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Hi.
I'm Lindie. And have been crossdressing since my early teens and now in my mid 60's. I started by wearing my sister's clothes and using their make-up. I stopped for many years while serving in the military and afterwards when I met and married my lovely wife. I soon had the urge and started to buy my own clothing. But have purged many times. But still the urge..40 years later, I have now excepted that this is what I have always wanted to be.
I have tried on many occasions to tell my SO. But to no avail. She does not like or agree to crossdressing.
So Lindie. Does come out when I'm on my own. And in total secret. Not as often as I would like. But I Love been dressed. And feeling pretty.
Lots of love
Lindie
Hi Lindie welcome to CDH, its nice to meet you. There are loads of us on here, me included, whose SO is not accepting or doesn't want to know. I'm pretty sure if mine found out I would be out the door sharpish. Like you, and many of us, I'm in my mid 60s.
This is such a great site, everyone on here is so kind and understanding.
Happy to chat any time!
Love
Helen xx
Hi Lindie and welcome, I am in the same situation as you so understand how you feel.
I have found in a very short time how welcoming this site is.
Hugs and kisses
Rose
Hello Lindie,
Welcome from another mid 60’s still closeted cross dresser!
This is a really great community to be a part of!
💕Lara
Hi Lindie,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hi Lindie and welcome to the CDH family. I'm so glad you could join us. Please don't hesitate to reach out for support or to ask questions.
Rose
Hi Lindie welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family, I'm a mature crossdresser too I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on I'm still in the closet to my wife too, I don't think i will be coming out to her she says she doesn't understand why some men want to dress up like women, I'm sorry i can't meet up with you for a coffee ☕ I'm in the UK, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X 🎀
Hugs Rozalyn X 💋
I understand your feelings. My story is a lot like yours, experimenting young, walking away more or less for years, exploring much more now. I am also in secret -- no indication that the spouse would understand or tolerate my "peculiar pastime." I have been able to find ways to have some fun, though.
Good that you joined a forum and can express yourself openly.
Hi Geena i don't think we are peculiar at all, there are lots of us girls all around the world 🌎, it's who we are, we just like wearing women's clothes nothing more nothing less, if we had been born women no one would bat an eyelid X
Hugs Rozalyn X
Hi Lindie nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girlfriend there is so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on.. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Lindie as she travels down her own girly path in life.. As for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all girlfriend we are juist a simple click away .. Once again Lindie nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat somtime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Hi Lindie,
Well, you can be who you are and do your thing here with us.
Hugs & kisses,
W.
P.S. well done on that NY to Paris solo flight!
Hello Lindie and welcome, you can freely express yourself here at CDH because we all get it and walk the walk. So please come on in and make yourself at home.
Sherri
Hi Lindie. Welcome to the community!
Welcome to CDH Lindie!
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Welcome aboard Lindie.