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Fairly new to this at 49 years old. Definitely not open about it, except with my fiance, who is completely supportive and actually rather turned on by it. She even did a little makeup session with me once (just eyeliner). I've recently been accepting my feminine side more, and decided I'm probably actually genderfluid. The only thing I've done until recently is wear men's panties that are a lot like women's panties, and a little short skirt, but I bought my first pair of actual women's panties the other day and love how they look and love how they feel. I've always been somewhat overweight and have always had moobs, which were once a great source of shame. But that has changed recently as I bought my first bra (42B!) and love how it feels. Bought a couple of sexy nighties too and love them as well.
I don't really look that feminine, definitely would not pass, as I have a beard, a balding head and a lot of chest hair, and big belly doesn't help either lol. Sometime I'd think I'd like to get a cute dress but for now at least, I'm keeping all my feminine clothing underneath my regular men's clothes.
Anyway, rambling on, just wanted to introduce myself 🙂
Erica ,not at all your not rambling at all, I enjoyed reading your intro. welcome , very nice having you with us. Many of us feel the same way looking at both genders and figuring which one is Suited to you and deciding which one is fitting to who you are. Being feminine with such feelings is the most important not worrying how you look as you say a man in a dress even in a beard, mustache or what ever what’s important is how you really feel inside. Isn’t it wonderful when you have support from someone so close to ones heart . Having your finance acceptance certainly makes this journey most fulfilling. I too enjoy this from my wife but with full agreement as she needs to be a important part in these decisions. Liberty’s are a blessing and never taken for granted . You now have many here too to enjoy expressing yourself with total acceptance and a confinance to explore more. Happy to welcome you and enjoy your time with us.
Stephanie 🌹
Hi Erica and welcome to CDH. I'm happy you joined our happy little group. Have a look around the site and where you feel comfortable, join in.
I'm not genderfluid but being an androgyne we're sharing the same taxi. And I'm a firm believer that a post is as long as it needs to be to say what needs to be said. Any time is a great time to really start exploring your interests, no matter what they are. I'm happy to hear that your fiancee (two E's is a woman) is completely supportive. Not all the ladies have that.
Hi Erica, Teralynn here. Welcome to our wonderful online community Luv! I am really, really, really glad that you found us and decided to become a member. Why you might ask? First you are fairly new to crossdressing so being a member here will be a most beneficial thing for you. Next, you have a fiancée that you have already told about your crossdressing which is something I always advise. Plus she is supportive (the earlier you tell them the better the chances are they will be) and that is a wonderful thing. Solves so many potential problems that can ruin a relationship. Finally you appear to be a a very pleasant person who happily embraces your crossdressing journey so far and it should be a joyful thing especially with a significant other to support you. So you hit the trifecta of crossdressing Luv! Whether you do it a little or a lot I hope you continue to enjoy your crossdressing journey and your membership here. My best to you and your wonderful supportive fiancée! If I can ever be of service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. A post on my home profile page wall will get the fastest response. - Blessings
Hi, The most important thing sounds very much like a klesha but you feel better when you being true to yourself. It's not important that you look fantastic but that you feel fantastic. The former is driven by others whilst the latter is totally up to you. Hopefully you will find the community here helpful and supportive just reach out and someone will offer a helping hand.
Stay safe
hi girl, you are just in the perfect place for us, women like you, welcome and enjoy the experience hugs and kisses a lot felicity
Thanks to all you lovely ladies for the kind words of support ❤️
Hi Erica,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Welcome Erica!
