then I could never stop, but always had feelings of shame and embarrassment should anyone find out.  She was a beautiful lady, and I wanted to be one too and the way for me to do that is to dress as one.

Over the years I kept my desires and crossdressing a private secret, never letting anyone know so felt unfulfilled, alone, and often ashamed.  Living my professional career as a man by day I still had my desire to dress en femme so would often wear lingerie under my man clothes with no one the wiser.  Now I have more opportunities to dress how I wish so love dressing feminine almost daily, unless in public.  Someday soon I hope to change that as I grow more confident in myself and my appearance. 

For two years I stopped dressing and honestly had no desire to do so. I didn’t feel the “pink fog” come over me as it does now. Then early this year I had an urge to try on a wig and makeup I had purchased a couple years ago but never had a chance to try on along with a skirt that had sat in the closet unused also.  When I saw myself in the mirror I was overwhelmed with emotion and cried.  In my entire life I finally felt fulfilled, whole, natural, and complete.  I haven’t looked back nor have I any regrets.

Now I dress almost daily and am loving it.  I have so much to learn about fashion, makeup, (walking in heels) yet I’m enthusiastic and excited by it more than ever before.    

I look forward so very much to hearing your experiences, feelings, fashion and makeup tips.

 Thanks for being so welcoming too!     

Love to all.

Lana.

 

 

 

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2181

@lanam 

Hi, Lana.

Welcome to CDH, the best crossdresser community anywhere!

In my entire life I finally felt fulfilled, whole, natural, and complete.

Lana, I have used the same words to describe how embracing my feminine side has affected me. This is a safe and magical community that enables real life changes. Many of us can attest to this.

If there's anything we can do to help, just ask. Meantime, enjoy exploring.

Allie x

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(@crazycynthia)
Joined: 3 months ago

Estimable Member     zuid holland, Netherlands
Posts: 87

@lanam hey girl, so glad you found us. Its so awesome you had such a great journey. Starting off intrested, shamed because of norms and then realized, your awesome and unique! Love it ❤️ do you have people close to you who know?

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Lady
(@lanam)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     California, United States of America
Posts: 36

@crazycynthia Thanks for the warm welcome!  No, no one close to me knows about my dressing.  Opening up to the CDH community, I already feel an enormous emotional weight lifted.

 

Thanks again!

Lana ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ 

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4008

Welcome to CDH, Lana!

I agree. Lana is a beautiful name!

Posted by: @lanam

Now I have more opportunities to dress how I wish so love dressing feminine almost daily, unless in public.  Someday soon I hope to change that as I grow more confident in myself and my appearance. 

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Now I dress almost daily and am loving it.  I have so much to learn about fashion, makeup, (walking in heels) yet I’m enthusiastic and excited by it more than ever before.    

I look forward so very much to hearing your experiences, feelings, fashion and makeup tips.

"Unless in public" Let's see if we can improve on this.

You can wear women's clothing in public. Many CDs underdress, but you can go much further, too. Maybe not according to an office dress code, but in public, in general, there should be very little holding you back.

Crossdressing in public does not have to include dressing en femme. Many of us here describe our style as stealthy or androgynous. We pick and choose our clothes from the women's racks, but it would take a keen eye to see what is going on.

Since my first purchases, I nearly always bought clothes that could be worn in public without drawing much attention towards me. Sure, I get a few curious looks (What did I just see?), but I am willing to gently tweek their imagination. No harm done.

If you seriously want to crossdress in public more often, then make it so that you can do it more often. CDH members here can gladly help you to figure this out.

 

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Lady
(@lanam)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     California, United States of America
Posts: 36

@harriette   Thank you so much Harriette.  With your words of encouragement and everyone's wonderful support I feel more empowered and confident.  

Lana ❤️ ❤️ 

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1121

@lanam 

Welcome to CDH Lana!

 Your in the right place for all things feminine. 

 Welcome to the Pink Fog!

 Fran 🥰 

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Lady
(@lanam)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     California, United States of America
Posts: 36

@gafran  With everyone's warm welcome I feel the love and support of the CDH community.  Thanks again!

Lana ❤️ ❤️ 

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1121

@lanam 

CDH is all about Love and Acceptance! 🥰

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(@katiep)
Joined: 3 months ago

Reputable Member     Nottinghamshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 142

@lanam Welcome Lana, your journey is so familiar, enjoy the community sisterhood and spread those wings.

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Lady
(@lanam)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     California, United States of America
Posts: 36

@katiep Hi Katie, thank you so very much and I feel so welcome and excepted by everyone.  There truly is unconditional love and support here.  Hope to chat more!

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Lady
(@chlosm)
Joined: 3 months ago

Estimable Member     Dublin, Leinster, Ireland
Posts: 64

@lanam welcomr from a fellow newbie only beginning my journey and looking to learn. The girls here are great so warm and welcoming

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Lady
(@lanam)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     California, United States of America
Posts: 36

@chlosm Everyone at CDH are incredibly accepting and understanding!  So happy you're here.

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Lady
(@chlosm)
Joined: 3 months ago

Estimable Member     Dublin, Leinster, Ireland
Posts: 64

@lanam me to especially given the overehelming dense fog i have been in given the intense thoughts and feelings i have been having. Chatting to the girls here is helping to gradually lift that and hrlp me make sense of this new me. As i say to all thw girls feel free to private message me any time for a chat.

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Lana,

Welcome to CDH.  Enjoy dressing now you have more opportunities.

Alice

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Lady
Topic starter
(@lanam)
Trusted Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

Thank you Alice!

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Guest
(@Anonymous 99388)
Estimable Member
Joined: 3 months ago

Welcome to CDH Lana this is a wonderful community with a lot of lovely ladies to help you through your journey. This site has been a blessing to me.

Alexis Grace xx 

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Lana -

Welcome to CDH.

XOXO
Suzanne

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome to the group Lana!

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Posts: 36
Lady
Topic starter
(@lanam)
Trusted Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

Thank you Fiona!  I already feel I belong and found a home.

Lana ❤️ 

 

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Lana nice meeting you and happy you found and joined us girls here so do some looking around and reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Lana as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Lana!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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Lady
(@lanam)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     California, United States of America
Posts: 36

@catherine0918 Thank you so much Catherine!  Everyone has been so welcoming.

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