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Hi ladies, I remember my first girl adventure

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(@samanthah)
Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

I remember being fascinated by my mom’s lipsticks and black patent purses, of course she kept her purses high in the closet so that was out of my reach but her lipsticks were fair game at least I could get to those beauties.

I was just wondering how all you wonderful ladies started your adventure into girlhood, have a great day.

hugs

Samantha

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Lady
(@ginger1968)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Intercourse, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 122

@samanthah I was 4-5 years old and I remember my mother had a white silk Gloria Vanderbilt v neck blouse. I loved how soft and silky it was. My parents had gone out and my great grandmother ( she is the reason I fell I love with pantyhose, ask me and I’ll tell you the story) anyway my great grandmother was watching me and I decided to go into my parents bedroom and try on that blouse and we’ll in doing so I found a pair of moms nude colored pantyhose and lo and behold Ginger was born!

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@ginger1968 

I love that, thank for sharing.

hugs

Samantha

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(@Anonymous 93795)
Joined: 1 year ago

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@ginger1968 I have to know…the reason you fell in love with pantyhose?? 😀

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
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@samanthah Hi Samantha

Nice meeting you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. You know as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girlfriend there is a wealth of knowledge here to accept and learn from so look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life ..  So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Samantha as she travels down her own girly path in life... Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. Please do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more p[lease as this is how we get to know you better thanks.. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Lady
(@jeried)
Joined: 1 year ago

Estimable Member     SE Missouri, Missouri, United States of America
Posts: 54

@samanthah mine was with my mothers stuff. I don’t remember how old I was, I’m thinking 6 or 7. I used to try on her slips and underwear…especially her bras. They didn’t fit me right but as I got older they fit. As I got older I got married and used my, now ex wife’s garter and stockings.  Then I tried on her bras as well. She caught me once but never said much about it. Now, remarried, my wife supports me fully so now I can be out in the open.

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@jeried 

That’s awesome, you found true happiness, I love it.

hugs  

Samantha 

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Baroness
(@river)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     New Hampshire, United States of America
Posts: 827

@samanthah Cant say I remember my first time borrowing my moms or big sisters anything maybe 11ish I got the bug at like 8 thats another story. but  We had a large cedar closet filled with dresses and such also wig as my mom had breast cancer she had a wig at one time and it ended up in there. as well as a box of junk costume jewelry.  talking about being in the closet that was my favorite place. it was kind of like Narnia.  Welcome...  Have a great day.  RC

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@river 

I hope you’re mom is doing well and everything turns into a double plus, you being able to use those girl items to find the girl in you, yes a girls closet is like heaven on earth, thank you for that it touched my heart, have a great day too.

hugs

Samantha

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Duchess
(@pattyphose)
Joined: 9 years ago

Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Posts: 2296

Noticing my fondness and interest in womens legs in nylons, my mother gave me some stockings to play with. When I slipped them on, I was mesmerized. They looked and felt so great. Only problem was keeping them up. So I got some pantyhose . Loved pantyhose. They stayed up by themselves and there was more of that wonderful silky fabric covering me. The pantyhose were hand me downs and were too big for me, so the waist band was under my armpits.

Then I noticed a pair of pumps and put them on. It was a such a wonderful feeling wearing pantyhose and heels. The heels also were way to big for me but wearing them was special. Then as might be expected, my interest in other femme items expanded. I got a bra to try. Loved it. Wearing pantyhose heels and bra made me feel like such a little girly girl. Now if I could only have a dress.

It took a while to get a dress. In the meantime I wore shorts that looked like short dresses. When I did get a dress, it was to big for me and was quite long. I enjoyed seeing my legs, so I was always pulling the dress up.

As the years went by, I eventually grew into and out of my hand me down girly clothes, so I began buying my own.

 

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@pattyphose 

How sweet of your mother to give you her nylons to play with, I really appreciate mom’s like that, my mother would have me wear little girls socks and tights and my one and only dress from my sisters hand me down collection I think it was a cheerleading outfit from her 7th grade I do remember it was blue and white with a pleated skirt and no sleeves.

hugs

Samantha

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(@Anonymous 93795)
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@pattyphose always loved the feel of soft silky pantyhose on my legs…especially in those younger years.

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Duchess
(@pattyphose)
Joined: 9 years ago

Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
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@chanel I think mom let me have those clothes, so when I was attracted to women's legs in nylons, and wanted to get close to them, see the mesh and feel them, I could go to my room, slip on my nylons and enjoy them without bothering the ladies.

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Duchess
(@pattyphose)
Joined: 9 years ago

Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Posts: 2296

@chanel I became a crossdreser so I could wear pantyhose, dress femme and show my legs. The feel, the look, the experience of wearing pantyhose was and is so special.

