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Hi, I'm Michelle, or I am becoming Michelle I should say. This is a part of me I have always ben to ashamed and scared to explore. I'm so glad I found this community. I'm hoping to make friends and learn.
Hey Michelle
Welcome to CDH !
There's nothing to either be ashamed about, or to be scared about, in being a crossdresser. I'd go so far as to say that's it's a perfectly normal part of the spectrum of human behaviour. The book ‘Tell Me What You Want’ by Justin Lehmiller contained a survey which found that roughly a quarter of all men and women have fantasized about cross dressing at some point, and another survey suggested that up to 7% of men have actually followed through on that fantasy.
This site alone has over 30,000 members ... and it's one of many.
The bottom line is that you're not doing anything at all unusual. You’re simply expressing a part of yourself that is different. Contemporary society isn’t very good at tolerating differences, but that's society's problem, not yours.
So, I say it again ... welcome! This is a wonderful supportive community and you're DEFINITELY among friends now.
Hugs
Ellie x
@michellecalumet Welcome to CDH, Michelle!
You will find quite a few members here who have overcome their feelings of shame. You can, too. Hopefully you don't purge.
Hi Michelle, welcome to CDH.
The feelings you've experienced are ones shared by many of us. If you're wanting to explore them and where they're leading you, then you've found the right place to help you. Don't be afraid to ask questions or seek advice!
If you feel like it, add some info about yourself in the boxes on your profile page.
Take care.
Hi Michelle,
Welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family,
I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on I'm still in the closet to my family,
I'm sorry i can't meet up with you for a coffee I'm on the other side of the pond in the UK, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X
Hugs Rozalyn X
Hi Michelle,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Welcome to CDH!
I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.
Lots of friendly people to make friends with here and learn from.
Again, welcome to CDH!
Catherine
Michelle -
Welcome to CDH. You will find this to be a friendly place to share your journey, make friends and get advice. Be sure to check out the articles, forums and join the conversation in chat.
XOXO
Suzanne
Welcome Michelle 🙂
As others have said, it's quite normal to feel that way about wanting to be a crossdresser. You are, after all, wanting to buck so many of the rules that society expects a guy to follow.
Once you realise that there is no point fighting your feelings and desires, and begin to embrace and enjoy them, then you will find yourself in a much better place. You have come to the right place to begin the journey to self-acceptance. Everyone on here will have had the same doubts and fears, so just ask 🙂
Hi Michelle,
Welcome along, there is certainly no need for any fear here. We are all happily sailing along in the same boat (even if it feels like a lifeboat sometimes) so jump in & have fun.
Sasha
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