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Hi From L.A.

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(@ashleylady2000)
Active Member     Los Angeles, California, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hello All,

I'm Ashley and I've recently got back into the swing of things. I started dressing in the 90's. got married, purged and then got divorced and now I want to get back and start dressing again.

I find it very relaxing and I enjoy the time that Ashley is out and trying on new and cute things.

I recently posted some pictures where Amy from Just You did ALL the makeup. I want to go back but due to the distance and time (and money) i haven't had a chance. Hopefully Ill be going back soon. I CANT WAIT to book another session with her.

 

Anyways, my journey started when I was 12. I was at my cousins house and we were playing hide and seek and I hid in her closet. There I seen the most beautiful, red prom dress I've ever seen and I wanted to try it on but couldn't then. A few weeks past and again I was at my cousins house and it was only her and I and i told her I wanted to try on that dress. She obliged and helped me get into it. Needless to say, I WAS HOOKED. 

 

It took several years (decades) later, but I finally got around to buying my own clothes and I began to dress. I have never been out in public as I currently only do it private.

However, I would like to start to go out dressed and hopefully meet some very happy and charming and lovely ladies for friendship and outings.

I haven't found a place here in L.A. that can help with transformation services (as I do not know how to do my own makeup and hair). As I said, Just You in Vegas is the nearest to me...unless someone knows of a  place here?

 

But anyways, I'd like to say "Hello" to all  you lovely ladies and I hope to hear back from you soon and make some friends 🙂

 

Ashley

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1893

@ashleylady2000 

Welcome to CDH Ashley, 

Sophora and Ultra do makeovers. Many girls in California use their services. 

Also I'm sure the girls here will be more than glad to assist you in anyway they can.

We're about all things feminine here. 

Welcome back to the Pink Fog!

Fran 🥰 

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Baroness Annual
(@melissa70)
Joined: 9 months ago

Estimable Member     District of Columbia, United States of America
Posts: 52

@ashleylady2000 welcome back to the site. I've only been here a little while but enjoyed it so far. No pics yet-getting some within a month thankfully. LA I think is maybe one of the most active places in the world for CDs. A matter of money and time which are often in short supply in my experience. If you haven't read Alice in Genderland it is worth checking out or buying. Of course she was active in the 90s in LA, but it seems to me any metropolitan area would have resources in addition to the people here. Hope you have  good time here and out there too. Take care and thanks for sharing your story.

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Managing Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2861

@ashleylady2000 

Hi, Ashley, thanks for your intro, I see you've been a member for some so it's good to welcome you to the forums.

You'll already know how great this community is so I'll just say, if I can be of any help, don't hesitate to ask.

I've included a link to our friend finder so that you can search for members in your area, some of them may know of services near you.

Allie x

time https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/meet-crossdressers-in-your-area/

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Lady
(@carlafirst11)
Joined: 2 years ago

Prominent Member     So. California , California, United States of America
Posts: 347

@ashleylady2000 

Hi Ashley,

First welcome back, honestly just looking at your photos not sure you need much help with your makeup, you look amazingly gorgeous. 
Many years ago I tried a couple of places in West Hollywood, Century City, but the results weren’t good at all and it was expensive. Probably the best place will be in Las Vegas.

Good luck😀

Carla❤️

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Dame
(@davinaes)
Joined: 3 years ago

Estimable Member     El Segundo, California, United States of America
Posts: 79

@ashleylady2000 

Ashley,

Welcome to CDH. As a fellow lady in the greater LA area, I went to Transformations by Gina. I sat for the makeup lesson and she taught me so much.  She is currently in the City of Glendale. When my work schedule allows, I plan to book another lesson since I feel there is more to learn. 

Davina

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 6038

@ashleylady2000 

Hi Ashley

I'm trying to build a register of makeover services that I can feed through to our 'Local Places' team, and it amazes me that there aren't any in LA (or, for that matter, San Francisco). London has several, and they're all thriving; there's clearly a gap in the market waiting to be filled by some trans-friendly makeup artists 🙂

Anyway, 'Hello' back! 

Hugs

Ellie x

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Duchess
(@ashleylady2000)
Joined: 3 years ago

Active Member     Los Angeles, California, United States of America
Posts: 5

@ellyd22 Hi Ellie

There used be a few places in los Angeles and Orange county (that's by Disneyland) But ever since the lock down, they went out of business. It's a real shame too. I just found a place that I would've enjoyed but it too is gone.

Any help you can provide would be greatly appreciated

Ashley

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(@aliceunderwire)
Majestic Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Ashley,

Welcome to CDH.  It’s nice to meet you.

