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Hi I’m Jo... brand new here. My first experiences were as an 11 year old, Dad worked a lot, two sisters younger then I and a step mom who treated me a lot differently then my sisters... at some point I longed to be female, thinking things would be different at home. Found all those sexy, soft , delicate items we all desire in our lives. I would wear and try on lingerie as often as possible. It has stayed with me all my life. Met and fell in love with my wife , we married at 19. That was 32 years ago! My wife often would let me wear her panties. For past 4 years I wear only Silk men’s briefs , very close to panties... I am fairly well endowed so really tight panties don’t work well for me. My wife is still so very beautiful after all these years and 4 kids that we have raised together... I am dabbling in lingerie on my own time, my wife doesn’t want to be part of this at all . My wife let’s me wear satin camis in bed ...and we are working up to Silk nighties... just taking baby steps... this desire to dress fully has been with me all my life. We talked about this many years back and it was a definite no, and I didn’t push it. This past winter I started laser hair removal , wife was on board sort of at the start but not at the end of 3rd session... she prefers my chest hairy... I have DDD , degenerative Disc disease... so I wear corsets very often , of course they are gorgeous and satin. I am not sure that I could really pass so at this time I’m just underdressing. I love my wife and our marriage is so strong I don’t want to jeopardize it so we just carry on with baby steps. Thanks for letting me be part of this, I have had time to ponder some of the wealth of knowledge you all so willingly share and it’s helped me to start figuring out me... if that’s even possible... thanks
Deraest Jo,
Welcome to an amazing place of comfort. I am pretty new here myself but am already feeling at home. At this crazy time in our world, we all need a source of well being.
Look around and make your self at home.
I would love to be friends. So I will send you a friend request.
I would enjoy chatting with you, if you like.
Stay safe and healthy.
Love and Best Wishes,
Robynanne
Hi Jo, and welcome to CDH.
Sounds like you are taking the right approach with respect to your wife. Slow and steady, lots of communication, openness and honesty.
Best regards,
D.
Hi, Jo
Welcome to CDH!
I'm confident that you'll find this to be a place where you can be free to express your desires.
PM anytime.
🙂
Jo, nice to see your post. Happy to welcome you . Here we enjoy experiencing a life split between two worlds . One that many of us have indured since nature decided who we are and then through life’s paths were finding that nature just didn’t get it right. To be who we are is special and taking the best qualities from all parts is important and being here shows this. Having a wife who is supportive even in little ways is wonderful but not having that certainly makes it difficult to express ourselves. For you she's seams to be somewhat cautious in accepting you which is all one can ask for. For me it took awhile as she tolerated it but wasn't too happy at first. She was very concerned about family finding out as well as our friends. In time with patients and her guidelines she started allowing me to bring out more of Stephanie and then began showing a more comfortablitly towards me. I too dress in nighties most nights and now allows me to fully dress every so offern and we share some beautiful evenings together. Like you I've happily married a very long time with 4 kids which thankfully all have flew the coup so being empty nesters gives us all the time. As she always feared for me being discovered by the kids but not now. Maybe in time when kids do move on she might allow Jo to be out more. But now enjoy Cdh and with the ladies that reside here . This a site is where support and acceptance helps motivate much of what were all about. Enjoy the best from both worlds and know that this place is a big part of how we are and who we feel to be . Very nice meeting you… hugs
Stephanie 🌹
Thanks so much Stephanie... it’s nice to be among others who have and are going thru the same struggles.
Thank you, I am truly blessed to be in the relationship I am, I will never sacrifice it
Thank you Robynanne, I would very much like to chat some time ... work is insanely busy for me the next month, but I will try to reach out... don’t let me forget
My marriage is my life, always!!!
Hi Jo,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hi! Thank you for sharing such a genuine, sweet story! I’m also new here and enjoying everything CDH is about and offering! I empathize with your situation and hope everything works out! Welcome and I hope for the best.
Hugs, Karen
Hi Jo nice to meet you and happy you came here . Very nice intro all of us girls here love a good intro and you nailed it and congrats on telling your wife that's a big bonus. All of us girls here are still working on some parts of the wife getting more comfortable with our inner girly self . Ive been married 37 years and wife has known about Stephanie 36 of our lifes together shes pretty comfortable with her but not totally . Its a long slow process which is working .hope you enjoy your exploring and reading here again nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime be safe .
Stephanie Bass
Welcome, Jo! I think you'll find you have found the right place. This is a great and completely accepting place to meet and chat with others.
Amy
Warm welcome to CDH . Sounds like a long journey with your wife. I was very fortunate with my wife she helped bring out Denise. Patience and honesty goes a long way. Best of luck all of us sister's are here for support. Hugs and kisses 💋 Denise
Welcome Jo!
