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Hey girl's. Only took me 2 years to post my intro, lol. I’ll try to keep my bio short. I’m 51, hetero, married (2nd wife). My first femme urges began at 12-13yrs (along with puberty, yay). Sneaked trying on mom’s clothes/makeup as often as I could, then horrible guilt every time for acting on my nasty affliction - early 80’s, “transvestites” were terrible perverts. Married 1st wife, never told her. Got to dress for Halloween couple times - Yay! Got divorced and been with 2nd (and last!) wife over 20yrs. Never told ANYONE my secret. FINALLY came out to her about this side of me in July ‘19. After initial shock, she came around and has become more supportive than I could have ever dreamed. She is more okay with “Geena” than I am myself. I pray that I can eventually accept that this part of me is okay and not a “problem”. But there is NO denying how happy I am when completely dressed. Anyway, thanks for reading my long winded babble and for having sites like this that prove to me that I’m not all by myself.
Hugs, Geena
You have many girlfriends here, Geena. Welcome to CDH.
Hugs, Liara
Hi Genna
Welcome to CDH it's brilliant here so friendly and informative.
Love to be friends and have some interesting chats. I'll send you a friend request.
Hugs Charlotte
welcome
Hi Michelle. What a lovely name. Of course what we do is OK. You look great. By the way. Go Pack Go.
Welcome Geena!
It must be such a relief to share that secret and have your wife be so supportive. Really happy for you. If you need anything from any of the ladies here, just ask!
-Chloé
Hi Geena,
Welcome to CDH.
Listen to Michelle! It’s OK to be a cross dresser.
Alice
Thank you, Alice. It’s ironic cause I can tell someone else the exact same thing about it being okay (and mean it), but I am having a really hard time reprogramming damn near 40 years of self-loathing myself cause of it.
Thanks Chloe. I don’t have the words to express what my wife’s support does for me. She’s my everything!
Hi Geena,
After all they are just clothes. No reason to feel guilty. Consciously, tell yourself today I’ll wear this and do it. No reason to feel guilty. Just allow yourself to enjoy being yourself. As you say it’s be3n 40 years so repeat as needed.
Alice
Geena happy to welcome you here with us . Girls here love to chat and will be looking forward to hearing from you. Enjoy being part of this wonderful place of same mined souls all expressing their own unique opportunities in this exciting new world . Very nice meeting you.
Stephanie 🌹
Hi Geena, Just like you I started dressing in my Mothers and Sisters clothes when I was 12, You are a lucky lady to have an understanding wife. Welcome to CDH
Hi Geena,
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Welcome Geena
Your profile sounds similar except for me hopefully coming out to my wife this month. Welcome to CDH. It’s the best resource for us girls that you will find on the planet. Please reach out if you need any help !
hugs
carole
Hi Geena, please take the time you need to come to acceptance with your femme side. I spent decades heaping all manner of guilt and self-loathing thinking if I just could have enough faith, God would remove my compulsion. It wasn't until recently I came to the realization that God has been noncommittal because it is not a problem for Him. He gave us this gift of being able to tap into a feminine side of ourselves, and we should lov e ourselves as he does, and not get hung up on societal "norms" (jail cells).
Enjoy your gurl side and treat your spouse to anything she desires. She is a real gem and deserves all the love her husband and GF can give to her!
Hugs,
Brielle
