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Hi, I'm Veronica... sometimes

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Topic starter
(@veronicavallys)
Eminent Member     New York City, New York, United States of America
Joined: 10 months ago

Hello all. I am a part-time closeted CD from New York and I started crossdressing at about the age of 12 with my mom's clothes. It was always a solitary, at home occupation that was associated with a lot of confusion, guilt and shame (being raised Catholic didn't help). But I found the courage in me recently, at the tender age of 57, to step outside fully dressed. It was exhilarating and a couple of nights after, I went to an LGBTQ+ bar where I had a positive experience. I decided to join this forum to find a community where I can discuss all this.

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2154

@veronicavallys 

Hi, Veronica, welcome to CDH. This is a safe,  warm and friendly community, you're free to express yourself among like-minded people. We like to share our thoughts and experiences so join in when you're ready.

Allie 

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(@veronicavallys)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     New York City, New York, United States of America
Posts: 17

@alexina Thank you Allie! I see from your profile we have a lot in common.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5171

@veronicavallys 

Hey Veronica

It sounds like we're an ideal fit for you.

Welcome to CDH 🙂

This is a very warm and supportive community - the perfect place to seek advice, chat or just hang out and have fun. The girls here are wonderful, and it's a great place to make friends.

There's lots to explore. Enjoy doing that, and if you need help with anything then just shout.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1004

@veronicavallys 

Hi Veronica and welcome.

Many of us here have had a similar experience to the one you describe.

Guilt, shame and confusion seems to come with the territory for a lot of us.

It’s great that you’ve decided to join us here, as I think you’ll find this is the perfect place for you.

We’re very warm and supportive here, and you’ll find plenty of like minded people that you can discuss things with. Don’t be afraid to ask anything you want to, we’re happy to help you settle in.

Lucy 

 

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Lady
(@vonda)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 19

@veronicavallys 

Hello Veronica,

I just want to commend you for stepping out. I was raised in a strict evangelical home, so I relate to your struggle. Be encouraged, and stay strong!

Best 2U,

Vonda

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Baroness
(@river)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     New Hampshire, United States of America
Posts: 827

@veronicavallys Everytime I see Confusion guilt and shame it tears at my heart strings as we know very well what thats all about.  I hate that I could have a wonderful night and then the next day feel like I did something wrong and feel like crap about it.  but  CDH has helped this for me greatly and I think you will find the same. Welcome !! RC..

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3991

@veronicavallys Welcome to CDH, Veronica!

Thank you for choosing CDH as your site for expressing yourself.

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Guest
(@Anonymous 95235)
Estimable Member
Joined: 11 months ago

Welcome Veronica , you are definitely in the right place  !! So much love and friendship on this wonderful forum x

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(@finallyfiona)
    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Welcome to CDH Veronica!  Being out in public en femme is just the best, isn't it 🙂  This lovely warm community of like-minded ladies likes nothing more than to chat away about this and all other aspects of CD / TG life.  I think you're going to like it here!

Hugs,
Fiona xxx

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Guest
(@Anonymous 95235)
Estimable Member
Joined: 11 months ago

Hi Veronica,

Welcome to CDH, plenty of girls from NY, NJ area here to share your experiences! 

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome aboard Veronica!

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Veronica,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Guest
(@Anonymous 95235)
Estimable Member
Joined: 11 months ago

Hi Veronica,

Welcone to CDH! You’re just a pup! Ive been cross dressing on my own for nearly as long as you’ve been alive! Then, last month I found CDH and have grown so much that I am going to an event in OKC where I can be Sheryl for the whole weekend shopping, dining, poolside parties and more! All because this site has given me the encouragement and love I needed to grow! You will Thank all these ladies just as I am doing now! Have fun!

Sheryl

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Veronica.

Welcome to CDH. 

Gisela

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Duchess
(@karla1958)
Honorable Member     Not in New Orleans, Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Veronica and welcome!

Heart

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(@bethanymichaels)
Trusted Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 11 months ago

Welcome and enjoy yourself here!

 

-Bethany sometimes 

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Posts: 245
Guest
(@Anonymous 95235)
Estimable Member
Joined: 11 months ago

Welcome to CDH you find many lady’s here to chat and share the same experiences with indeed everyone here are so amazing understanding and supported you picked a wonderful place to be 

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Veronica nice to meet you and please forgive me as was on here to welcome you last night and lost power in my area till early morning hours then up and to work .. Now home and back to see you again girl and tell you about us girls here so sit back and enjoy the ride its a blast .. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. As for all the girls here we love a good old girly chat so please don't be shy jump in anytime you feel like it .. Ask many questions and receive many answers have fun girlfriend and hope to see you around for that chat sometime soon.. 

Stephanie Bass

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Topic starter
(@veronicavallys)
Eminent Member     New York City, New York, United States of America
Joined: 10 months ago

Thank you all for the kind words! It makes me feel welcome. 😊

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Veroncia!

Nice introduction.

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

And a place you can discuss "all this" i.e. all things crossdressing. 🙂

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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