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(@sheilagirl)
Trusted Member     Oakland, California, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

Hi Everyone, my name is Sheila Roberts, and I’m so glad I found this place! I’ve been looking for a site like this ever since UR Not Alone got bought out, I think over 10 years ago. I’ve been dressing since my early teens and remember experimenting with my mom’s lipstick as a child and trying on pantyhose in 5th or 6th grade. So definitely have a feminine side almost all my life!

I live in the S.F. Bay Area, pretty much grew up here, but originally I’m Canadian by birth. I still love the snow and enjoy bundling up en femme in winter months if I’m lucky enough to travel some place where it snows!

I’m hoping to make many new friends here, and maybe even meet si e people in person eventually. 

Hugs, 

Sheila

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Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 8 months ago

Famed Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 2004

@sheilagirl Hey Sheila 🙂

Welcome to CDH.

'Bundling up en femme' is such a lovely phrase 🙂

You've just joined an amazingly welcoming and supportive site. The community is growing all the time. It's a very safe space; a great place to make friends and be yourself.

I love it here.

There's loads to explore. Enjoy finding your way around, and shout out if you need any help. There's ALWAYS someone here to listen.

Hugs

Ellie x

 

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Duchess
(@sheilagirl)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     Oakland, California, United States of America
Posts: 39

@ellyd22 Thank you Ellie!

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Duchess
(@sheilagirl)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     Oakland, California, United States of America
Posts: 39

@ellyd22 hi again Ellie, I finally had some time to look at your profile and some of your other writings  and I have to say, you are a an amazing person and a shining light here for all of us! Also, I applaud you for the courage to come out to your mom and sister! 

If you don’t mind me saying so: since you’re courageous enough to do that, you have it in you to go out in public as you really are! I remember my first time going out dressed in public ( in my teens ) and my heart was pounding so hard I thought it would burst out of my chest! But I survived and in all the years and many outings since, I’ve never had a bad experience, just the occasional wolf whistle! 

please post some more pictures and get out there! Make it a new year’s resolution!

Love,

Sheila 🌹

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Duchess
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 1 year ago

Prominent Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 449

@sheilagirl 

Hi Sheila,

As Ellie has said, you’ve come to the right place.

You’ll find many of us have been dressing for a similar length of time to yourself, and trying on pantyhose, or tights as we call them over this side of the pond, has been a starting point for a lot of us, me included.

You will definitely make new friends here

Lucy 

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(@shadowqueen)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Vermont, United States of America
Posts: 338

@sheilagirl Hi Sheila,

Welcome to CDH, I’m hoping to bundle up en femme this winter as I live in Vermont and we usually get plenty of snow. I’ve been promising the girls here that I would take some pictures of me shoving snow in a mini skirt. I’m glad that you have joined us. 
Hugs

AnnaBeth

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(@Anonymous 93000)
Joined: 4 months ago

Estimable Member
Posts: 121

@sheilagirl Welcome to CDH, Sheila.  You will enjoy this great community!  By the way, I started by experimenting with my mom’s lipstick as well, and here we are!

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Duchess
(@sheilagirl)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     Oakland, California, United States of America
Posts: 39

@nailgirl Hi Melissa, Yes here we are! So glad to be here and thanks for sharing, we have that and probably a lot more in common!

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 12 months ago

Honorable Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 405

@sheilagirl hey Sheila. Welcome. You've come to the right place! Your pics are gorgeous but of course you know that! I had a makeover last June and it was incredible, particularly as dressing opportunities at home are almost completely non-existent.

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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Duchess
(@sheilagirl)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     Oakland, California, United States of America
Posts: 39

@chrisfp99 hi Chrissie, it was my first makeover ever, and really opened my eyes to the woman in me. I just wish I had done this a lot earlier, but I can’t wait to have another one again! Hugs - Sheila

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(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 12 months ago

Honorable Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 405

@sheilagirl hey Sheila, I'm going to book another next May when my family go abroad (I don't fly). Can't wait! Looking to add a couple of pics to my photos section! xx

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Duchess
(@sheilagirl)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     Oakland, California, United States of America
Posts: 39

@chrisfp99 That’s wonderful Chrissie! Can’t wait to see them!