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(@clarissa2)
Honorable Member     jutland, Denmark
Joined: 4 years ago

at 4 I remember asking my mom to borrow a girdle and some stockings because I wanted to play elegant lady and she agreed, what a wonderfull feeling to feel these items of clothing on my body. I borrowed the stuff several times but somehow deep inside I knew it was in a way wrong thus my cover story with the elegant lady. Few years later I had my own little stash og girly stuff and hid it well.

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@clarissa2 

Stockings yummy I like that.

hugs

Samantha

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(@finallyfiona)
    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

I guess I thought it was girly when I started removing whatever body hair I could get away with in my early teens.  Just from time to time for many years, but more recently it's been pretty much constant.  Now in my mid-fifties, I just got the urge to try a bra and panties a couple of years ago, and bought some 🙂  Slippery slope ... but what a ride!

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
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@finallyfiona 

Thank you so much for sharing your story.

hugs

Samantha

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Guest
(@Anonymous 93795)
Estimable Member
Joined: 1 year ago

I remeber with not having any access to womens "stuff" and having little cash to buy anything myself.  I used to make skirts from old teeshirts etc.  The things you do to try and satisfy your wish to feel femail.

Things are easier now.

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(@delaware)
Joined: 7 years ago

    los angeles, California, United States of America
Posts: 585

@elaines      hi..............did that too .....and would get an old bed sheet ...............wrap around me and imagine being a Roman Goddess ......old nylon stockings wrapped on my head and down my back for long girly hair ...................what a sight for a little boy............once found a nice  girl dress in mom's closet.  Think is belonged to an older cousin ........auntie gave it to mom as a good luck gift that I might come out a girl ........................I was  seven at the time .......it fit nicely!!!   Felt soooooooo  GIRLY!!!!!!  Fell asleep with it on her bed!!!! Woke up with a blanket over me ............(!!!!!) ..........She had this big smile for the longest ......................never said anything about it .........I was too embarrassed ....................but I would sneek and wear that dress to be girly ........I think she knew I was raiding that dress ......I guess she secretly got to see......her girl ............brothers and dad had no idea..................karley ......................

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Guest
(@Anonymous 93795)
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@delaware Lovely story.

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@delaware 

Sounds like me lol, love it.

hugs

Samantha

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

@delaware Awesome! Mom's are the best.

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Lady
(@denisecross)
Estimable Member     Austintown, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

I can remember growing up in a neighborhood where most people hung laundry outdoors on a clothesline. Several times someone would leave the laundry out over night. I was about 14 and I remember seeing someone had bras hanging out over night. I "borrowed" one. It wasn't the right size so I returned that bra and watched for someone else to leave bras hanging overnight. I didn't have to wait long. Another neighbor left clothes hanging overnight and the woman there was closer to my size. I again "borrowed" a couple bras. It was wonderfull to have my very own bras that actually fit well. I would wear one of "my" bras every chance I got. It was great

 

Denise

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@denisecross 

Oh yes I remember going into my sisters closet and enjoying her black patent Mary Janes at every opportunity too, you’re right it was wonderfully great.

hugs

Samantha

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

@denisecross And your neighbours said, 🤬! Where's my GD bras?

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Lady
(@denisecross)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Austintown, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 92

@harriette I'm sure the did. Lol

 

Denise

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi Samantha, welcome to CDH. As you're quickly discovering, we're a friendly bunch who love to chat about what we do and why we do it!

To answer your question; for me it was pulling on a pair of my mum's tights when I was aged 4. I'd just been watching a comedy show on TV in which the main character had to disguise himself as a woman, with hilarious consequences. Sadly my first foray into crossdressing was cut short, as my mum discovered me with her best tights still only half way up my legs. The CD bug had bitten, though!

 

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@jacquelinelarkspur 

Yes very nice ladies, I love the little girl look with tights, thank you I love it.

hugs

Samantha

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I have told this here before, but I first dressed in my early teens out of curiosity. I only can remember doing it twice, but did the whole nine yards, stockings, girdle, bra, dress, wig, etcetera. After that, I didn't dress, or even think about it for many years, and then one day wore my soon-to-be wife's panties, and that started me down this rabbit hole. I started with just panties but added bras and other lingerie, and that was it for many years. About ten or so years ago I started with outerwear, and soon I was a full-blown CD. While I am still a lingerie fan, I do enjoy fully dressing and going out more and more.

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@jjandme  

Very nice, I love the whole nine yards, it’s the only way lol.

hugs

Samantha

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Samantha,

Welcome to CDH.  As others have said I started wearing moms bras and panties and a dress at about 11.  That started a lifetime of dressing.

