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I am 68 years young and have been crossdressing since my early teens. I still get such a feeling of joy and peace dressed up in satin and lace, wearing high heels and pantyhose. Feeling girly is so satisfying! It feels good to share this feeling with others and I hope joining Crossdressers Heaven is a good start to increasing these feelings.
I have been married for 38 years and have two grown children. No.. my wife doesn't approve of "all this". While I've never told her about my "hobby", she seems to know more than she lets on. I don't think that is tacet approval as she is somewhat old fashioned and rigid when it comes to gender fluidity. For the sake of family, I've repressed my feminine desires.. until now. However, I need to keep these feelings private, even though I fully realize that I am "coming out" to all of you!
I am at least bisexual, and could also be considered pansexual... I've been in the arms of at least one t-girl, and definitely enjoyed it! 😉 I believe sexuality is a spectrum for most of us, whether we want to believe that or not. I think most Alpha males are simply afraid to explore their 'dark side', but the world is changing, and I see many men embracing what "we" are more and more.
I am not sure what else to add. I am really looking forward to chatting with all of you. Thank you so much for being here for me!
Hiya Kitty and welcome aboard! Thanks for sharing your story and I hope to see you around the chat/forums!
- M
Hello Kitty
(Sorry…… had to say it)
Your intro is very well written.
Nice summation of some of my own thoughts that I haven’t so well defined.
Hope we chat sometime.
Lizzie
Hi kitty and welcome to CDH. Like you I love the feel of nylons on freshly shaved legs. I am alone and can dress when I want. I’m sorry your wife is not more approving of your hobby. I know there are still a lot of transphobic people out there. My own brother is one so I have to keep this part of my life secret. Too bad, it’s only clothes.
Welcome youngster. Chat me when you settle in. Meantime enjoy the welcoming hugs of all your sisters, you are home.
Hey girl
Satin, lace, pantyhose, heels. What could be better?
Now you've put that thought in my head, that's my evening sorted.
Welcome to CDH! I hope you'll love it here as much as I have. It's a very friendly, welcoming and supportive place.
Have fun poking around every corner of the site. I've been a member since early July and I'm still finding bits I didn't know about 🙂
Hugs
Ellie x
*stops typing and makes a beeline for the wardrobe*
Hi Kitty,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hello Kitty welcome to CDH I am glad you have shared a part of who you are. Having found us you have made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or level of closeted or public expression and or personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression from differing levels of crossdressing to those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of self acceptance and expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or space were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are that you are not alone and this is a place where you can feel safe to express and share part of yourself as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, a man who dresses as a woman, if it makes you a better complete human being expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. As you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. Being here helps not only yourself but helps others gain acceptance and confidence. I am happy you have made the step to be here. Welcome!
Hugs April
Hi Kitty Kitty sorry had to get it out of my system.. Ha Ha nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girlfriend there are so many things to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from so many ladies telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Kitty as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. Please do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better.. So girlfriend once more nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
April, I can’t thank you enough for that heart warming message. This is something I’ve needed to do for awhile. It feels so good to feel like a woman and feels so good to share that feeling with someone like you. I only wish I had done this while I still had my youth. I had great fun visiting bars where the ‘girls’ hung out when I was young. I only wish I had the courage to be one of them. Now I will take at least tiny steps in that direction. Anyway better late than never! Have a great night!
Kisses and hugs!!
Kitty
Thank you for your kind words but I liked’ hello Kitty’ better than’ hi Kitty’ lol… I think you must have changed it.
I can feel my sense of humor coming back thanks to your lovely girls!
Kisses and hugs
Kitty
Hi Kitty!
Welcome to CDH!
CDH is a supportive, encouraging, helpful community.
Like Ellie said, satin, lace, panty hose, heels, what can be better?
I am a full time at home private dresser (no SO) who absolutely loves it so I can relate to your feelings.
Enjoy exploring CDH as your comfort level dictates.
Catherine
Welcome to CDH, Kitty!
Maybe reading the forums will help you cope with not being able to dress up. Good luck!
Kitty welcome and enjoy reading your intro.. you have certainly started this journey right. From someone just starting to the well experience everyone here enjoys the support and acceptance that is truly unique. Be free to express yourself with many like yourself and with no judgements. No matter at what level of experience one is everyone is having fun expressing their passions in a caring and supportive place. Learn as you go and meet with our ladies to chat ,share stories and with some develop lasting friendships. So much to embrace so relax and enjoy being part of a community of same mined souls all accepting each other for who we are. Very happy meeting you. Hugs
Stephanie..
Welcome to CDH Kitty! I think you’re going to enjoy it here.
hugs
AnnaBeth
