Hi everyone! New here and from RI

Sounds like we're at about the same point in the journey.  This is indeed a good place to start.  Friends, insight, opportunity to share, it's checked all those boxes for me.  I sent you a friend request, lets keep in touch.  Message me any time!

💖Lola

Thanks so much:-) I just read your profile. I think it’s awesome you are able to share this with your wife. I haven’t gotten to that yet, well one night I slept with a pocket bra, but it was dark. Lol.

I have since acquired some really nice new forms and am slowly working my way up to wearing them around her. She admittedly isn’t sure how she’ll react, so that’s a little scary. Don’t want to push her away.

Hi Evie,
Am Jennifer Ramirez, it's great to have you here CDH your among sister's & friends.
Anytime you want to chat look me up.

Again welcome
Hugs
Jennifer Ramirez

Evie..welcome, happy you have join our site. This is a place of knowledge and understanding. Know there's no pressures to move along faster than your comfortable with. Open up to what makes you feel happy. Wonderful. To explore, to learn all about your passions. Many beautiful ladies here all willing to offer advice and encouragement to help make your journey fulfilling. Looking for friends many here to meet and always willing to share stories and experiences. It a wonderful place to start your search to heaven. Very nice to meet you and if ever needing anything or questions please be free to PM me. Love to help.

Stephanie 🌹

Thank you, Stephanie:-)

Hi Evie,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

Evie, I meant this to be a response to your reply to me earlier, so for context, here's what I'm referring to:

Thanks so much:) I just read your profile. I think it’s awesome you are able to share this with your wife. I haven’t gotten to that yet, well one night I slept with a pocket bra, but it was dark. Lol.

My response:

Absolutely, take it slow with your dear wife.  It's scary for her too.  I know for me I am excited about exploring my femme side and I want to share everything with her, but for her it's a life change that she's been awesome about but also has insecurities.  I came out to my wife in a very direct way as you may have read in my bio.  What I didn't put in there is I hadn't spoken a word to her about it before I walked out in 4" heels, lacy panties and fishnets.  I'm lucky she accepted me, it could have gone really wrong.  But we're occasionally a bit "adventurous" together so it worked.  Not recommended for most couples. LOL!   I do choose to keep a lot of my dressing away from my wife, not because I have to but to not overwhelm her.  As my dressing as gotten more feminine and she's seen that this is a long term thing and I really want to be as "passable" as I can it's gotten more difficult for her.  When I got my breast forms I showed them to her in the box and that was ok but she did not ask to see them on me.  When I did wear them for the first time I could tell it was too much too soon.  She was kind, joked with me about "go big of go home" and even touched them but she was over it quickly.  So I gave her some space and now it's fine.   I won't say she likes seeing me in them but she doesn't dislike it.

It sounds like you are being very gentle with your wife, I'm sure it will work out just fine.  Most important HAVE FUN!!

Hi, hello, and welcome to Crossdresser Heaven! You have just arrived at the best and greatest CD site on the web! CDH has tons of very helpful crossdressing information, tips, and support from real people just like you! We highly encourage new CDH members to ask questions no matter how trivial you think they may be, as we are happy to answer to the best of our ability. We also love a well written profile, this helps everyone to get to know you better as the beautiful woman you are!  We hope that you enjoy your stay here at CDH, as we are happy to have you as a part of our wonderful crossdressing community.

Thank you, Samantha Roarke

Hi Evie welcome to CDH

Hugs

Donna

Good advice Lola to take it slow and easy:-)

Thank you for sharing your information, it helps a lot to see what others experience.

I'm an open book.  I've gotten so much help here I just want to give back.  But I tend to go on and on too.  Feel free to tell me to dial it back if necessary. 🤣

💖Lola

Evie 🌸 glad to have you join us! 💎

Hi Evie welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you, I'm sure you will have lots of questions to ask so just ask and the girls will get back to you, we are like one big happy family on here x so come on in and join the family x

We have lots of new girls who are exploring their new lives, I'm sure you will get lots of help and advice from everyone on here x

Hugs Roz xxxxx

Hi Evie Welcome to CDH I believe you have the right place to explore that part of you that needs some attention. You will discover that there is a umbrella that covers a wide spectrum of people from many different countries. We represent three generations of people that have one thing in common We find pleasure when we express our selves in the feminine gender. So the first question is always WHY? There are so any answers available. I believe it even confuses the so called experts that have tried to study this behavior. Its like so many other things in life. It is different for every one that has this desire, want, need whatever word best fits you. Trying to explain it to your wife or your SO. She will never understand it but may accept this is a part of you and maybe even  support it if it makes you happy. We also represent those who want to express themselves alone in private just some times then there are those who just said screw it I want to express it full time all the time. There are many of us that are married and their wives do not know and there are some who are married and there wives want nothing to do with it, Then there are the very fortunate members that are married and their wives are very supportive. There are also members that enjoy the company of men and even their SO does not know about this part of them, We are a very interesting community that enjoys supporting each other in our desire to confirm our feminine gender identity. Enjoy your membership

Stephanie