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Hi everyone,
I am a 55 year old 6'2" crossdresser from the UK. I've felt like this for as long as I can remember (well since I was 9 actually). Throughout my teens I started to dress more seriously and when I moved out to go to university I split my time quite evenly between being a boy and a girl. After university, I continued to lead 2 lives with some people told, some finding out, and others oblivious. I spent time out as Megan and dated a few people as Megan. Later, I told a couple of long term girlfriends but that didn't work out and we split up. Wind forward to my 30s and I married but have never told my wife about Megan, a decision that definitely causes me anxiety and depression but which I'm just too scared to change. Over the last year, my feelings of dysphoria have increased and I find myself thinking of elements of my life that I can change to give Megan more space. I'm currently losing the not inconsiderable weight I put on (thank you Mounjaro!) and have grown my nails for the first time in my life - how long is too long in stealth mode - I think manicured almond nails might be noticed? 😆
I'm looking forward to getting to know you and making new friends. @
Love Megan xx
@meganstephens hi and well come I am a fellow newbie. 38 6ft 4 Plus Size from Ireland and minus a partner kind of similar journey in many ways starting on my early/late teens, continued experimenting through uni. Stopped after nearly getting caught but after the last year working in a female dominated office 30 girls and me these dormont feelings have bern reawoken and so intense I resigned from my job 3 weeks ago because feelings were getting so intense and overwhelming I was becoming afraid I would end up in front of HR. Taking time out to figure stuff out and begin my journey
So just wanted to say welcome.
Welcome to CDH from across the pond Megan!
You're in the right place for all things feminine. You have a safe place here. With lots of growing and breathing room.
Compassionate, caring and understanding Sister's are we.
Welcome to the Pink Fog!
Fran 🥰
@gafran summed it perfectly in what i have experienced in such a short time I can atest to that such a warm, beautiful and caring welcome and i look forward to continuing my journey with all you very special girls as you have helped ease thr nerves and trepedition i had when i signed up so much so if i had the money to spare i would upgrade my membership to support this special community.
You're presence here is showing your support. We are so glad to have you here with us.
We will assist you in your journey in any way we can. Each step brings us to be our true selfs.
Fran 🥰
Hi, Megan and welcome to CDH, the best crossdresser community there is.
You'll be encouraged and supported by the girls wherever you decide your journey will take you. You'll see from the welcomes you've had, and the forums, how much we all love it here. This is now your community too so have a good look around and, if you have any questions, just shout.
Allie x
@meganstephens Hi Megan, and welcome. After many years, I finally came out to my wife and it helps a lot with the anxiety, and the reveal went better than I expected. I hope you can get the support you need from CDH.
@meganstephens Welcome Megan from another UK girl. I'm 6' 00" so not too far under you. It's interesting to hear you say that your dysphoria is increasing. It's generally agreed that these feelings grow with age. I'm sorry to hear that you are finding dressing difficult because your wife doesn't know about your girly side. Mine doesn't either, but my solution, if that's the correct word, is not to dress at all, apart from a couple of professional makeovers. Neither of us have the ideal solution.
One thing you can be assured of though is that your participation in this wonderful community will help you immeasurably in dealing with your feelings, and working out how to get a little more femme time, so dive in and keep us up to date, ask questions and enjoy your new sisterhood.
Hugs, Chrissie xx.
Glad to meet you Megan welcome to CDH. This community has been a blessing to me, a lot of lovely ladies.I know you might be scared to tell your SO but the question is what if she finds out. Before I got married I let my SO know that I was a CD, it wasn't till recently that I accepted my true self with the help of these lovely ladies.A
Alexis Grace xx
@alexisgrace second that cany beleivr how welcomr i have been made sincr joining a few days ago both with posts on my forum and private messages. Its been truely special and has helped easy some of my nerves and trepedition in putting myself out thrre here. So for any girls who missed my thanks and appreciation for thr warm wrlcome thank you from bottom of my heart and looking forward to chatting with you all.
Hi Megan and welcome.
You are in a wonderful and supportive area. I am sure that you will get the support you need and hope that you benefit and enjoy your time here.
Hi Megan nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As there is a wealth of knowledge here to learn from so keep looking around and reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down there femme road they are on in life.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Megan as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Welcome to CDH Megan. You will find it is a very supportive environment here. We're happy to have you.
Thank you everybody for the lovely welcome and kind thoughts. I'm looking forward to getting to know you all better xx
Hi Megan,
Welcome to CDH. Congratulations on your weight loss.
Alice
Megan -
Welcome to CDH
XOXO
Suzanne
Hi Megan - Welcome to CDH from me in Manchester 🙂
Welcome Megan to CDH nice to meet you ☺️
Hi Megan, and welcome to CDH from another UK girl, I'm not too far from London 🙂 Sorry I'm a little late with this post, but I don't tend to get quite as much time on here these days as I used to.
You've already seen from the welcomes you've received what a warm, friendly, supportive and encouraging sisterhood we are here. This all adds up to a force for good that can be absolutely life-changing, in all sorts of ways. You'll find this figures quite prominently in the stories of many girls here, myself included. If you might be approaching a crossroads in your life, be reassured that you're in the right place to gain the understanding and confidence you need to take the right path for you, even if that looks dark and scary right now.
Looking forward to getting to know you, through your forum posts, or feel free to drop me a PM anytime.
Hugs,
Fiona xxx
Ello Megan, very nice to meet you
Hi Megan!
Welcome to CDH!
I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.
Again, welcome to CDH!
Catherine
