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(@bigbear1989)
New Member     Braselton, Georgia, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hello everyone I’m a heterosexual male who has crossdressed during private intimate moments. I am very torn because I’ve hidden it from everyone, I want to be open with my wife but I’m afraid she will think I’m homosexual and leave. I really am heterosexual I like the feeling of doing something taboo and to be honest I like the feminine feeling I feel sexy. I would love advice and help from people who know what I’m going through

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(@rozalyne)
Noble Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi CJ welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family, I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on I'm still in the closet too, I'm sorry i can't meet up with you for a coffee ☕ I'm on the other side of the pond in the UK, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X 🎀

Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

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(@meeshelle)
Estimable Member     Levittown, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Cj
Same basic boat here. Hang in there. I bought a woman’s top as light sweater and when it was finally washed and pointed out my wife pulled out 4 or 5 similar things that she never wore and gave them to me. I wore them as much as possible. I did at one point specifically say I like girly clothes.
Same with pants. I showed her a pair of skinny jeans I bought that were women’s. They are the perfect length which I can’t ever get in men’s. She pulled out several pairs of women’s jeans and pants for me that she never wore or were too tight. They fit me perfectly. She joked about us sharing clothes ….but not her underwear.
I missed my chance to say i already have my own. The moral of the story is I would probably be ok if I blurt it out. Or I think I’ve become careless enough that I could be caught. If any of this helps feel free to copy.
Lizzie

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(@Anonymous 47410)
Prominent Member
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi CJ!

You have friends right here in Georgia, as well as all over the U.S. and around the world!

Welcome to CDH!

I am Peggy Sue, and I live in Marietta, Georgia.  Let me know if I can answer any questions for you?  We have a local support group that meets weekly in Cobb county, but I realize that would be a long drive for you from Braselton.

I am sending you a friend request and would be honored if you would accept it.

Hugs...Peggy Sue

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Cj,

Welcome to CDH.  Enjoy perusing the site and reading the posts.

Alice

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(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi CJ nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here .. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girlfriend there is a wealth of knowledge her to access and learn from so look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of CJ as she travels down her own girly path in life.. As for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all girlfriend we are just a simple click away from you.. Please do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better .. Once again girlfriend nice to mee you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@wandaovahear)
Prominent Member     Washington, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Honey, what you wear has nothing to do with who you love. And I say that as a heterosexual MTF CD who has crossdressed during many a shared intimate moment.

Good to have you with us.

Hugs & kisses,
W.

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(@Anonymous 47410)
Prominent Member
Joined: 5 years ago

Hello CJ,

I know exactly what you are talking about. All I can tell you is that talking with my wife was the best thing for us. Yes, she did ask those questions about my sexuality, but as long as you are upfront and honest, things should work out.

Jessica

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 7 years ago

CJ

welcome , it’s wonderful that you have joined our family. We’re always happy to help our new girls and offer our advice and tips and were here to chat  about anything you have on your mind. Sharing experiences is so helpful and fun to explore more as you get comfortable with being here. Very nice meeting you and look forward to seeing you here soon.

 

Stephanie 🌹

 

 

 

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(@Anonymous 47410)
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Joined: 5 years ago

Hi CJ and welcome to the CDH family. We are here to support and help one another. I'm glad you decided to join.

Rose

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Lady
(@angrilyamused)
Estimable Member     Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi CJ,

The more you research, the more you will see that most crossdressers are not homosexual. We usually come in “straight” or “bi” flavours, and there’s also the eventual trans girl among us. Soon you will feel welcome here like I have. Most importantly, trust your instincts! There is more misinformation than information these days, so my main tip is: hang out here, not on Reddit lol

Peace, love, and empathy,

-G.

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(@miaprincessatheart)
Estimable Member     El Paso, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

I am a hetero CD and my wife is my biggest supporter, in my crossdressing and every other aspect of my life. I feel like the you have to be honest with the most important person in your life. If she is not accepting then you have a decision to make. What's more important, being with someone who is not accepting, or being yourself. That's just my opinion, don't gamble your marriage or your life on my thoughts.

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(@terria67)
Noble Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Hello CJ,

Welcome to our CrossDresser Heaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.

The Warmth, Compassion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.

Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrossDresser Heaven.

At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via Private Message (PM).  You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.

Also, you may find what you need from: The Help Center or our Ambassadors by using the links in the Top R/H Drop Down 3 bar Menu.

Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat (PC), Groups, Additional Photo Allowance, etc.

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