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(@fishingr8)
Joined: 4 years ago

Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Posts: 5216

@sheilagirl Hi Sheila nice meeting you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here .. Yes girlfriend as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. You have found a wonderful bunch of ladies here who just love to chat and make new friends so look around and meet many ladies here.. 

Stephanie Bass

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(@caroline2k)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 189

@sheilagirl Hi, and welcome from a part of England where 'bundling up en femme' isn't just pleasurable, but essential! 😁😉

 

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 7 months ago

Prominent Member     Connecticut, United States of America
Posts: 576

@sheilagirl Welcome Shelia!  I frequented UR Not Alone too and I'm very happy to be here now.  My story is very similar to yours regarding my early realization of my feminine side.  I'm sure you will find many others here like that too.  

I'm in the NE US and I know what you mean about bundling up!  Lately, it's all about my parka, sweaters and riding boots to stay warm when outside.  I'm a boots girl so I really don't mind though!

Enjoy CDH and I hope you find it helpful to you.

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(@melodeescarlet)
Prominent Member     Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
Joined: 7 months ago

Hiya Sheila, welcome! Glad you've found a new hangout 🙂

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(@rozalyne)
Noble Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Sheila welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family,

I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on I'm still in the closet to my family,

I'm sorry i can't meet up with you for a coffee I'm on the other side of the pond in the UK, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X

Hugs Rozalyn X 

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Sheila,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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(@denimwear)
Honorable Member     Other, Alberta, Canada
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Sheila, 

Welcome to this very supportive group. You will find lots of supportive friends here. 

I am in Western Canada myself. So far this winter we have not had enough snow to speak of. 

Aurora Lynnette 

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Duchess
(@sheilagirl)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     Oakland, California, United States of America
Posts: 39

@denimwear hi Aurora! It’s nice to hear from another Canadian Gal from the North ( I mean that in a most endearing way!)  I hope we can chat soon, I need to upgrade my membership to do that I guess but in the mean time hanks for reaching out and the warm welcome! 

hugs,

Sheila 

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(@secretpassions)
Noble Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Sheila,

 Welcome to this welcome to this wonderful community of like minded sisters!

Lovely to meet you,

Heart Lara

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(@terria67)
Noble Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hello Sheila,

Welcome to our CrossDresser Heaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.

The Warmth, Compassion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.

Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrossDresser Heaven.

At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via Private Message (PM). You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.

Also, you may find what you need from: The Help Center or our Ambassadors by using the links in the Top R/H Drop Down 3 bar Menu.

Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat (PC), Groups, Additional Photo Allowance, etc.

======== Link to our New Community Forums ====

https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/community/crossdresser-heaven-lounge/

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(@sheilagirl)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     Oakland, California, United States of America
Posts: 39

@terria67 Thank you Terri Anne! I’ve really enjoyed the CDH site and community immensely so far and I know I need to spend more time just exploring all that there is to offer! 

Hugs,

Sheila

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(@catherine0918)
Reputable Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 9 months ago

Sheila,

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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Duchess
(@sheilagirl)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     Oakland, California, United States of America
Posts: 39

@catherine0918 Thanks Catherine.  Yes, definitely! I just wish I had found this place years ago!  

Hugs,  Sheila

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(@cdsue)
Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Sheila -

Welcome to CDH. Can't really add to what has already been said. Glad you found us and hope to see you in chat. Be sure to check out the articles and  forums as well.

Like you when I was young I used lipstick. My Mom was an Avon rep and had sample lipsticks my sisters and I would play with. Being the only boy I didn't have much choice but to play with my sisters during winter lockdowns (lived in snow country) so played with lipstick, dolls and other "girly" activities. Did a bit of dress up too.

XOXO
Suzanne 

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