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I’m happy confused lost scared and have so many questions . My boyfriend is a cross dresser who has kicked me out of his sex life . Instead he lies to me and sneaks and hides to dress up. I buy him clothes do his wigs . I was his biggest fan . No matter what he did but now I’m broken
You will survive - just put one foot in front of the other, and take it one day at a time. It will hurt at first, but it will fade. 😚
Love,
Fredrika
I so sorry you are going through this. One thing I've learned from this site is the motivations for crosdressing vary widely. I can only speak from my own experience that things do change over time. For me it started as a very sexual thing. Looking back now I think that might have been because it was easier for me to accept that it was just sexual than accept my strong feminine side. Once I came to terms with the fact that I did occasionally want to be feminine and that's ok, it quickly became less and less sexual and my intimate relationship with my wife got back to normal.
I write this to say, there is a possibility that things will improved over time.
💕Lola
I think your significant other is a total jerk and is abusive...don't walk away.....run.
You sound like the girl most of us would love to have. He sound confused but if I was you I wouldn't tolerate his behavior very long. Most of us long for acceptance and he is pushing you away. I hope things improve for you but please put yourself first. We all deserve that. Best wishes.
Oh, what a jerk!
You have our support...
Time will tell for things to improve...
Otherwise run!!
There are others that would love your support and acceptance!!
There is nothing wrong with you!!!
Roxie.
Welcome to CDH badde one
Well if he doesn't appreciate you enough
That's his problem, it's a hard call, do what's best for you, if you want to talk
To one of us here, we have an ear for you.
Hugs Jennifer Ramirez
P.S There's nothing wrong with you🤗
Hi badde one,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hi Miss one as dont want to call you Badde as you are not Badde you are a wonderful woman with lots of love and support to your Boyfriend you are a treasure that many here dont have and want so he he Baddely in not in that group as i have a wonderful supportive and accepting wife look around.. The group for wifes and significant others is a wonderful place for you to explore for a lot of questions and get many answers from many other ladies here so again nice to meet you and hope things work out for you and boyfriend..
Stephanie Bass
Hi welcome to CDH came to the right place for some great opinions on the subject. My advice is now don't sound like a BF that cares for your feelings. Think maybe ought to think serious on relationship.
Sound like a smart woman don't let anyone walk over you.
And no you not bad
Hugs
Donna
Life is TOO short for drama.
-SR-
Hi
You are obviously going through a very difficult time, you will get lots of advice and support here so you have come to the right place. I'll be honest, whatever happens now, will not be easy, but trying to understand this side of your partners life may help. I don't want to give you all sorts of advice here, that might make you more confused than you already are. If you would like to PM me I am happy to discuss anything you would like to know. If that is any help to you I am very pleased to do what ever I can to help................
I’m starting to agree, but what if something deep is causing him to act this way . What if he loves me but
Thank you , but he has told me I’m ugly so I guess I know
He makes me feel guilty blames me