Alice

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(@delaware)
    los angeles, California, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Hi Ashley,

Welcome to CDH.   Thank You for sharing your story.  Nice to meet you.   karley

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Duchess
(@sandie9832t)
Reputable Member     Santa Cruz, California, United States of America
Joined: 10 months ago

Hi Ashley!

Welcome back to CDH! I'm Sandie. 

I started to crossdress in my teens,  and 45 years later the urge is still there. 

My male side made peace with Sandie,  and i no longer purge or do negative things like that. Both Sandie and her male half coexist peacefully together ❤️. 

By the way, I live in Northern California,  near the bay area. Just thought u would like to know?

Hugs,

Sandie ❤️. 

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Ashley. 

Welcome to CDH. A friendly, understanding and supportive community.

Gisela

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Guest
(@Anonymous 98246)
Eminent Member
Joined: 9 months ago

Hi Ashley,

Welcome!!  This is such a great place. I hope you enjoy. 

Abby

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Guest
(@Anonymous 98651)
Eminent Member
Joined: 9 months ago

Ashley,

I love this story. It reminds me of a family friend's red heels, and my sisters and I took turns trying them on. It's funny how cousins and sisters never judge and are happy to share their pretty things. 

Welcome back, I'm just coming back myself and love hearing stories of other ladies rejoining our wonderful lifestyle.

-Shelly

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 J J
Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Gina at Ttansitions is in the LA area. I am not sutr where her current studio is, she was in LA, but moved to Lancastet, but I think she is back in LA or Glendale.

Plenty of options for make up

 Sephora, Ultra and MAC are all friendly, but just abkit anywhere in soithern California is an option.

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 Lisa
Lady
(@lisagurlll)
Estimable Member     Diamond Bar, California, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Ashley! 

Diamond Bar here, in LA County. I’d say we’re neighbors!

I’ve found the girls at MAC and Sephora have been very helpful. No judgement, just fun and professional. Ive frequented them at the malls in Brea and Montclair, as well as some of the strip mall locations. 
Check them out. They are engaging as SAs and if you feel bold enough to tell them you’re a CD and show them a pic of you dressed, they are blown away and become giddy and very friendly! They definitely treat you better. It’s like you’ve been accepted as one of the girls and they can discuss products and tips with you comfortably. At least that’s been my experience!

 

Lisa 🥰

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Joined: 6 years ago

Famed Member     California, United States of America
Posts: 2518

@lisagurlll  Showing yoir MUA a picture is brilliant. At my last makeober the MUA asked if I had pictures of.my pervious maeup sessions at Sephora so she could get some ideas. Now I keep a smaller folder on my phone of such pictures. I love getting my makeup done. It is so fun just to sit in the store and be catered to for an hour with people walking around and seeing the process.

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 Lisa
Lady
(@lisagurlll)
Joined: 4 years ago

Estimable Member     Diamond Bar, California, United States of America
Posts: 104

@jjandme very nice! I love it, JJ! 🥰

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Ashley nice to meet you as you have been here for a bit i might have welcomed you before But that's ok because you are a sister and family member and deserve to know we are here for you .. Please say hello sometime ..

Stephanie Bass

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Duchess
(@ashleylady2000)
Joined: 3 years ago

Active Member     Los Angeles, California, United States of America
Posts: 5

@fishingr8 

Hi Stephanie. So nice to meet you as well. This does look like a very safe and understanding place and I'm glad I joined.

Hope to hear from you back

Ashley

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(@aliceunderwire)
Majestic Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Ashley,

Welcome to CDH.  It’s nice to meet you.

Alice

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Lady
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 10 months ago

Welcome to CDH nice to meet ya 

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Lady
(@sf)
Prominent Member     SoCal, California, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Ashley....   Another CA gal!!  Welcome to CDH.  I'm "just down the road" in Orange county.  CDH is certainly a fun place to be.  Enjoy your time here.   Happy crossdressing.

Staci in SoCal....

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Guest
(@Anonymous 98511)
Trusted Member
Joined: 8 months ago

Welcome Ashleyglad to meet you 

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Noble Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 6 months ago

🐞🐞 Hi  Ashley   , 

 Just wanted to say.   Late  Welcome to CDH, !!!!

 It's  been a while since you joined, a few months ,   and the busy Holidays are over,   and Survive them ,  and a new year 2025 ...

By now we have probably starting to know you way around CDH and meeting new Friends ..

Any time you like to gurl Chat ,  ???

Huggs 

Stephanie 👠

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