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I’m 50 years old and live in CA with my wife and 2 teenage kids. I’m a fit, muscular person with tattoos in a very masculine career. Last year, I quit drinking as a lifestyle choice and have begun to flirt with my feminine side. I try not to keep secrets from my wife, but find myself admitting only limited details of my fantasy life. After modeling in the mirror wearing her bras, panties and swimsuits I finally got up the nerve and confessed my new lifestyle quirk. She is fine with it and even bought me a cute bra. She has a lot of questions about how it impacts my sexuality, though. I do too.
I haven’t told her I have tried on her skirts and dresses and bought thigh highs and other sexy things. I don’t think she will object, but I feel embarrassed for even wanting to dress and look pretty. It makes me feel less like a deviant when I read/hear others talk about their experiences so that’s why I’m here.
Thanks
Hi Waymoore, Teralynn here. Welcome to our wonderful online community. Here you will get to know a lot of crossdressing people who can answer your questions and share experiences with you. You may even find a few that you will want as friends that you can communicate with regularly. I applaud the fact that you have opened up to your wife about your crossdressing. Give her a big hug for me for being so understanding and supportive so far. You might recommend that she become a member in her own right and join the support group for significant others of crossdressing people. They can answer a lot of the questions she might have and give her support that will help her with her new reality. There are a lot of worrying thoughts that go through a significant other’s mind when they find out their partner is into crossdressing. Probably the biggest is - how is this going to affect our relationship and how far does he want to take this? Accepting certain limitations on your crossdressing and reassuring her that you still love her and don’t want your relationship to end is the best way to keep her supportive while still having freedom to crossdress and not worry about being caught anymore. Hope you enjoy your membership and stay active on the site. This is just the first of many welcoming posts that you are going to receive. That will give you an indication of just how wonderful this site and its members are. If I can ever be of service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. A post on my home profile page wall or a private message will get the fastest response. - Blessings
Welcome to CDH! So glad you are here!🤗
Welcome to the group Waymoore 🌸🎀 you will really love it here!! 🌼❤️
Hi Waymoore welcome to CDH, I'm sure you will enjoy exploring all that this site has to offer, throw off your inhibitions and join in the fun.
Oh and repeat after me - "I am Not a deviant!!
Hugs
Diana
Hi Waymoore welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you, there are no deviants on here, I'm sure you will have lots of questions to ask so just ask and the girls will get back to you, we are like one big happy family on here x we have probably all felt the same as you over the years but I'm sure most of us on here have excepted that our femininity is a part of us we have embraced i know i have, anyway welcome come in and make yourself at home x
Hugs Rozalyne x
Waymoore welcome to Cdh
Stephanie 🌷
Hi Waymoore,
Welcome to CDH!
- Robyn
Hi Waymoore,
Welcome to CDH!
Alice
Welcome Candice and oh by the way love the name!!
Hugs and Kisses
Candace
Welcome Candice!
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