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Hi,
I'm hoping to make some friends and share experiences about cross-dressing. I am quite new to cross-dressing (maybe 6 months) and I realised I'd locked this away a long time ago when this part of me first asserted itself.
I have enough stuff to get dressed up fully and though I am a makeup novice, I can get a sense that I like what I see dressed up. I'm also very tall (6'4") so I envy shorter girls who can go out in public and find more variety in shoes (US size 15/16 for me). It's also hard to feel like I look great when I know I would seem freakish in public.
Right now I'm really trying to figure out where I fit into the world. I don't think I want to transition but I'm still pretty confused and I feel like I am changing all the time. I do wonder if there are others out there that feel the same?
Hugs,
Scarlett
Hi Scarlett and welcome to CDH. Height is not all it is to being a woman. I know you may not see yourself as that perfect woman but many of use do not and even many Genetic Girls (gg) do not see themselves as the perfect woman. : ) It is about being who you are inside and being able to express that part of you freely. I think you will enjoy it here at CDH there are may ladies in the same place as yourself and you can learn a lot from them and we can all grow together that is what I love about this place. Everyday I meet a new person or learn something new or just am able to relax and be myself with others that do not judge me for who I am. I hope you enjoy it here as much as I do. Say hello any time.
Sara
Hi Scarlett! Welcome to CDH and a bunch of wonderful girls! I understand your being worried about not looking like a perfect gg but as Sara Marie said, not even all gg’s look perfect. I used to worry about wearing heels, going in public and a whole host of other frivolities, but now can safely say... who cares? I am me and wish to only be happy with myself. I regularly go out and about doing whatever I want and do so without any issues. Yes I get that occasional “look” but nobody bothers me and I bother nobody. So you go girl and find yourself! Being true to you and happy and comfortable in your own size 15’s is all that truly matters. I hope you find a wonderful and supportive sisterhood here at CDH and look forward to seeing you around.
🍷C
Scarlett so happy to welcome you to our beautiful site . Just new I see and your not alone. I myself have only been here just less a year and just starting to understand this love of dressing . This is a place that you will see is a huge boost in helping and the ladies are so helpful. The advice and information that they have given me really was the needs I searched for to learn and grow into this new world and to know there is the support and acceptance to enjoy this wonderful experience. Enjoy your stay and happy to have you here and now experience that journey you have always wanted. Sincerely Stephanie 🌹
Howdy Scarlett from "down under"! Welcome to the sisterhood. I Look forward to hearing more from you. There are lots of free make-up tips and training on you-tube and many cosmetics company offer such how tos' on their web-sites. L'Oreal Paris, Max Factor and Covergirl comes to mind. Try them.
Look forward to hearing more from you, girl!
Lady Veronica
Hugs Scarlett!
Thank you all, I feel supported already xx
