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Hi, I'm Sofia.

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(@sofia-l)
Trusted Member     Salt Lake City, Utah, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Ladies. I'm excited to be a part of this forum as I explore this new and wonderful side of me!

I'd have to say it all started for me as a young boy trying on my Grandmother's, Mother's, and sister's clothing and underwear, and then many years later, my Wife's. Over the past 4 months or so the desire to dress has accelerated and I've begun to acquire my "girl kit". Last weekend I had the house to myself and took the opportunity to start practicing with makeup and once I dressed and put on my wig and looked at myself in the mirror the warmest, happiest glow  overcame me! I felt so good that I decided to go shopping at the lingerie and adult store where I'd purchased my wig and some other items. I felt this was the one place I could go to in my far from passable state.

I put on jeans, sneakers, and a button down long sleeve shirt with sunglasses over my made up face,(eyes and face makeup but nothing on my lips), and put my wig and hoop earrings on in the parking lot. It was a bit nerve racking at first, but this store sells some cross dressing supplies and the girls that work there are really accepting and helpful, and I have to say I just had the best time trying on shoes and dresses! At one point the girl that had helped me on my drab visits to the store when I bought my wig came out of the back room and recognized me and told me how good I looked, made my day. I ended by purchasing a pair of open toed platform high heels and a gaff thong and went home and put on lipstick and a dress and spent the rest of the night just looking at myself in the mirror.

The next day I laundered my lady clothes, cleaned up any signs of my shenanigans, then carefully packed everything away to the garage rafters wondering when the next time I'd be able to use them would be. I was a bit sad and questioned myself for the umpteenth time about whether or not it was worth the hassle of keeping the secret, then something happened that changed my entire outlook.

A very dear old friend, that happens to be female called and wanted to get together to do some hiking later in the week. She is the closest non-romantic woman friend I've ever had, and we've always been able to tell each other anything without fear of judgement or betrayal. During the days leading up to our hike I debated coming out to her. To make a long story short, I did tell her and like I thought, she was completely accepting. Not only that, she immediately suggested we go out as girlfriends! After talking about it she also offered to let me keep my things at her condo, help me by ordering things online with her credit card and have them delivered to her house, and let me dress up at her house whenever I want. She even said she'd give me a key so I could go by myself.

I feel so fortunate and grateful to have her as a friend and I'm full of excitement thinking about being girlfriends with her!

I know this is a long first post, but I'm just happy to be here!

 

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(@dlgeb275)
Noble Member     niagara falls, ny., New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

wow what a wonder ful friend you have to except your dressing up and use her credit card to buy female clothing and have it sent to her condo and have a key.   she is just a wonderful person. you can tell her that i said that. wish i had some one like that where i can go and dress up and be her girl friend when i want to dress up and be out doors and shop. i never did go out to stores dressed up. i went to a cross dressers meeting 1 time at night and had a blast but that was the only time. i dress up when my 2 adult kids are in bed or out for the night. my wife knows of my desire and knows about my clothing. i have more then she does. i dress up and be me and don't care if wife sees me for she knows. for the 2 adults kids NO. wife tells me when i can dress up so that's a hint the kids are going to be gone for the week end or night. i go dress up and be feminine and put on perfume and wife then really knows what i am doing. just cant get enough of dressing up. just wish i could dress up and be this way 24 7 and be happy and be me. there are times i under dress. that is where you have your female cloths on then male cloths over them. i feel good but not to the point of showing how pretty i look. it takes time for me to apply make up and set my wig, for the rest of putting on panties, pad, nylons, lacy bra not long. for the dress or skirt that's hard, what looks good on me that is pretty and does it match my make up, then the heels. love the hear of click click on the floor as i walk. the sensation of nylons and dress against my body is so sexy and feel like a woman when i am dressed up.  when my fem side what to come out its like a switch, she takes over my body and dresses me like a female

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(@sofia-l)
Trusted Member     Salt Lake City, Utah, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Lucinda, I do feel fortunate to have my friend. I think it's great your wife is accepting of your feminine side, does she ever see you fully dressed?

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(@marianne65)
Honorable Member     Uppsala, Uppland, Sweden
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Sofia,

you've got an awesome friend there it seems. I also wish I had someone supportive to go out with at times. I've been out a lot but always alone.

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(@plrmmchl)
Active Member     owosso, mi, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Sofia,

My name is Eve and I can relate to a lot of what you said in your opening paragraph about when we started to dress at an early age and I can also relate to having to hide my clothes in the rafters, in the garage.  Now, I do not have to do that anymore, as I came out to my wife a few years ago and the one who really understands what I am going through to be living in two worlds.  She is very very supportive and now that I do not have to hide it anymore I feel so very comfortable coming home and getting dressed feminine as we go out shopping.  I usually wear my girlie pants and top and we shop at second hand stores.  We have a lot of fun doing it and trying on the clothes.  It is a little late and so I did not get a chance to read the entire bio but I will return and finish and hope we can become fem friends.  Eve.

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(@dlgeb275)
Noble Member     niagara falls, ny., New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

hello Sofia.   yes she does see me dressed up now and then and she says "REALLY" and then she proceeds to do what she came in room to do and that's it. she does not say i look pretty or try to give me a hand with make up or pointers on make up tips. i don't hide it from her any more just as long as my 2 older adult kids are not home i dress up or i dress up when 1 is in bed and the other at work i dress up.  she does come in my room and tell me i put on too much perfume tho.  just wish i could sit in same room and watch tv and talk about my desire to dress up or tell her how i feel dressed up pretty.

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(@cyberian2)
Noble Member     Elliot Lake, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Sofia....enjoyed your tale! You are indeed blessed. As Confuscious says.....all one needs in life is a true friend!

Lady Veronica

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