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Hi from a self-proclaimed hottie 😉

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(@ashleyrocky)
Eminent Member     NYC, New York, United States of America
Joined: 10 months ago

Hi everyone! I am so glad I found this online community. I am 32 MTF from New York. I am closeted..as in no one I know knows (at least that’s what I believe ha!). I tried crossdressing early in childhood, then forgot about it, and it picked it up again in my 20s. Like many here, it’s grown on me and I now view the femme side of me in very positive light and something I enjoy and cherish a lot. 

I am close to passable.. as long as I don’t speak lol. I have tried going out en femme a few times, driving around, quick trip to a drive through, hopin and out at a grocery store. Last year I got a chance to visit a different city and for the first time I went out fully en femme, completely shaved, makeup, wig, beautiful and smart dresses, the works! Was with another CD and that made the whole experience so much better and calmed my nerves. Loved every moment of it. Got a few smiles and had a couple of women approach me with random small talk. 

I would love to continue to do the same more often on trips to other cities. And hopefully go out with other CDs on more trips. 

Looking forward to getting to know you all more through this community. 

Hugs and kisses!!

Ashley

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Lady
(@leainvancouver)
Joined: 1 year ago

Prominent Member     Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 379

@ashleyrocky Welcome Ashley! I’m glad you found us. Being a crossdresser can be lonely when you don’t have a tribe. This is your tribe! We are all very approachable and helpful. There is a vast amount if wisdom and tips for young hotties like yourself to turn you into the woman that lives inside you.

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3998

@ashleyrocky Welcome to CDH, Ashley!

I, for one, would be interested in reading about your new adventures.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5189

@ashleyrocky 

Hi Ashley

Welcome to CDH from a self-proclaimed luke warmie.

You've just joined a very supportive community. The girls here are amazing and it's a great place to make friends.

Going out and about with another CD is on the bucket list for me; it looks like it may be happening as early as this summer, or perhaps the beginning of autumn 🙂

There's lots to explore here. Have fun doing that, and if you need help with anything just shout.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@ashleyrocky 

Hi Ashley, welcome to CDH.

We're glad you found us too! This is the best place on the net to talk about all things crossdressing with lots of like minded ladies.

You've probably already had a bit of a look around the site,  and discovered it to be pretty lively. There's always lots going on, so jump in whenever you like. And don't be afraid to ask questions!

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(@Anonymous 95305)
Estimable Member
Joined: 11 months ago

Hi Ashley! Welcome to CDH! You will love being part of this community and getting to know all the lovely women in it! You get to ask questions as well as answer questions. Join the discussions on the forums ( they get pretty lively sometimes) and learn so much from articles! And we all love to talk so send a messages!

I hope you enjoy it all as much as I have. 

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Ashley,

Welcome to CDH.  

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Ashley nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl there is a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from so start by doing some reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Ashley as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Baroness Annual
(@secretpassions)
Noble Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Ashley,

Welcome to this friendly supportive community!

It’s good to meet you,

Heart Lara

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Ashley.

Welcome to CDH. This is a great tribe!

Keep having fun with crossdressing. The woman always prevails. 

Gisela

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Ashley -

Welcome to CDH

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@justnikki)
Prominent Member     Seattle, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Welcome, Ashley! Seize the hotness!

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5189

@justnikki 

Calidum carpe!

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Lady
(@ashleyrocky)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     NYC, New York, United States of America
Posts: 6

@justnikki sounds like you should call yourself hottiejusthottie 😉 

 

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I suggest that you find you, the person you want to be and not what others expect you to be. That "person" may change over time, un fact she probably will as we all do CD or not.

While I.like to dress en femme and be as passable as I reasonably can, I do not really care if I pass. I know that I pass at a glance, but not up close, and certainly not in one on one conversation, but I don't care. My hope is that anybody I encounter up close.walks away with an apprecistion that I.am.a.guy in a dress, but I am.an otherwise.normal and nice human being and that I will have opened somebody up to the gact that CDs are othwrwise normal.people.

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Lady
(@ashleyrocky)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     NYC, New York, United States of America
Posts: 6

@jjandme so true. I have found CDs to be some of the most generous and kind people. Here’s an example.. go look at any online discussion on any topic and you’ll find egregious amounts of fighting and yelling at each other. But on the topic of crossdressing specifically I’ve really mostly found support and care. 

Also on you comment on not caring about passing.. what a great attitude! I love your spirits. Cheers! 

Kisses,

Ashley

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Duchess
(@karla1958)
Honorable Member     Not in New Orleans, Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Ashley and welcome!

Heart

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Ashley!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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