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(@misty123)
Active Member     Kansas City, Missouri, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago


Hi everyone, I’m new to this group and fairly new to cross dressing.  I think maybe I’m not as far along in my journey as many others in this group, I currently only dress in my home - I have yet to go out in public.  I guess you could say I’m in the closet regarding this side of myself but I’m working on it.  I’m still working on certain aspects of cross dressing as well - still learning makeup skills for example :).  This community seems like a very friendly and supportive community which I think is just amazing - we could all use a little support I think.  I still need to update my profile and get familiar with this website but I’ll work on that too. 

Thanks Everyone,

Misty

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 1 year ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 4590

@misty123 

Hi Misty

It's good to see you here on the Forums 🙂

There's no 'right place to be' in terms of crossdressing, or indeed any kind of fixed trajectory that anyone should follow. Everyone has different circumstances; some would love to be able to dress more frequently than they do but are prevented from doing so by their home lives, others have no physical brake on their dressing and yet are happy to do so only occasionally. The 'I have a supportive wife and am able to dress freely and go out whenever I want' scenario, while highly desirable, is relatively rare.

I'm trans, I'm single, and I was 61 in September. I dress full time at home and have done so for many, many years. Until I was 59 I was completely closeted; I'd never told anyone I dressed, and no-one had ever found out. Now, largely thanks to the support and encouragement that I've encountered on this site, I'm out to my mother, my sister and my neighbour; I've had several makeovers; I've been to bars, clubs and even the theatre in three different cities; I've met several other CDH girls in person. All of that has happened in a relatively short space of time.

I count myself very fortunate that I found this place when I did. You're absolutely right when you say that it's friendly and supportive, and the sheer sense of release that comes from finally being able to talk to other people like yourself is quite wonderful.

Anyway, as usual I've rambled on!

There's lots to explore here. Have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything just shout 🙂

Hugs

Ellie x

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 10 months ago

Famed Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 1742

@misty123 

Hi, Misty, welcome to this wonderful community.

Your perception is spot on, you will find friendship, encouragement and support here and don't worry about where you are in your own journey, I guarantee there are other girls in the same position.

I agree 100% with what Ellie says about being able to talk to like-minded others, for well over 50 years, I felt alone and somehow "wrong" until 9 months ago when I found and joined CDH. Now, I've made real friends here and, with their support, I've spent two days, fully dressed, in public and I can't wait to do that again!

There's loads of experience among the girls so don't hesitate to ask if there's anything you need help with.

In the meantime, read through some forum topics and check some profiles, it'll help you to decide what to put in your own profile.

Allie x

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 6 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 645

@misty123 

Welcome to CDH Misty!

 You've arrived at the place to find answers. Make friends with caring, compassionate and understanding girls like you!

 We're about all things feminine. 

Explore this site for all kinds of information on all girly subjects. Videos, chat,and stories abound. 

Welcome to the Pink Fog!

Fran 🥰 

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 8 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1321

@misty123 Welcome to CDH!

Hugs,

Anna xx

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3348

@misty123 Welcome to CDH, Misty!

For someone who is new to dressing and who has some restrictions, I would recommend being careful and to take things slowly. In the meantime, read the forum and absorb as much information as you can. You will then be able to set priorities, such as figuring out which clothes to buy next, and focus on them.

I would love to hear more from you on the forums as you grow.

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(@Anonymous 98511)
Trusted Member
Joined: 2 months ago

Hi Misty glad that you are here. Everybody has a starting point and you came to the right place. I never posted on social media much but this community here makes it easy,lot of lovely ladies here.

Alexandria xx

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Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

Welcome to CDH nice to meet ya don’t worry about the closet there’s a lot of lady’s here still in them including myself as fare as skills don’t feel bad I learn new things every time I dress once you think you figure it out you do something different that looks even better and then it just gets addictive lol very supportive community here and safe so many lovely lady’s here watching are backs and helping in anyway they can so adventure around meet others and enjoy this crazy amazing life style we all share TC 

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome to CDH Misty. You will find it a very friendly place.

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Misty,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Misty!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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Duchess
(@sandie9832t)
Reputable Member     Santa Cruz, California, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

Hi Misty!

Welcome to CDH! I'm Sandie. 

You've come to the right place for love, support,  and friendship. 

And, the girls on here are very helpful and knowledgeable too.

I'm glad you decided to join us here.

Hugs, 

Sandie ❤️. 

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Misty as i see you have been here for a bit and we might have welcomed you already but thats ok as you are still a new sister and family member and also welcomed with open arms so have fun girl do some reading of the forums and posts and say hello sometime we all love to hear a new girl story so jump in the water is fine ..

Stephanie Bass

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