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Hello lovely ladies,
I am Taylah Amber and I am a new member here. I am also a new member of the CD community, having only just come out to my SO very recently. I am still extremely closeted, and still live with my parents so I struggle to dress how I want. My SO did however lend me a skirt to wear until this crazy coronavirus is over and I can go shopping for my own clothing! My primary problem is my parents, and my main question is how do I subtly dress more feminine so that my parents do not suspect too much, as they are very straight and homophobic, basically against everything I am.
-Taylah Amber 🙂
Hey Taylah, welcome and greetings from Germany. Also recently out to my S/O tho thankfully not having to deal with my parents. You’ll find loads of helpful and supportive girls on here; hopefully you can find your way whatever path you’re on.
Seraphina x
Hi Taylah, Teralynn here. Welcome to CDH Luv! You’ll get lots of love and support here. Be easy on your parents for they are old school traditional values. They brought you into the world and raised you. But you have to live your life as the person you feel you are. Until you are on your own pick and choose your dressing opportunities carefully. Fortunately you have a supportive significant other. Use the time with your SO to dress. When you are at home/work/or school you may outwardly have to wear male attire, but underneath those clothes you can wear panties, a camisole or bra. You could also wear above the knee nylons, and if anyone asks just say that they are special compression socks that helps your circulation. Remember no matter what you are wearing, Taylah exists and is your feminine persona. You can feel like her any time of the day no matter what you are wearing at the time. I am sure the girls here at CDH can give you additional recommendations that will make life bearable even though you cannot dress the way you want to all the time! So stay active on the site and let our members help you along your crossdressing journey. If I can ever be of service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. A post on my home profile page wall will get the fastest response. - Blessings
Welcome, Taylah
Hmm, that's a tough one.
If you're still living at home, I imagine that it's not only difficult to wear your feminine clothes, but to even have them in the house.
You're fortunate that your SO is supportive.
Maybe you'd be able to keep your feminine wardrobe at your SO's house?
You might try wearing unisex clothing, and panties if possible.
I hope this helps.
PM anytime.
🙂
Taylah hello from Canada.. Congratulations on opening up to your SO. Keeping secrets certainly does not help any relationship. And for living with your parents. Unfortunately with this virus we must make difficult decisions and one of staying quiet until time comes when you can introduce Taylah more freely. Enjoy browsing online through many of the sites and start looking for your feminine clothing and getting your own wardrobes started. Like as been mentioned from everyone everywhere, be patient things will get better and so will our liberties... nice meeting you and I enjoy your time here with us..
Stephanie 🌷
Hi Tallahassee,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Yaylah;
Welcome to CDH. This is a great and accepting place to spend your time.
I'm glad that your SO knows, and it sounds like she is quite accepting. Parents are difficult problem when you are under their roof, and if yours are anything like mine were. My house, my rules! Was the motto I lived under.
Part of it depends on how much privacy you have. For instance, my Mom used to clean my room, and it was difficult for me to hide very much. She even found something more personal I hid under my bed one time. When I got my own car then I was able to hide things in the trunk.
There are women's jeans which are very much like men's, and some wear of our girls them, stealth mode if you like the term. Likewise there are tops which are also rather unisexual. One question though, who does the laundry? If you are expected to do your own, that makes it easier, but if your Mom does it, that makes it more difficult.
Anyway, somehow I'm not sure I helping you very much.
As you might have noticed already there are many great girls here to talk to.
Amy
Hi, Taylah. Welcome. Sorry I can't offer any suggestions on dressing subtly feminine. When I dress up, I go all out, fully feminine.
Welcome Taylah!