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I just want to introduce myself and give a little background to myself. I started crossdressing almost 60 years ago mainly in private but as the years past I became more open about it with friends and my spouse (I am no longer married). Even after all these years I still hid it from others, but I longed to be a female. In 2019 I finally said the hell with it and started living my life full-time as a woman 24/7 In 2022 I started on hormones under doctor's care and had breast surgery last November. Which I might say both myself and the surgeon are very pleased with the results. My breast are, a firm 38C which fits my body frame perfectly (although to be honest I wouldn't have minded a little bit more), but I love them just the same. Bottom surgery is next and we are in the middle of getting that scheduled. So enough about that for now,lol.
I first started crossdressing way back in 1965 and I think it was then\ that I started feeling like I should have been a girl. I was playing dress up with my sisters and my uncle who was a year younger than me. My sisters had dressed me in their clothing, panties, skirt, top, and shoes when my Dad walked in saying what the hell is going on in here. I jumped in the closet, but he had already seen me. My siters tried to tell him we were just playing dress up and house and I was the girl. My dad ordered all of us downstairs saying to me you want to be a girl so for the rest of the day you will be. I asked to change as my grandparents were downstairs and I did not want them to see me, but my dad would not allow me to do so and took me downstairs and paraded me around for everyone to see. My grandmother said I made such a cure little girl and started hugging me as my grandfather and mom both chimed in saying how pretty I looked. we were then ordered to go outside and play, which again I asked to change and again denied. I didn't want to go outside for my brothers were out there along with other family members and friends. I was so embarrassed. Any how a long story short was after the initial embarrassment and being made fun of we all just started playing and having a good time, and thus is where my journey began.
A bitter sweet start in which the embarrassment possibly drove you in the closet. However it has finally come good for you and it is always nice to see a happy ending. Thank you and welcome to this friendly place where I am sure you will be at home. I am sure we would love to hear more about your life journey. Have a look around the site and if there is anything you aren't sure of please ask.
Again Welcome
Angela
Hi Laurie,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hi Laurie nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so start looking around and do some reading of the forums and posts with a few profiles thrown in for fun.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. So girl when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Laurie as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. Now if and when you feel like it please return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better and thanks.. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Hi Laurie and welcome to CDH from another Cheese Head. Here you will find many fun, smart and dynamic people. The SE Wisconsin area has an active community and perhaps we've already crossed paths without knowing it. I'm an out and open Intersex Person and speak about my experiences publicly. You can find out more about me by checking my profile. Hopefully your surgery will go well. I'm currently assisting another sister who is in the process. Feel free to private message me if you want to talk more. Happy Weekend, Marg Produe
Hi Laurie,
Welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family,
I'm a mature crossdresser too I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on I'm still in the closet to my wife and family,
I'm sorry i can't meet up with you for a coffee ☕ I'm on the other side of the pond in the UK, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X
Hugs Rozalyn X 🤗
Hi Laurie!
Welcome to CDH!
I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.
Very moving story in your introduction. Sorry you had to go through that.
Again, welcome to CDH!
Catherine