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Hello everyone, my name is Christine and I'm new here. I'm 48, married and closeted. I did tell my wife about my dressing when it was dormant and not an issue. However, I'm back to actively dressing in secret. I'll need to decide what to do about the situation with her soon.
I have been dressing since a young age and had a long period in my 30s of very active dressing. I lived alone and had a job with disposable income and I made the most of it. I lived 100% dressed at home sometimes for extended periods and had a very large wardrobe so I could dress and transform completely. For all that however, I only went out in public dressed one time and I will always regret that.
So that was great and I'm happy I had the chance to live out my fantasies that way. But time moves on, the urge to dress faded (although I'm always interested in fem stuff), I met someone, got married, had a family. The dressing went away... until it came back, and here I am 🙂
You arecin the right place. Cdh is just such a warm fantastic supportive place with lots of girls like youself.
Message me if you would like to talk.
Sammatha x
Christine welcome. To me it's a mystery why something like this suddenly crops back up out of nowhere after many many years being dormant. Never really got totally into dressing but in my teens it was very much in my mind. But now after 40 plus years I've embaced it and after opening to my wife who knew nothing about it became very supportive and now do enjoy having Stephanie into my life. Cdh helped and now your part of a wonderful community to express yourself to who you would love to be. That lady deep inside and with the company of many caring and understanding gals. So start enjoying all that we have and in a place that really supports and accepting for everyone. Very nice to meet you and have a wonderful journey ahead.
Stephanie 🌹
well thanks so much, that's lovely of you to say 🙂
Welcome to CDH.Enjoy all this site has to offer.
Hi Christine , a fabulous place to meet other girls 🌺 Tiff
Welcome Christine. Your story is similar to a lot of us here. You will enjoy CDH with a lot of support in a safe environment.
Hi Christine !
Welcome to CDH.
Yes, there are many here with lives very similar to yours. I appreciate your into. It gives a good sense of who you are. If you carry that willingness to share to the forums, you'll be making friends with the wonderful ladies here in no time. Don't be shy, were a friendly bunch.
Btw I follow secrets in lace on my alt-imstagram. Love their stuff !
-Hugs
Autumn
Christine warm welcome to CDH. You have come to right place
Hugs
Amanda
Hello and welcome Christine! Common theme, the dressing went away and then it came back. I think most of us can relate to that statement. I know for me, the older I get the more I realize it’s never going away completely, nor do I want it to. Emily is as much a part of me as Bryan is, maybe more. The time I get to be fully engulfed in all that dressing brings, are the happiest moments and ones I cherish. Enjoy!
Christine, thank you for sharing - your story sounds so very much like my own life. I'm in my early 50's, married with two grown children. And I love to wear women's clothes, make up, nail polish, etc. when no one is home - yup a closeted cross-dresser. I did attend a Philly T-Gurl event in May 2018 and had a very nice time with an accepting and fun group of cross-dressers. Again, I enjoyed your post - welcome! Jaycee
Welcome Christine!