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Hi everyone.
Late 40's male, based around Dewey Az. Into cars, motorcycles and very much love being a guy. No one would ever guess this side of me and yet here I am :).
I've been dressing for at least 20 years, love it, it still never gets old. I have no need or wants to pass but I do enjoy trying to look as 'cute' or naughty as I can.
I have never gone public and never will other than in safe situations and some mitigated things such as driving at night. I was lucky enough to own many acres so got to hang out at home dressed, doing shores, wandering around all over. I might go to some CD bar if I was with a friend and knew for sure it was safe. I'm not into taking chances, it's too small a world these days and this is my secret.
As far as secrets go, my wife knows all about it and she has fun with me now and then. It's not her favorite thing but she's been fun and playful about it.
It used to be confusing but I finally got to the point where I stopped thinking about it too much and just enjoyed it for what it is. It's a fetish, it's fun, it feels amazing and that's all it is.
I do not seek support or acceptance, nothing what so ever, it's all very simple to me and I'm not saying that in an aloof way but because it took me many years to understand that, for myself.
My so far non materialized wish is to have a CD friend who like me loves being a guy but very much enjoys this side of life when it's time. I would so love to have a friend where this is our secret, we can meet up for drinks, talk about anything and it's not awkward. Seems most people in my area don't understand discretion as most just want to rush into meeting after barely any email exchange and communicating. It's frustrating and is mainly why I know no other CD's. That said, I'm also happy about that because I really do want to keep this side of my life private.
Not sure what else to say so feel free to ask or PM me.
Hi Mick, am glad that your in your own zone, it's cool that you feel the way you do. The first time I dressed I was 6 years old, and I've been doing it for 53 years, now and then. Stay happy. Jennifer
Arizona, welcome. Meet with many of our ladies here and talk about anything you like. We certainly love our dressing and here its wonderful having others who also have discovered this passion. There's much to see and do . Nice to meet and look forward to seeing you around here soon.
Stephanie 🌹
Welcome, I share a lot of the same intimacies so feel free to message me anytime.
Hugs, Ruby
Hey Mick,
You used the word "fetish". For me this is no fetish. What I found out about myself in 2019 is that I am 50% woman. I feel great about it!
Jessica in Tucson
Welcome Mick. Thankyou for sharing your story with us.
I'm not arguing what some are, feel, think, etc. For me, it's a fetish, plain and simple however, I've also known several transgender people and know what they have to go through to become who they really are inside and out. Don't misunderstand my post since I am only speaking about how *I* feel in my introduction :).
Love how sure of yourself you are. That’s awesome. I really hope you find a friend like you described 😀
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Aw, thank you. Many years of thinking and finally classifying it for myself at least :).
I hope so too but I doubt it will happen so enjoying the online world.
I'd love to hear from anyone in my area that feels the same as I do 🙂
Hi Arizona Mick !
Welcome to CDH ! I think a CD buddy is a wonderful idea. I hope you are successful finding one (or more) to hang out with. some of the stories I have read here that involve CDs hanging out with each other are some of my favorites and that is certainly something that I hope to do myself someday. In the mean time feel free to look around and participate in the forums and meet the wonderful ladies here.
Hugs
Autumn
Welcome Mick!