Alice

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@aliceunderwire 

I love how us girls get started wearing girls attire, the draw is so strong you can’t say no.

hugs

Samantha

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(@aliceunderwire)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Posts: 7831

@samanthah Hi Samantha,

Yes, that draw is very strong.

Alice

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@aliceunderwire 

And so amazingly good 😊 

hugs

Samantha

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

The draw is strong for me now, but it wasn't even a thought other than my two episodes as a teen. Then nothing at all, no thoughts or desire to dress until much later. I always love pretty lingerie and that is what got me into dressing. I played with just lingerie for many users before slowly expanding my interest fully dressing. While just lingerie is still a big part of me, (I wear panties daily, and bras frequently), now I enjoy the full CD experience often. I still love my sexy lingerie, it is just now under a dress.

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@jjandme 

I love dressing up too, it just makes me feel so good inside.

hugs

Samantha

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(@oliviac)
Prominent Member     Sydney, New South Wales, Australia
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Samantha and welcome.

For me it was at around 7 or 8 when I was home alone for a bit one day I walked into my parent's bedroom and opened one of Mum's drawers for no real reason. It had all of her pantyhose and girdles in it. I picked up a pair of her pantyhose and felt them on my hand and I then wanted to put them on. From the second I felt them sliding up my legs as I put them on I was hooked. 

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@oliviac 

I know, that’s the kind of addiction I really love, very happy for ya.

hugs

Samantha

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Lady
(@ria)
Reputable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

When I was a toddler I would get into Mom’s purse and put on some lipstick. This continued for a few years. By 10 I was wearing bras and panties and at 15 I started dressing en femme. Sixty years later I continue to do so.

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@ria 

I love that, especially from a early age very special.

hugs

Samantha

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(@brendastevens)
Joined: 5 years ago

Estimable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Posts: 102

@ria Our beginnings so long ago but seems like yesterday. Those early days so wanting to be a girl and doing our best to keep it as a secret we only knew. I so loved sitting beside and being close to girls all my school years and just feeling so wonderfully close to the girls. I so loved the way they dressed and the way they chatted and the things they did...I just wanted to be a girl and I finally broke down when 11 years old after years of wanting to dress like a girl I slipped on a pair of my mom's panties quietly in the basement. This was the beginning of something that has so been a wonderful part of my life since. I didn't dress fully until my late teens and have been doing so whenever time permits since. Love your story Ria...we have so much in common. Here we are into our senior years now but the girl..the woman within us is just there always whether in a dress or drab!

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Lady
(@amysmissy)
Estimable Member     Warwick, Rhode Island, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I dont remember my first girly adventure, but I have fond memories of going through my mothers and Sssters drawers and trying on various things.  My favorite memory is spending a whole day dressed in my mothers and sisters clothes.  My mom was at work all day and my sister was at a family members house.  I borrowed my mothers bra and panties, and tights and denim dress belonging to my sister.  I also squeezed into a pair of ballet flats belonging to my sister.  This was the first time doing this and was wonderful.

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Lady
(@samanthah)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     Reno, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 33

@amysmissy 

That sounds wonderful, I love it you lucky girl.

hugs

Samantha

 

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

So, this begs the question: Do most boys try on the mother's, sister's, cousin's clothing and some get hook and others not? Or, those of us who did try on such things were pre-wired to do it? 

A classic chicken or egg scenario???

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Lady
(@jwhite)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
Posts: 159

@jjandme mine was makeup, my dad owned a pharmacy with a cosmetics counter. I was able to pick up what I wanted and had a great hiding place in my room.

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Me, started when my wife allowed me to try a few things, much later in life than most people.

She was the greatest wife ever, she passed away a while ago now and I have been single living alone ever since (she is basically irreplaceable)

She didn't really like my inclination to CD, which is not unusual, and since she was just the best wife ever (okay I think I said that, LOL!) I stopped.

However, after she passed away, I dabbled in CD until about 10 years after she passed, I just decided I always wanted to be a CD, don't have an SO and probably won't again, so went all in at home privately, took to it way to naturally and now I dress full time at home (no public) and love it.

Well, that's my story and I'm sticking to it, LOL!

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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Lady
(@ellastars)
Eminent Member     Cairo, Egypt
Joined: 1 year ago

Oh my!

I just read your first line and the memories came flooding. I'm laughing so hard now as I remember my childhood. I too had an obsession with my mom's makeup. I think I was in first grade then haha. I would watch her as she put her makeup on and ask her to try on the lipsticks or her nail polish (she would only give me the clear one though). I think at the time she thought it was funny, but after a few times she would deny my requests and hide away her makeup. Gosh! I've almost completely forgotten about that. Thank you for bringing back such lovely memories. 

I find it sweet to have this girl-adventure in common with someone.

Welcome to CDH, dear.

I am happy to have you with us.

XOXO

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