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Fun loving, athletic guy who loves cycling and swimming, reading, and travelling...and also dressing up in lingerie and heels! 🙂
I have always found 'women's underwear' so sexy and appealing - and at a young age I came to realise that I want to feel it on me as much as I did seeing it on others. In my single early 20's I had a large collection of panties, hose, stockings, heels etc, but purged when I moved in with my now wife. The dressing up became dormant for many years, but the fantasies persisted.
It has been a great source of shame for me and I've had to keep this part of me for the most part secret. I opened up to my wife about 18 months ago, and it was hard at first but we both feel we have come out of the other side much stronger, having redefined what our expectations of our sexual relationship would be. She loves the strong, confident, dominant type (which I am mostly), and therefore doesn't want any part of Jenny to be in the relationship. I am fine with that, being who she needs me to be around her, with Jenny coming out to explore and play when I am alone.
That leads to Jenny feeling lonely and isolated, and so I have joined here to see if being part of a group of like minded individuals will help me feel less shame, and stop the purges - of which there have been plenty!
I am from the UK, and live in Buckinghamshire if anyone local wants to reach out and chat, but to be honest I am just looking for friends who I can open up to about this [important] part of me.
Much Love, Jenny xxx
@sometimesjennyj
Hi, Jenny, you've made a great decision in joining us here. As you say, you're now among many like-minded people, all of whom have gone through the shame, guilt, purge cycle. Not any more though 😊
You'll find us a genuinely warm and friendly bunch, also totally accepting and supportive.
Take your time to look through the forums and profiles and you'll see what I mean.
Anything you need, just shout and you'll get plenty of help.
Welcome to the family 😊
Allie
@alexina Thank you so much for your kind words, it's nice to find a place for Jenny to breathe! looking forward to getting to know you all a little better. x
@sometimesjennyj
Hey girl
Welcome to CDH from another UK member 🙂
Jenny doesn't need to feel lonely or isolated any more!
Although CDH has 46K members, what you'll discover is that both the 'Forums' and 'Chat' areas of the site have their own group of regular contributors. You'll quickly get to know them, and it really doesn't take long before it starts to feel as though you've gained a new family. And you can be totally honest and open about yourself here; it's a very safe and supportive environment.
Have fun exploring the site, and as Allie says don't be afraid to ask if you need help with anything. There will always be someone around 🙂
Hugs
Ellie x
@ellyd22 Hi Ellie, thank you! It is all a little overwhelming at the moment! I didn't know there were so many like minded people. I've found my tribe 🙂 much love xx
@sometimesjennyj
I've found my tribe
Yes! That was EXACTLY how I felt when I found this place 🙂
That sense of belonging.
It was, and is, wonderful 🙂
@sometimesjennyj Hi Jenny, welcome to the madhouse. You will find answers to your questions here along with many friends & plenty of advice. As you probably noticed there is much fun to be had also so hang on & enjoy the ride (keep your hands in the car at all times)
X
Sasha
@sashabennett Thank you! This place definitely look like fun! There are many of you who are much further on the journey than I am, but I am excited to see what the future brings! xx
Madhouse???
Odds bodkins and forsooth, mistress Sasha, verily, I know not from whence thou gettest thine ideas!
Mistress Allie of the dancing brain cell. Xx
@alexina “ Odds Bodkins”. I haven’t heard that since I was a child, you know outdoor plumbing, kerosene lamps and 1 horsepower days. And welcome to you Jenny. You will find this crew not only funny, but incredibly helpful and supportive.
Yes, I mentioned, in my welcome to Angel, I remember clearly when I was 22. How I marvelled on seeing my first round wheel😊
@alexina Love it! But think of all the raw meat and darkness I had as a child before fire.
@alexina As it happens I get most of them from "Baldricks big book of cunning plans" (available from all good booksellers)
May your bodkins continue to be odd
Sasha
@sometimesjennyj Hey Jenny, welcome to CDH from another UK girl. Yours is pretty much the archetypal crossdresser story! You'll find a wealth of friendship and support here. The girls here are at every point on the crossdressing spectrum. Ask questions, join in the chat and make yourself comfortable. Great profile BTW.
Hugs, Chrissie xx
@chrisfp99 Hi Chrissie! Thank you for your sweet reply, I have found that even writing in Jenny's persona is so freeing! it's like a part of me inside that finally has a voice. I'm a little giddy thinking of the possibilities! I'm excited to get to know all of you a little better. I'll have a look at your profile now! xx
@sometimesjennyj Jenny, I know what you mean. I love writing as Chrissie! And you'll find it very affirming being a part of a group of girls with a similar mindset. We are not alone!
@sometimesjennyj
Hi Jenny, and welcome to CDH 🙂
Describing this community, the lovely girls who have replied to you so far have mentioned warmth, acceptance, understanding, support, friendship, answers.
Without having joined here at the turn of the year, I'm sure I wouldn't now be living very happily 24/7 en femme. So let me add to that list, potentially life-changing ... if you want it to be 🙂
I'm quite local to you, just over the county border in Bedfordshire. Happy to chat anytime, either on here, or meeting up for coffee or lunch would be a definitely possibility from my point of view. Looking forward to getting to know you 🙂
Hugs,
Fiona xxx
@finallyfiona Hi Fiona! Thank you for the wonderful reply - what a lovely profile you have! And your pictures are wonderful - so beautiful! 🙂 Glad to know there are girls close to me. I think I have a long way before I'd consider leaving the house en femme, I haven't really tried any make-up, only a wig. Being 6'2" and loving the feel of high heels makes me very tall! It would be great to chat xx
@sometimesjennyj Friendship request happily accepted honey, do feel free to chat any time on PM 🙂
I know where you're coming from re the heels, I'm a six-foot sister myself and while I do love the way they make me look, I know I can't really go anywhere in anything taller than wedges.
@sometimesjennyj Welcome to CDH! Your experience is somewhat similar to mine,
Hugs,
Anna
Hi Jenny and welcome to this friendly area. I can't think we have been called a tribe before but I suppose we are. Your initiation is to get comfortable, get involved and ask away. You'll find plenty of advice and friends here. It's like a comfy chair, the more you use it the better it becomes.
Hi Jenny,
Welcome to CDH from across the pond. It’s nice to meet you.
Alice
Hi Jenny, welcome to CDH 🙂
Alicen
