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Hi I'm Felis from Singapore

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Lady
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(@feliskuah)
Eminent Member     Singapore, Singapore
Joined: 10 months ago

Hi everyone, I'm a late 30s MTF crossdresser from Singapore and my name is Felis. I have been crossdressing on an off since I was 8 years old. Growing up in a strict Asian household, I was expected to behave as straight acting as possible even though I was caught by my parents countless times wearing my mum's old clothes and even while I was sleeping in them. It took me many times of purging or "cleansing" and even self-mutilation to realize that this part of me will always be with me. I'm most creative when I'm dressed en femme. I work best and most efficiently when I'm wearing a spandex bodysuit under my male work clothes. Covid made me realize that life is too short to be repeatedly denying the real me. I now work alone, in my quiet creative space and fully dressed more than 12 hours a day in my silicon bodysuit, living and walking around as a woman and nobody around me knows I'm me haha. They just think a woman lives with me. Little did they know the woman is IN me. LOL. 

I'm here to find friends, preferably in my zone, maybe in my area. I travel to Western Australia for work much and I look forward to finding friendly crossdressers to dress out with and share my journey with them. 

I look forward to knowing more of you and God Bless. 

Rgds,

Felis Kuah 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5219

@feliskuah 

Hi Felis

Welcome to CDH 🙂

You'll find that this is a very warm and supportive community; it really is a great place to spend time. The girls here are wonderful and it's easy to make friends. We love to talk, so if there's anything you want to know then just start a new thread here on the Forums or drop into the Chat room.

There's lots to explore. If you get stuck with finding your way around don't be shy about asking. There's always someone around to help.

Ellie x

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Lady
(@feliskuah)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Singapore, Singapore
Posts: 10

@ellyd22 Thanks Ellie, I look forward to making new friends here!

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2204

@feliskuah 

Hi, Felis, welcome to CDH, the friendliest, most supportive community anywhere.

You'll find us a helpful bunch so, anything you want to know, just ask. You might want to try the friend finder, that'll show others in your area or any area you're interested in.

Have fun.

Allie

 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5219

@alexina @feliskuah 

Felis - as Allie says, the Friend Finder could be useful. You can use it to find members who are either local to you in Singapore or in the areas of Western Australia that you visit most. Here's a direct link:

Members – Crossdresser Heaven Forums

You just need to fill in the 'Country', 'State or Province' and (if you want to drill down that far) 'City' info.

I've just done a search for 'Singapore'. Although we do have quite a few members there, only two others have been very recently active on the site.

Ellie x

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Lady
(@feliskuah)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Singapore, Singapore
Posts: 10

@ellyd22 Thank you for the guide! 🙂

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Lady
(@feliskuah)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Singapore, Singapore
Posts: 10

@alexina Thank you Allie 🙂

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@feliskuah 

Hi Felis, welcome to CDH.

Thank you for that open and honest introduction.

You've probably gathered by now what a friendly and supportive site this is. Crossdressing can be quite a lonely lifestyle, and many of us have shared some of the experiences you have described. Rest assured that you are not alone. You are part of a community, an inclusive sisterhood, where you will find empathy and understanding.

There's a massive amount of experience to draw on here,  so please don't hesitate to ask questions or seek advice. 

Hugs

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4016

@feliskuah Welcome to CDH, Felis!

I look forward to seeing you on the forums.

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Lady
(@feliskuah)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Singapore, Singapore
Posts: 10

@harriette Thank you Harriette! Will look forward to sharing and reading other sister's inspiration life stories!

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Lady
(@leainvancouver)
Joined: 1 year ago

Prominent Member     Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 379

@feliskuah Ha Ha, I love that your neighbours think you live with a woman. Why didn’t I think of that! They are right of course, you live with a woman 24 hours a day. I’m happy you have come to accept yourself. We can’t expect others to accept us when we don’t fully accept ourselves. 

I hope you will find your tribe here and many new friends. Welcome to paradise. 🙏

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(@bloomersandshorts9)
Estimable Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi, Felis, welcome to CDH. It’s nice to meet you! Enjoy CDH.

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Lady
(@feliskuah)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Singapore, Singapore
Posts: 10

@bloomersandshorts9 Thank you Ichiro, nice to meet you too 🙂

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(@bloomersandshorts9)
Joined: 1 year ago

Estimable Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 68

@feliskuah 

No worries, it’s nice to see more Asians being represented in CDH.

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Felis!

Great introduction and welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

 

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Lady
(@feliskuah)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Singapore, Singapore
Posts: 10

@catherine0918 Thank you Catherine for the warm welcome! 🙂

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Joined: 2 years ago

Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 675

@feliskuah Felis, you are welcome, and I hope you are enjoying CDH so far!  Catherine

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Lady
(@yuko5634)
Trusted Member     Osaka, Japan
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Felis,

Nice to meet you. The struggle and self-doubt when living in a conservative community is real. I hope that crossdressing won't be a taboo soon.

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Lady
(@feliskuah)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Singapore, Singapore
Posts: 10

@yuko5634 Nice to meet you too Yuuri! 🙂

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(@bloomersandshorts9)
Joined: 1 year ago

Estimable Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 68

@yuko5634 

I can relate and understand living in a conservative community. I agree and I hope that crossdressing won't be a taboo soon in Japan 🇯🇵 

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Felis nice meeting you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here .. You know as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Girl there is so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Felis as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now girl as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world like yourself   there in Singapore and myself here in Montana USA.. just like down the street huh ha ha .. You can build long lasting friendships with girlfriends here as we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Lady
(@feliskuah)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Singapore, Singapore
Posts: 10

@fishingr8 Hi Stephanie, many thanks for the warm welcome 🙂 I will look forward to sharing the life story of Felis, 20+ years of stories!! haha

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Felix,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Lady
(@feliskuah)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Singapore, Singapore
Posts: 10

@aliceunderwire Thank you Alice for the welcome 🙂

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(@jamiec)
Estimable Member     Vienna, Austria
Joined: 10 months ago

Hi Felis,

nice to meet you! I am looking forward to get to know you and hear your story. While I haven‘t taken the next step yet, I agree with you: life is too short deny your real you.

all the best from a place far away,
jamie

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