Hi I’m Katie

Welcome Katie

Thank you Roslin for your welcome, it’s been a long journey.

That story sounds familiar. My wife left me when I discovered crossdressing after 40 years of marriage. Returned a year later, understanding that I did not think I could change and she would need to accept it if she wanted to return. That lasted a year, at which point she shut off the spigot to the point I could not do it even out of her sight and needed to find a counselor who would cure me. I made the attempt, but even the counselor knew there was no hope that would or could happen. That led to divorce. Found a lady who seemed totally accepting, but she can change on a dime, from one day or moment to the next. Sometimes she does not even notice if I am wearing a skirt; other times she fumes and claims I do it every day and has to stop, which I don't. There really seems to me no way to predict what a woman will think or do, although I suppose if one were able to give it up completely that would solve HER problem. I have never met such a person. I suppose they exist but are rare. Those who find accepting/supportive women who remain that way are exceptionally blessed, I think.

As outreach director I interviewed close to 200 crossdressers, tallied results and compared to a similar survey, which was dead on to mine... 25% are supportive, 50% tolerate to at least some degree (it won't break the marriage as long as boundaries are honored), and 25% cannot accept it at all. If you choose to tell at all (usually best but always a risky proposition), you will at least know where you fall and can decide between you whether the relationship can work.

Rhonda, luckily it never came to the “leaving” chat. So at present I am very happy she accepts seeing me dressed and pray it may continue.

When she left there was no chat or goodbye. I just came up from my downstairs office one day to find the car gone and a suitcase left behind in the drive. Your situation sounds more hopeful by far. I wish you the best!!

Hello Katie...I am So Glad..You're Here with US..hope to talk to you soon.. With Much Love Jessica 💕

Welcome Katie

Hugs, Liara

Welcome to CDH
Hugs Charlotte

Sincere wishes for the future.
Anya ( hugs )

Hi Katie, welcome to CDH 🙂

Hi Katie,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

Hi Katie nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here on the best CD site on the internet so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Im one of the lucky few that have a supportive wife we met  got married  i came out to her just after being married which was 38 years ago and we still have a wonderful time as wife and girlfriend with some hubby time thrown in for good measure ha ha .. If your intrested to ask your Girlfriend about joiningthere is a group here for the wifes and Signifacant others for GGs to join to learn and chat with other ladies here where we cant intrude on there privacy just for them .. Just something to think about .. Please look around and enjoy yourself and again nice to meet you ..

Stephanie Bass

Thank you all so much for a wonderful welcome. For the first time in my life I have a supportive wife albeit with limits and all the gorgeous people here at CDH to share my life with.

Hi Katie, welcome to CDH.

I'm from the other side of the border in Lincolnshire

Take care Kimmy x