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Greetings Ladies,
I am still kind of closeted about dressing but I love turning into a woman! I have several outfits but have to admit that for the most part, I like mini skirts and spaghetti strapped tanks. This may be the wrong may to introduce myself, but I decided to describe my biggest challenges first.
I have been dressing for over 5 years but still struggle with makeup, especially eye shadow and mascara. My eyes flinch shut when anything gets close. I can't even do eye drops. I also have a mild hand tremor. I also have a great sense color so matching makeup to my complexion is an issue too.
The other big reason I am on here is to make friends. I am kind of a shy intellectual type. My male friends would never understand my love of dressing and I don't really have any female friends after 3 years of retirement in the country. I live with my ex-wife (long, mostly about long term finances). My dressing really upsets her so I only do it when she's gone which is quite a bit. She's my best friend but we haven't had any physical relationship in years.
If there are other ladies here from the Dallas-collin area, I would love to meet you. I am very, very interested in online relationships too. I don't follow pop culture much, nor do I drink or go clubbing. I do love the mystical, psycho-spiritual as well as the arts, humanities, history, etc. Oh, and cats! Like I said, an intellectual nerd. I can be serious but am not sad and have a dry sense of humor.
Anyway, I hope someone will reply and we can talk. I am still learning to use the site and hope that doesn't slow me down in making friends
Jodi Q.
Hi, Jodi and welcome!
I'm a new member too) However I was welcomed very warm since the very beginning.
By the way, for me, eye liner is absolutely difficult thing. Mascara too, but not like that:)
Jodi hello, much of what you have said in whole or in part has similarities in many of our girls here. I’ve joined back when as very new to this intriguing world began discovering what was on my heart well it seamed forever . To enjoy the company of so many in different levels of there dressing it’s allowed me to explore this wonderful passion and at a place so comfortable and caring. Still makeup is much of a problem like so many here with maccarra certainly being my main issue but learning. Look into our forums and see the advice and tips to better yourself in so many ways. Also many to chat with and best of all make wonderful friendships with. I enjoy meeting with so many lovely ladies and please say hi with are paths ever cross. Welcome. …
Stephanie 🌹
Thank you. You are so pretty. Trying to work up the courage to post a face pic. Most of my pics show off my legs and butt. I dress kinda... Sexy, maybe too much so. Already feeling you all's warmth. So sweet. Thanks! I
Hi Victoria,
Thanks so much for the sweet, reassuring welcome. I am already starting to feel safe here. I am trying to get up the nerve to post a face and other pics, maybe get some advice. I am really blown away by hiw pretty you are! I will be exploring the site a little later. I am notvery davvy about miving around sites. Terms and icons confuse me. If the rest of the site is as great as the welcome post it will be heavenly!
Thank you so much, Jodi! You're very kind. Believe it or not, this was my first time of complete crossdressing + makeup:)
I felt nervous too. Especially when I initially thought that such things must be "suppressed" or something like that. But then I began to discover more about crossdressing and found a lot of helpful info on it, kind friendly people, support - all that really gives you an additional courage. A courage to be who you want to be.
Feel free to ask me anything and anytime!
Once again thanks. To be frank, i am not sure of my sexual identity. I have thought of myself as a bisexual dabbler in cd who loved all things feminine until the last several years. Ive now come to wonder if perhaps I am transgender. I am not concerned withlabels so much as with identity. For now i want see how far into femininity i can go and how it makes me feel. So far, the more feminine i become in appearance and demeanor, the more pleased i am. But i have been totally alone in that transition beyond a few sexually exploitive men. I grew up in an era when homosexuality was considered both a mental illness and a crime. While i am very aware of how much social attitudes have changed, that early programming is difficult to shed. It also seems that whether a bi-cd or a mtf tg, community is hard to find, especially at age 64. I think this is the place where i can find people with whom i can openly share my inner experiences and listen to theirs. In so doing i hope to find myself. I am sure we'll be in contact more...at least i hope we will.
Hi Jodi
Charlene is my femm persona name. Brand new member. Tho full dress I also have makeup problems, especially eyelashes. Would like to here and also share past (and exciting future) experiences.
VERY interested in your home situation. I had not jumped in fully to this CD/TV world as was married......but now can imbibe.
Anyhoo, hope we can chat
C
About 8 or 10 years ago i told my wife i wanted to dress and wanted her to be part of it. We'd had a pretty adventurous sex life so i expected her to be ok with it. She went along with helping me a bit but it really upset her deeply. She thought i was going gay and was going to lose me. I was thinking about doing men but never raised that with her figuring one step at a time. Her hurt/fear was so deep i ultimately quit dressing for well over5 years. (Since i am now unsure if i am a bi-cd or a mtf tg, maybe she was right- she'd known i was somewhat bi for years.) I am not sure she ever got past it. Other, unrelated things happened and we grew apart. After several years of being celibate friends, i am dressing when she works out of town. I am not sure if she knows. Shes not commented on my shaved legs. Either she hasnt noticed or isnt raising the issue since we now lead somewhat separate lives... Like best friends that share a bed for sleeping.
I have heard of wives who enjoy thehusbands dressing and even a few wives who cuckold their cd husbands openly and share them with thier dates. Not sure how true any of those stories are tho. Saw them on a forum called quora which is mix of reality, opinion and BS.
Hi Jodi !
Welcome to CDH ! The ladies here share their support, advice and tips with each other as well as experiences. Allow me to suggest that you take the time to learn how to navigate the site. Read some articles and forums. Read some member profiles to see what kind of information people share to allow people to know them better. Most of all feel free to participate. We’re very friendly here.
Hugs
Autumn
Welcome, Jodi!
i have neuropathy which limits my hand use so eye makeup is tricky fo me. They do make eye shadow appliqués that you can use. They have them on Amazon and Ebay. You will find supportive friends here 💋
Nice to know you're close by. I used to go thru Shreveport a lot to visit my mother in law in south MS but she passed away awhile ago. I know s. LA better, having been in Baton Rouge for 4 years of grad school.
Welcome Jodi!
Welcome fellow Tiger! You found a great group of people here. Everyone I have chatted with has been very friendly and helpful. There is lots of information here too. Enjoy your stay!
Vicki