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Hello All, lifelong (almost) straight CD here. My story started not with Mums clothes but my sis in law to be. I had a bit of a crush on her tbh, I was 12, she 19. A blonde cutie. I started obsessing about her lingerie, it was the era of the shorter skirt and little 'glimpses' up her skirt were common. When she stopped over at our parents one weekend I couldn't resist peeking into her case. One thing led to another and before I knew it I was wearing her panties and dress and loving the feeling!
fast forward to young pre-married life.. (I had dressed on and off in the interim when desire and opportunity presented) I decided to confess to my fiancée. The usual questions: gay? No, just love the sensations of female attire. She was, and still is very understanding but with the boundaries of paying equal attention to her when dressed!
Now I mainly dress recreationally with my own small wardrobe, usually on a day off solo and occasionally the whole way with make up etc together at weekends.
I guess I'm what is known as a fetish dresser: no desire to change sex or be mistaken for a RG: have always dressed in the home or on holiday. Just love the sensation of dresses, skirts and lingerie.
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Hi. I too am from the UK, and a mainly solo CD. And married. Its nice to know we are not alone. I have found many soul mates on here. I love it.
Jade reading your intro I see you enjoy your passions with understanding from your wife WITH you taking that effort to follow, to share and most of all respect her feelings . So important I feel, I too have always allowed my wife to feel that she is a major player in conversation and direction in how I conducted my actions. And because of this I truly enjoy my liberties and with her continuing support I have evolved into full dress and loving every minute of it. I get my opportunities every chance I get and like you times off , holidays and every weekend possible. Enjoy girl do what your doing and it only gets better. Looking forward to hearing about your experiences. Very happy to meet you and enjoy your time with us. 🌹
Hi Jade and welcome to CDH. I enjoyed your intro...reminded me of how my 12 year old brother was all over my girlfriend/wife. Thanks for the memories....brother of course "doesn't remember that"; he is still connected with a women 12 years his senior. Life is funny! Anyway....look forward to hearing more from you. PS. Looking back, I should have let him have her, save me a lot of money and grief LOL. We were divorced several years ago....now I am my best girlfriend/wife. Tally Ho!!
Lady Veronica
Thanks for the welcomes! I have many experiences to share, like all of us I guess. One thing I would share with others lucky enough to have understanding wives is, as I mentioned in my OP, to put her needs before or equal to your own and that way the dressing becomes an inclusion rather than her feeling that your outfit and arousal is the prime concern. Shared pleasure is much better! I learned this the hard way in our early days.
Example: I was lucky enough to wear her wedding gown after our honeymoon: how many have been so priveliged? I was so wrapped up.. literally!.... that I guess she became secondary to my enjoyment. First and last time!
i mentioned my beginnings were with my future sis in laws clothes.... I got caught.......
