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(@louise58)
Eminent Member     Derbyshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi All.

I’ve been dressing up for a long time, only in private though. I don’t pass as female and to scared to go out and be noticed. I do dress up when I’m driving long distance, but only at night. However I did risk walking about  in a lay-by the other night whilst cars drove past, it wasn’t busy but felt good.

Looking forward to reading your stories and gaining advice and experience from you all.

Thanks Louise x

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(@rozalyne)
Noble Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Louise welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family,

I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on I'm still in the closet to my family,

I'm a UK girl too I'm in Shropshire, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat, I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you, there are lots of girls on here from beginner's to full time girls who dress 👗 24/7 we don't judge anyone on here it's a safe place for everyone X 🎀

Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

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(@marilyncd)
Eminent Member     Dayton, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Welcome to CDH. You’ll find a home here of love, support, encouragement… even hope. All of us have a starting point “where it all began” .. that moment you look back at and say “I knew then!”  And those are the shares to a journey that gives ya ups and downs and bumps and bruises.  Here, no matter that journey, no matter how long, where you’ve been or where you’re going … your welcomed and encouraged.

Take a moment to complete your prof Ike and share the journey and enjoy the community.  “Participate” and make it a wonderful journey!

M

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Lady
(@meeshelle)
Estimable Member     Levittown, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Louise
I do the same thing when I drive. I’m a courier so I drive a lot. More and more I am Lizzie in the car and I too walk around the rest stops in the afternoons. I figure if there’s no eye contact no one will say anything. Welcome. Maybe we chat sometime.

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Duchess
(@sometimespaulette)
Prominent Member     Gilbert, Arizona, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Louise, and welcome.  First off allow me to say that "passing" is an overrated concern.  I challenge my friends here in the US to observe women going into and out of Walmart, a nationwide discount store chain, known for the "peculiar" dressing habits of its customers.  A significant portion of these women would not "pass" in the literal interpretation of the term.  The better answer is to "blend".  By that I mean, wearing appropriate clothing, not overdoing makeup, and wearing an age appropriate wig.  In addition, I have also noticed, even if anyone notices, they rarely say or do anything.  I think once you overcome your fear, going out in public can be a fun and rewarding experience. ♥️Paulette♥️

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Duchess
(@aprilcdmf)
Prominent Member     Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hello Louise welcome to CDH I am glad you have shared a part of who you are. Having found us you have made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or level of public expression and or personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression from differing levels of crossdressing to those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of self acceptance and expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or space were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are that you are not alone and this is a place where you can feel safe to express and share part of yourself as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, a man who dresses as a woman a complete human being expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. As you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. Being here helps not only yourself but helps others gain acceptance and confidence. I am happy you have made the step to be here. Welcome!

Hugs April

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Duchess
(@theapat)
Estimable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Hello Louise,

...in the few years I've been 'doing', I have learned a valuable lesson. Don't forget to head to the proverbial medicine cabinet and seek out the 'WTF' confidence pill. There comes a time when the constant fear, the lack of confidence, and the running away must cease. There comes a time when the sum of the aforementioned makes you not happy with yourself. The self created evil spirits begin to gang up and make their way to you.You envision that "first day in a new school", waiting for people to laugh at you and all the other bad things that will happen. You finally slap yourself in the head and say, "Now, Did that really ever happen?" Most times someone special sees you for who you are, smiles at you, and greets you respectfully. You begin the mantra of who you are and the countless things you have achieved. You hear a voice that says, "Come in gorgeous', or "I like your shoes', or 'Your nails are lovely'. There is a great amount of powerful positive energy out there and it emanates from the people standing right in front of us. The people we fear.

With Love,

Thea

PS. and have a splendid day.

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 7 years ago

Louise happy to welcome you and being excited about  finding this place, you have certainly started this journey right.   From someone just starting to the well experience everyone here enjoys the support and acceptance that is truly unique. Be free to express yourself with many like yourself and with no judgements. No matter at what level of experience one is  everyone is having fun expressing their passions in a caring and supportive place. Learn as you go and meet with our ladies to chat ,share stories and with some develop lasting friendships. So much to embrace so relax and enjoy being part of a community of same mined souls all accepting each other  for who we are. Very happy meeting you.  Hugs

Stephanie 🌹

 

 

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Louise,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Louise nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girlfriend there is a wealth of knowledge here to access and learn from so look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on.. So sister when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Louise as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. Just please return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better..  Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Louise!

Welcome to CDH!

A supportive, caring, encouraging and helpful community!

I am a private dresser and have found CDH to be the place I can be Catherine.

Great introduction and glad dressing is working out for you!

Catherine

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