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Hi Everyone. I'm Natalie 🙂

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Lady
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(@nataliecd)
Estimable Member     Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hello everyone. I found that I joined this site around 2 years ago before I really dove deep into the community aspect of crossdressing and gender identity and I decided to finally introduce myself and share some of my journey with others.

I started dressing at a young age by "borrowing" my mom's clothes. When I moved out, I got some of my own clothes and would dress up when I could. However, I generally focused on underdressing without getting far enough to fully present as a woman.

A few years ago, I met a wonderful woman who knew about this side of me from the beginning. As such, she really coaxed me out of my shell and I have had numerous trips out in public as Natalie without any real issues. She shops with me and helps me with my makeup (though I have to say, I am getting pretty good 🙂 )

That woman is now my fiancé and she still helps me along my journey. Throughout it all, I have been trying to figure out if I am just a crossdresser or maybe something more? At this point, I don't believe I am trans but I am starting to think I am firmly in the side of genderfluid or non-binary. I know labels ultimately don't matter but it is something I would like to understand about myself more.

Hopefully being part of this community and sharing my experiences and journey can not only allow me to find some new friends but also allow me to figure myself out a little more. 

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2182

@nataliecd 

Hi, Natalie and welcome to CDH, the warmest, friendliest and most supportive crossdresser community you'll find anywhere!

Hopefully being part of this community and sharing my experiences and journey can not only allow me to find some new friends but also allow me to figure myself out a little more. 

Without a shadow of a doubt! As you spend more time here, you'll see evidence of that everywhere. You'll also see how many of us have made real changes in our lives thanks to the encouragement and support of the community generally and from friends we've made here specifically.

You're right about labels but I've found that where they have value is in changing mindsets, certainly in my case, from "them" to "us". I've always adhered to the credo espoused by Groucho Marx, "I refuse to join any club that would accept me as a member". Until I found CDH!

Like many, I hesitated before clicking the button but the welcomes I received and the interactions I saw quickly dispelled any doubts. This is a unique community, everyone is genuinely warm and friendly and there's no safer place to share with like-minded sisters.

If you need anything, just shout and we'll do our best to help.

Allie x 

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(@caroline2k)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 610

@nataliecd Hi Natalie and welcome 🙂

As Allie says, you should be able to find support aplenty here, and if not solutions, there'll be lots of answers to any questions you might want to ask.

You are fortunate to have your fiancée on board from the outset. To have that support and love is to be cherished 🙂

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1126

@nataliecd 

 Welcome to CDH Natalie!

 Your among caring, understanding and compassionate girls like yourself. We will support and assist you in any way we can. 

 We're about all things feminine. 

 Explore this site to find friendships, chat and answers to your questions. 

 Welcome to the Pink Fog!

 Fran 🥰 

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Managing Ambassador
(@bellaz76)
Joined: 4 months ago

Prominent Member     London, Middlesex, United Kingdom
Posts: 351

@nataliecd hey 👋 welcome 🙏 congratulations on your engagement I'm so pleased you have someone so supportive- I myself am the wife of a CD member and I adore being here , if your fiancé would ever like to join up to we are building our wives and Significant others group and would love to add her and perhaps share experiences. Anyway the offer is there if she and you were comfortable with it. 

I am so pleased you are here and hope to chat with you some more soon ❤️🥰

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Lady
(@nataliecd)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Minnesota, United States of America
Posts: 73

@bellaz76 Thank you for the offer. One of the reasons I decided to pursue the community here is because my partner wants to be more involved in the community and the other site I am part of has shown a pretty hostile environment (at least from the mod side of things) to the point where I don't even want to really be part of that site anymore. I will bring this up to her and see what her thoughts are. Thank you so much!

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4010

@nataliecd The safe environment here helps to make many members stay comfortable while being on-line. I hope that you both find that that is true for you, too.

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Managing Ambassador
(@bellaz76)
Joined: 4 months ago

Prominent Member     London, Middlesex, United Kingdom
Posts: 351

@nataliecd I’m sorry you have had that experience with the other site. I know you will not have that here, this place is safe, and the managers and moderators keep an eye on things. 
I hope you enjoy it here and please do reach out if you need any support or have any questions.

happy you are here 🥰

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Lady
(@joannajoy)
Joined: 2 months ago

Reputable Member     British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 204

@nataliecd Hello Natalie, you are part of a great place here… so welcome !! Hugs … jo

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Duchess
(@mkat3874)
Joined: 4 months ago

Reputable Member     Northeast GA , Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 192

@nataliecd 

Hi Natalie, I can relate to your story in many ways.  I've been married for 27 years and my wife has known from the start. She encouraged me when I was battling myself.  This community has helped me greatly to better understand who I am.  I'm sure you'll find the same!

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Lady
(@nataliecd)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Minnesota, United States of America
Posts: 73

@mkat3874 Having a good community to grow in and help with acceptance is awesome and is one of the biggest reasons I want to be here. Having a supportive partner at home and in life is even greater. I am glad to have one and I am glad you do as well 🙂

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4010

@nataliecd Welcome to CDH, Natalie!

Natalie is a name that's linked to December, rebirth and fresh starts. Seems apropos for you.

With a very supportive partner and a desire to grow as a CD, CDH should be a valuable asset for you.

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(@moniquemn)
Joined: 7 years ago

Trusted Member     Farmington, Minnesota, United States of America
Posts: 41

@nataliecd hi from a fellow mn girl. welcome to the site it is a very helpful to all of us. love Moniquemn

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(@jessicacynthia)
Joined: 2 months ago

Reputable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 188

@nataliecd Welcome to CDH.

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome Natalie,

I suspect we all have those thoughts and here is the place to read experiences  of others which will help you along.

So happy you have found a supportive partner that you can share your life with.

Enjoy your time here.

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Nice to have you join in Natalie. This is a very welcoming, supportive community.

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Duchess
(@joannat)
Reputable Member     Gwynedd, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 months ago

Hi Natalie, and welcome to this community!

Like you, I am lucky to have a supportive SO, which makes life so much less complicated! 

Joanna 💕

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Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome Natalie to this wonderful community nice to meet you wonderful to hear you have support and the courage to be out and about just be true to yourself and honest to your soon to be SO all things aside I truly everything works out for ya TC 

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

HI Natalie so nice to meet you again as I might have welcomed you back when you joined here a while ago .. You know you are a sister and family member to us all so dont be shy we all love to chat so keep in touch .. Many ladies here have supportive wifes here as myself included have been marries 42 years and wife has known Stephanie for all of them .. My wife is also a member have fun dear and please dont be a stranger really girl we dont bite  well there are a few girls that do be careful (ha ha ) just kidding girlfriend hope to see you soon for a chat..

Stephanie Bass

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Nathalie,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Honorable Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

🍒 Hi Nathalie 

    Welcome to CDH ,  I'm so glad to.see your here ..

    Good Luck ,  I think you will enjoy it Here !!!

   Huggs 

Stephanie 👠 

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Natalie,

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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