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Lady
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(@chloenorth)
Active Member     Nottingham, Nottinghamshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 weeks ago

Hi all

I'm Chloe, early 50s crossdresser who's been dressing on and off since the late 90s. The urge to dress comes and goes but when it arrives it hits hard. My wife doesn't know and I aim to keep it that way as Chloe is a very different person to her husband. 

We've recently moved house so, unfortunately, I had to purge most of my wardrobe so it didn't get found but slowly starting to build back up. Do miss my heels though so they're top of the list. 

I'm fortunate in that I work from home a lot and have the house to myself so it's a case of making sure the bra straps don't show when on Zoom. 

I have a bucket list and top is to go out. I've never been outdoors as Chloe. 

Looking forward to making new friends and seeing if there's anyone local to me for coffee mornings etc. 

Xxx

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 915

@chloenorth 

Hi Chloe,

Welcome to CDH from another UK girl, and a native of Nottingham, currently living in Staffordshire.

Thanks for the lovely intro, it really helps people to get to know you.

Your story is a very common one here, as you’ll find out when you’ve had the chance to look around.

Like you, my wife knows nothing of Lucy, and my dressing is mainly centred around working from home, although I have made it out a few times.

You’ve come to just the right place to make friends, so check the site out, and if you need any help with anything, just shout up.

Lucy

 

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Lady
(@chloenorth)
Joined: 2 weeks ago

Active Member     Nottingham, Nottinghamshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 4

@lucyb112  

Hi Lucy and thanks for your kind reply. 

You look fabulous by the way

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 915

@chloenorth 

You’re welcome Chloe, and thanks.

If only it was my own work! 

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(@tinytinkerbell)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     SF Bay Area, California, United States of America
Posts: 186

@chloenorth Welcome, Chloe...you're going to love it here....so many new friends/sisters to meet...you'll find we're all "family"...!!!  Take your time to surf the site...I found the Forums and Polls an excellent introduction to the many topics you can learn from/comment on and quickly get to meet all the wonderful members here....ENJOY...!!!

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Hostess
(@alexina)
Joined: 8 months ago

Famed Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 1370

@chloenorth 

Hi, Chloe and welcome to the best crossdresser community!

I joined 8 months ago and it's no exaggeration to say that the friends I've made here have helped me to change my life so much for the better. You say that the top of your bucket list is to go out en femme, I'll be doing exactly that in just a couple of weeks for the first time! You'll get the same acceptance, encouragement and support from this amazing family.

Feel free to share your journey in safety here, and if you need anything or have any questions, just shout, we'll do our best to help.

Enjoy!

Allie x

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 10 months ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1300

@chloenorth 

Hi Chloe, welcome to CDH. It's always good to greet another UK girl. I'm up in Tyne and Wear.

Thank for that lovely intro. As has been already mentioned, your experiences are shared by many here, so you'll have plenty of understanding on this safe and supportive site.

I, too, dress in secret. My wife knows I have crossdressed in the past, and probably suspects I still do, but prefers to ignore it.

I have been out, however, and I can promise you that when the time comes it will be the most nerve-wrackingly exhilarating time of your life!

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(@finallyfiona)
Joined: 9 months ago

    Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1173

@chloenorth Hi Chloe and welcome from another UK girl, I'm somewhat closer to London. Lovely to read a full introduction post, thank you for taking the time honey 🙂

My dressing also started out while working from home except, while 'home' was my house, I lived with my partner at her house and commuted between the two.  Having taken my first steps outside my front door early this Spring, I've now been living 24/7 as Fiona for about 4 months and come out as trans in every area of my life including work.  Sadly though, this has been at the cost of my relationship, although we remain good friends. 

I don't want this to sound like a moral tale of "be careful what you wish for"!  But what I can say is that, as exciting as it has been, all through a time of quite some upheaval in my life, the warmth, support and encouragement of the lovely girls on here has been unwavering.  I now count several as real friends. 

So do jump in, come and engage and chat with everyone, and whatever direction your life takes, this sisterhood will be there for you.  Looking forward to getting to know you!

Hugs,
Fiona xxx 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 4001

@chloenorth 

Hi Chloe

Welcome to CDH from yet another UK girl 🙂

We have quite a few members in Nottinghamshire and you can see them by using our 'Friend Finder':

Members – Crossdresser Heaven Forums

There a lot to explore on the site. have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything just shout.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Duchess
(@gafran)
Joined: 4 months ago

Honorable Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 256

@chloenorth 

Hello and welcome to CDH Chloe,

You're among many amazing sisters hailing from all over the globe. 

As you journey through the Pink Fog you will find a kinship like no other. So many of us have similar experiences. 

Welcome again from across the pond!

XOXO Fran 🥰 

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Duchess
(@sandie9832t)
Joined: 1 month ago

Estimable Member     Santa Cruz, California, United States of America
Posts: 54

Posted by: @chloenorth

Hi all

I'm Chloe, early 50s crossdresser who's been dressing on and off since the late 90s. The urge to dress comes and goes but when it arrives it hits hard. My wife doesn't know and I aim to keep it that way as Chloe is a very different person to her husband. 

We've recently moved house so, unfortunately, I had to purge most of my wardrobe so it didn't get found but slowly starting to build back up. Do miss my heels though so they're top of the list. 

I'm fortunate in that I work from home a lot and have the house to myself so it's a case of making sure the bra straps don't show when on Zoom. 

I have a bucket list and top is to go out. I've never been outdoors as Chloe. 

Looking forward to making new friends and seeing if there's anyone local to me for coffee mornings etc. 

Xxx

Hi Chloe!

I'm Sandie.  You're among fellow sisters and friends here. We accept you, Chloe,  for who you are. 

Check out CDH site: articles by fellow members and forums.  You'll find everything here about cd.

I hear you when you mention purging.  I did that many times in my past, before I finally came to accept Sandie. 

If you have any questions,  afterwards,  ask one of us sisters?

Hugs,

Sandie ❤️. 

 

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Lady
Topic starter
(@chloenorth)
Active Member     Nottingham, Nottinghamshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 weeks ago

Hi Allie and thank you for your kind words. 

I look forward to my time on here

Chloe xxx

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Famed Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Chloe and welcome to another U.K. girl. I am sure you will feel at home here and enjoy being among a friendly bunch of ladies.

Have a look at what's on offer, settle in and enjoy!

 

Angela

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(@caroline2k)
Prominent Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi and welcome @chloenorth from up in the north east UK. 

As has been said already, you can feel comfortable here, able to share experiences and ask for any advice you may need. Enjoy your stay 🙂

 

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(@rozalyne)
Noble Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Chloe,

Welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you, 

I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on, I'm in the closet too my wife has no idea I'm a  crossdresser, 

I'm a UK girl too I'm in Shropshire, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat X 

Hugs Rozalyn X 🤗 

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Noble Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome aboard Chloe!

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Chloe,

Welcome to CDH.  Good luck rebuilding your wardrobe and on your bucket list.

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Chloe nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl there is a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from so look around and do some reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Chloe as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with like me from Montana USA just a row boat ride across the pond from you he he .. So when your up to it please return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better thanks.. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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