Hi I'm Estrella

Hi Estrella, Teralynn again. Sorry it has taken so long to get back to you Luv! I got lost in tons of junk mail and day to day drudgery! I was hoping to see an update post from you on here saying that things were a little bit better between you and your wife concerning your crossdressing! I can only assume that the situation is still about the same. If so, how unfortunate! Consider this my more detailed welcoming post Luv! It will not be one of those nice and warm fuzzy posts! It will be a reality check to help you deal with your new reality! So your wife found out that there is a feminine persona in her husband’s body! I have a feeling that you already knew that Estrella was there and because of having to stay home it became necessary to reveal a bit of her to the wife. Now that the feminine persona cat is out of the bag you can’t just put her back in it! Even if she doesn’t like the idea one bit, the likelihood of you completely stopping cold turkey are almost nonexistent! Even if you love her like crazy, the urge will still be there!  If you want to remain in the relationship and still be able to dress as Estrella, then you have to communicate some basic things to your wife. Normally significant others need to be reassured that, you still love them, you are not gay, have no plans to fully transition into a woman, and will accept certain limitations on your dressing! (Exactly what those limitations will be should be worked out between you and her) Also if you can put into words why you want to dress as Estrella that might go a long way to getting her to favorably compromise. Divorce is a crippling thing! Especially if you still love her but she won’t budge an inch! If not dressing as Estrella will save the marriage but force you to be miserable because you can’t do something you really enjoy- is that really something you are willing to put up with? Oh you could probably sneak around and underdress or wait for an infrequent opportunity to dress! Hide clothes, feelings and misery! But if you get caught it may end in divorce anyway! I wish I could sweeten my advice Luv! I want everyone to be happy! Unfortunately life is not all lollipops and rainbows! Crossdressing people probably know that all too well! Whatever happens between you and your wife, remember that your sisters here at CDH will be here for you! If I can ever be of further service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. A post on my home profile page wall or private message will get the fastest response. - Blessings