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Hi everybody, I'm an English ex pat living in Lakeland FL. I got married here in 2014 and recently got permanent residency. Yay! I've been secretly cross dressing since I was 18 but I'm now considering coming out publicly. I recently opened up to my wife about my little secret and she has been so supportive and encouraging to me. I'm a newbie here and need lots of advice on great make up techniques, dressing up convincingly, finding local places to go where I can be relaxed and connect with understanding friends who can help boost my self confidence. I'm 54 now as a guy but when I'm made up and dressed as my character, I present myself as 45. My female character/alter ego is Victoria Elizabeth Scott. She's a Southern rock chick who wears the '80s look and likes to dress to impress. Please be gentle with me. I'm pretty nervous about coming out as Vicki to the general public, and need all the support and advice I can get. Thank you in advance, luv Vicki XOXO
Well if you wife is supportive you can ask her to do your makeup for you
Welcome Vicki to CDH. You will enjoy this group of girls and make many friends. It is great that your wife is supportive. She will be able to give you a lot of help with makeup, clothes, etc.
Vicky, welcome dear and never feel afraid or nervous about being here. We totally understand how you must be feeling opening up to everyone. It is intimidating and certainly daunting but I assure you we're very compassionate and know what your facing. I'm happy to hear about your loving wife and her acceptance as your a special few who are blessed on having this wonderful support. Start your journey with us with no worries as the girls are wonderful in making one feel most comfortable and welcome. The support is always felt and help to better understand and deal with this amazing time. Chat with and with some make beautiful friendships . Your not alone and here express yourself with pride and confinance to explore further in this wonderful world. Happy to meet you and hope to see you around here soon. Hugs!
Stephanie 🌹
Hi Vicki,
From one girl of the 80’s to another welcome, the 80’s rock chick look is wonderful.
You will find lots of help and friendship here, I am happy to keep in touch, look forward to seeing you around the site.
Jessica x.
From somebody who lives in the country you left welcome and good luck realising your dreams. x.
Hi, Vicki. i am over in Citrus County on the Gulf Coast. i just had ‘the talk’ with my wife last week she is at least accepting. With a supportive wife things are much easier
Welcome Vicki!
Hello and welcome Vicki! You hav come to the right place for advice, support, and acceptance. Enjoy your journey!
