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Hi, I‘m Jamie 🙂

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(@jamiec)
Estimable Member     Vienna, Austria
Joined: 9 months ago

Hi, I’m Jamie and I‘m a closeted crossdresser (or more?). I‘m happily married, 40 years old and living in Austria, Europe. I have been crossdressing from an early age on. In fact, I remember trying on a bra of my grandmother when I was about 5 years old 😉

Then, my feelings got stronger again when I hit puberty and haven‘t changed since. I have never told anybody about it, so have been hiding it all my life. I‘m 20 years married now and I still keeping it a secret. But, honestly, I do know that I have to come out eventually. While my feelings changed over the years, they only got stronger. Signing up here, is a first step in a probably long journey for me. I tend to be shy in general, that‘s why I am quite anxious about all this now, but I also am very excited in a positive way and look forward to get to know many fantastic and lovely people 🙂

xxx,
Jamie

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5197

@jamiec 

Hi Jamie

Welcome to CDH 🙂

Signing up to this site is a GREAT first step. This is a very warm and supportive community, and a wonderful place to share your thoughts and feelings. The girls here are amazing; they're always willing to listen and to give advice.

There's lots to explore. Have fun finding your way around, and if you get stuck with anything don't be afraid to ask for help.

Ellie x

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2178

@jamiec 

Hi, Jamie, you've found the right place, this is a safe and supportive community. I joined a few months ago and it's no exaggeration to say that it's changed my life. It's made a huge difference to be able to share my crossdressing with others.

So, welcome to the family 😊 

Allie 

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1005

@jamiec 

Hi Jamie, and welcome to CDH.

I think a lot of us here are quite shy by nature, I certainly am.
It’s quite normal to feel anxious, but the good news is that you’ve found the perfect place to start your journey. We’re a very friendly and supportive group, and I’m sure you’ll feel at home pretty soon

Lucy 

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(@Anonymous 85825)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member
Posts: 107

@jamiec 

Hi Jamie,

Welcome to the site and best wishes to you on your journey!

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3998

@jamiec Welcome to CDH, Jamie!

I know that you are married, shy and haven't told anybody about your dressing yet, but going shopping and dressing at work isn't being all that stealthy. 😳

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(@jamiec)
Joined: 9 months ago

Estimable Member     Vienna, Austria
Posts: 50

@harriette hi 🙂

That‘s a good question and makes me believe I misunderstood the term „under-dressed“. I have thought the explicit hyphen between „under“ and „dressed“ meant, I was wearing women‘s underwear below another layer of clothes.
No, I have never worn women‘s clothes visibly anywhere outside, when working or shopping. But I have been secretly wearing stockings, panties and a bra under another layer of clothes to work and shopping 😉 We usually wear casual clothes at work, so during autumn and winter it‘s easy wear under-garments without anybody noticing. I have worn a bra once to work, under a wide hoody. But even then it was way to exciting and I have never done it again. While I was still hiding it, it felt liberating in a way though. When riding the bus, knowing that you‘re also wearing a bra, exactly like the woman right beside you <3

 

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3998

@jamiec My misunderstanding. You hadn't used underdressed and I presumed more.

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(@jamiec)
Joined: 9 months ago

Estimable Member     Vienna, Austria
Posts: 50

@harriette Ohhhhh, yes, you are right! I think I answered the question „Have you ever been out as a woman?“ with „Yes, under-dressed.“

I think I got that wrong. I will fix it. Thanks 😊 

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@jamiec 

Hi Jamie,  welcome to CDH.

Your story is similar to that of many here,  including the bit about being shy. Some of us are shy to the point of being positively introverted (me included), but put us in a dress and heels and we can rock the town!

And there are quite a few of us who, like you, dress in secret. That eventual revelation to your wife (we call it "The Talk") is a daunting and emotional occasion for most. When your time comes you'll find plenty of empathy here,  so don't be afraid to ask advice. 

You're already discovering what a friendly and helpful place this is. Make yourself at home, join in and have fun. 

Hugs

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(@jamiec)
Joined: 9 months ago

Estimable Member     Vienna, Austria
Posts: 50

@jacquelinelarkspur Thanks for your kind words. It‘s been only a day since I signed up here and all of you have already made me feel at home. „The Talk“ is my goal, but I don‘t feel like its around the corner any time soon. However, while my anxiety has vanished, my confidence has grown, after reading so many nice messages. I am very happy to have taken this step and signed up here.

Thank you everybody <3

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Guest
(@Anonymous 85825)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member
Posts: 107

@jacquelinelarkspur lovely reply as ever Jacqueline xx

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(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@samanthaxxxx 

Thank you, Samantha, that's greatly appreciated. 😊

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(@Anonymous 85825)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member
Posts: 107

@jamiec welcome to our little world Jamie.  You will be valued here and never judged!

S

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(@Anonymous 85825)
Estimable Member
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Jamie. Welcome to CDH. I’m new as well and closeted.  

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(@Anonymous 85825)
Estimable Member
Joined: 2 years ago

Welcome Jamie , love the name !! So much on this wonderful forum for you to discover x

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(@chrisfp99)
Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hey Jamie, lovely to have you on board. I'm pretty shy too, and my wife knows nothing of Chrissie. You'll quickly find that the warmth and generous spirit of the girls here will make you feel welcome and loved. Dive in and just be yourself. If you fancy it, pop a few details into your profile, as that's the quickest way the girls can get to know you a little better xx. 

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(@Anonymous 85825)
Estimable Member
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Jamie, welcome to CDH! You will find us to be a wonderful place to express what’s on your mind and in your heart! Everybody here is kind and we all love to chat! Test us. You’ll see. 

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Lady
Topic starter
(@jamiec)
Estimable Member     Vienna, Austria
Joined: 9 months ago

So many nice messages in so little time! I‘m speechless! Thank you so much. This means the world to me <3

@nicotay, congratulations to your first step 🙂

@samanthaxxxx, thanks! Love our name too <3

@chrisfp99, I‘m adding details to my profile right now!

@sheryl321, looking forward to chat with you =)

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Duchess
(@karla1958)
Honorable Member     Not in New Orleans, Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Jamie and welcome!

Heart

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Jamie nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so do some looking around and girl read some forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. You know as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Jamie as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away .. Now girl as for being shy dont worry here about that we are caring love to chat and make new friends here so jump in girlfriend and hope to see you around for that chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Jamie,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Lady
(@carla66)
Estimable Member     Barcelona , Barcelona, Spain
Joined: 1 year ago

Welcome, as they say, it is a place that will help you. There are many of us here who have accepted our personality after many years. They have helped me understand Kisses Carla

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Jamie!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Understand being anxious, but nothing to be anxious about here as I have found CDH to be just very supportive of everyone who is a member.

Lots of fantastic and lovely people here in my obvious very humble opinion, LOL!

So just take your time and engage with the CDH community as you feel comfortable.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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(@jamiec)
Joined: 9 months ago

Estimable Member     Vienna, Austria
Posts: 50

@catherine0918 Thank you Catherine. I can tell already how beautiful it is here, a warm and welcoming place <3

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