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Hello, how great it has been to meet you all so far and settle in just fine.
Thanks for all the great information, tips and great chat. Only on day 3 and feel like I've known you all for years already feeling so at home, I want a holiday 😍
Thanks for having me and hope to meet more of you beautiful people soon ❤️
@lenajhonson09 Hiya Tina, how lovely it is to meet you, as it is everyone on here so far x 😁
Hi, Ruby, welcome to our unique community.
We are a diverse bunch, in ages, experience and plans but we all love expressing our feminine sides. There's a lot of knowledge among the girls so just ask if there's anything you need or questions you have. Oh wait, I see that you have already. As it happens, there's currently a competition to find local places such as the type you're looking for. The details of that are here, https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/community/articles/local-places-contest-article/
I know that Ellie has been contacting places in the UK so I've copied her in on this reply, she'll be better placed (no pun unpunned) to help than I am.
Anyhoo, back to the welcome, where was I? Oh yes, the girls here are genuinely warm and friendly and will help in any way we can. You'll have all the encouragement and support we can give, and believe me, that's a lot! Not for nothing do we say that this community can change lives.
Enjoy discovering your new home from home 😊.
Allie x
@razmataz Welcome Ruby to this wonderful and fast growing community it’s so nice to have you here with us 💕
Julie
Welcome from across the pond to CDH, Ruby!
We're glad that you have joined us. Your in the right place for all things feminine. Along with caring, understanding and compassionate girls like yourself. We're here to support and assist you in any way we can!
Browse this site to find friendships, chat, information, tutorials, videos and answers to your questions.
Welcome to the Pink Fog!
Fran 🥰
🍒🍒 Hi Ruby ,
Welcome to CDH!, I'm so glad to see you here , !!!
🌞First to say Welcome
Huggs 💓
Stephanie 👠
Hi Ruby welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you,
I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since I was about 8 or 9 years old when I tried my older sisters lingerie on,
I'm a UK girl too I'm down in Shropshire, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat,
Hugs Roz X
Hiya Rosalyn,
How lovely it is to meet you and thank you for your reply, I'm about a 2 hour drive away from Shropshire just north from you in Blackburn.
I've been dressing up in private, away from my girlfriend and family as I don't want to be awkward due to having a more revealing taste of clothing than my girlfriend and I'm also taller which would make me more noticeable than she would be. Then there's the rest of the family who have a whole bunch of different walks of life shall we say.
I do get a lot of time to myself that I think I could spend away from home for a nice change, otherwise I'm at home trying new looks then hiding it all away for the weekend until I can bring ruby back out.
Maybe one day I will explain, but at the moment it seems to be the easiest thing to do.
Ideally I would like to find somewhere I could stay for a day or two, have my makeup done properly in nice lingerie then dress up, photos, and relax for the day or two with like minded people, I've found similar to this in Blackpool and Preston, but it's only for 6 hours maximum.
Love ruby x
Hi Ruby, the thing is I'm still in the closet to my wife and family, so there is really no way i would be able to accommodate you at my place, sorry about that,
If you want to know where i had my makeover it was at Tracey's salon in Syston near Leicester I'm not sure what her salon is called you may have to Google it I'm sure it will tell you the name and give you directions how to get there,
I'm still in the closet because I'm not sure how things would go if i was to come out to everyone, I've been hiding it for so long I'm sure my wife would feel betrayed i didn't tell her when we first met,
I'm still working on my next visit to Tracey's for a repeat session i can only get another makeover if i can get my wife to have a holiday away by herself,
I'll keep in touch Incase i get the chance for another makeover,
Love Roz ❤️
@rozalyne I understand, I have a girlfriend although not married I have the same feelings. She doesn't live with me so I usually get weekdays to myself to do as I please.
Thanks for thinking about me though, feeling loved 🥰
Your welcome Ruby, we are all sisters on here, if there is anything else you need to know just ask and I'll get back to you,
Love Roz ❤️
Hi Ruby and welcome to you.
You have already found that we are a very friendly area and that you can express yourself freely. I am sure that you will find everything you are looking for here to help you develop yourself as Ruby. It looks as if you are at the starting point of a new phase and you can be assured you will get support and encouragement from a wonderful group of ladies.
Never be afraid to ask and the answers will follow.
Enjoy your time here.
I have to admit I did cry happy tears on my first day here, it was like a beautiful warm hug
Hi Ruby and welcome to CDH! You're in exactly the right place to take the next steps of your journey, whichever direction they might be in. As well as warmth, support and friendship, there'll be plenty of experience and advice from the girls here for you to tap into. Looking forward to getting to know you 🙂
Hugs,
Fiona xxx
Ruby,
Your red hair looks gorgeous in your photographs, definitely prefer the longer style, it really suits you.
Re: Your desire to go out dressed in the right circumstances that you mention in your personal page. You will find, or perhaps already have, that there is a UK CDH outing in Leeds on 1st August, which is not too far from you.
Welcome in, I hope you find everything you might be looking for here.
Hugs
Becca
PS I was born in Blackburn. I lived in Newington Avenue, but left when I was four, only been back once.
I read that Leeds is the first Friday of each month, not sure if it lands on the 1st each time x
It is the first Friday, that just happens to be the 1st in August.
It'll be a great way to meet other CDH members and I know Ellie has been contacting makeup artists locally to check availability.
Allie x
alexazrexina? I've seen that happen a few times lately. I found that putting a double space after the initial @ name doesn't change it though. Just being helpful in case others have noticed 😊
I didn't type it ... it just populated automatically with that when I hit 'reply' 🙁
I know, it happened when I added your name to my reply to Ruby. I won't say what it came up with though, in case it sticks 😱
I'm afraid you'll have to remain intrigued, Ruby, as my lips are sealed. Literally. Who thought it was a good idea to make glue sticks look like lipsticks!
Thanks Ellie x
I'm looking at getting to the April event hopefully, maybe make a weekend of it. The more time I get to spend with all the beautiful people the better really. Thanks for the heads up x
They have an app too (just search for Leeds First Friday). If you download it and message me I can tell you the password 🙂
@ellyd22 I think it might be just on iPhone for the app, I can't find it on android x
Just managed to have a look, it looks all very exciting x 😍 Thanks for everything ❤️
Hi Ruby,
Welcome to CDH. It’s nice to meet you.
Alice
Thank you
Hi Ruby so nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so with a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from girl do some looking around and reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Ruby as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend its so nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon.. Like you in the UK I'm just across the pond from you just a row boat ride away here in Montana USA so not so far he he ..
Stephanie Bass
Thank you so much, I don't think I've smiled so much ever since joining 😁
