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Hello world 🙂
My name is Delana (when I am en femme).
I had kept my crossdressing an absolute secret from everyone since I was 11 or 12 years old.
Now, in my early / mid 30s, after weeks of deliberation, I finally came out about crossdressing to my common law wife. Through years of hiding, accumulating clothing, purging, dressing alone, and feeling so isolated -- I finally feel free 🙂
She has been amazingly supportive, and in fact in the last week I went out and about with her en femme (for the first time in my life) ... twice!
I realized that I can't keep this side of me hidden away anymore. Because I *love* being Delana, and I want to share her with the people I care about 🙂
Hi Delana
Welcome to CDH, a large and welcoming family.
It's a pleasure to meet you here.
You are in a place where it is really difficult to feel alone and abandoned, you will be able to find all the "sisterhood" you need.
Here you can exchange good opinions and information and find support to move forward in your female adventure.
Here you can have fun participating in forums, polls and questionnaires.
Here no one is judged, but always welcomed with a warm hug.
I'm Greta, I'm a 57 year old CD/TG person who is living with extreme happiness the choice to undergo hormone replacement therapy; my life has been complicated for too long by having to hide my gender identity... not that it's easier now, but at least I've happily taken possession of my way of being.
When I'm alone at home or when I'm at work or I know I don't have LGBTQ+phobic guests, I'm Greta and I live my femininity freely, but if I'm elsewhere in places where I know I'm surrounded by dull and ignorant people I'm dressed in unisex clothes but of course I'm wearing my women's underwear.
XOXO from Italy
Greta
Hi Delana welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family,
I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on I'm still in the closet to my wife and family,
I'm sorry i can't meet up with you for a coffee I'm on the other side of the pond in the UK, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X
Hugs Rozalyn X
Hey Delana
Welcome to CDH.
Thank you for sharing your story.
Although I have dressed full time at home for many, many years now I was also doing so in total secrecy until this summer when I came out to my Mother and one of my sisters. Screwing up the courage to do that was difficult to say the least, but the outcome in both cases was ... to put it mildly ... joyous. The feeling of isolation has gone 🙂
I've been a member here since the very beginning of July. The girls here are so welcoming and supportive that this now feels like a second home to me. I hope that you have the same experience.
Hugs
Ellie x
Hi Delana,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Delana happy to welcome you and being excited about this you have certainly started this journey right. And a big congrats on your first times venturing out. It's a extremely exciting but a scary time too for us to indure. From someone just starting to the well experience everyone here enjoys the support and acceptance that is truly unique. Be free to express yourself with many like yourself and with no judgements. Love to chat and share stories and make new friendships. So get comfortable and enjoy being part of a special place that really cares about everyone that passes through our doors. Very nice meeting you.
Stephanie
Welcome to CDH Delana. There are a lot of friendly, helpful ladies here who can help you along your crossdressing journey.
Welcome to CDH and congratulations on your amazing courage! You are doing it the right way and everything should be easier from this point on. That doesn’t mean you won’t have your ups and downs but being honest with the ones you truly love is the way to go, and NOT what I did. Trust me, the longer you wait to tell a significant other, the worse the outcome. So congratulations and welcome!
Welcome, I have so many friends in Canada. You will find this sisterhood a ,ost comfortable place.
Hi Delana nice to meet you having computer problems and trying to hook up new one will see you tonight ..
Stephanie Bass
Welcome to cdh Delana, hope you enjoy it here. I’m just east of Toronto.
Ashley
Hello Delana,
Welcome to our CrossDresser Heaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.
The Warmth, Compassion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.
Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrossDresser Heaven.
At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via Private Message (PM). You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.
Also, you may find what you need from: The Help Center or our Ambassadors by using the links in the Top R/H Drop Down 3 bar Menu.
Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat (PC), Groups, Additional Photo Allowance, etc.
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Regards,
Terri Anne, Ambassador
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Hi again Delana got it working yea so pleased you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here .. You know as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. As there is a wealth of knowledge here to access and learn from so look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about there journeys as they travel down the femme road they are on.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Delana as she travels down her own girly road in life .. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. So again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Happy to hear you are getting out an$ about. It truly is liberating. I’ve been out and about since 2010 and never looked back. My partner is also all in.
Hugs, Jillleanne
Hi Delana!
Welcome to CDH!
I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.
You will also find many have had a similar journey to yours, you are not alone in the ups and downs of accepting oneself as a crossdresser, but like you, for me once I accepted it, well the journey from there has been one wonderful ride!
Again, welcome to CDH!
Catherine
