Hope to have my own collection of clothes & undergarments

Some very well meaning advice.

Cease wearing your SO's things NOW!!

"Hell hath no fury" etc etc.

In addition, The retribution factor will magnify off the scale if she does not know you are a CD

There's a stack of ways to purchase your own, on line with things like a paypal a/c and delivery to a PO Box or "mail delivery slot".

And over time, hopefully you will have built the courage to buy in person. Most retail businesses these days, be they meant for either gender are very keen on the old adage "a sale is a sale" and they dont care who buys what if the $$$ are in their till.

Caty

Hi hun

As an SO cease and refrain from wearing wife's clothes lol

Yes embrace, Love yourself for ALL of who you are. And start doing it in your own clothes asap. Pretend your shopping for your wife in a store...for now, most men have this at one time or another, CD or not. Welcome to you and thank you for sharing, its a start.

Love ur advice - so sweet!

This is how it all began - I still find it very kinky!

Good advice!

Hi Lexi, I would add another point too.... watch out! femme clothes buying can be addictive! before long you will have more femme clothes than your drab wardrobe! as said before, buying femme clothes is not as hard as it seems, I mean who's to know? you could be buying them for your wife, girlfriend, sister, daughter etc. Our minds play tricks because we know the clothes are for us but nobody else knows that! here is a thought, if your wife asked you to buy a bra for her, would you do it? Have fun with your new wardrobe! thanks for posting 🙂

Fiona xxx

Thanks Fiona!

Underwear is very important - find items you feel comfortable in - the sexy frillies are tepting and good for spicing things up - ask any woman!

But for all day use, you may need to broaden your horizons.

You may not, of course - I felt perfectly natural and extremely feminine with a silky black set on under two very different outfits on separate occasions, and if I'm wearing a short skirt or summer dress that might reveal more than I really intend (you can't predict every gust of wind), I'll make sure it's very pretty and worth seeing (ie, covering everything it's meant to cover!).

When I wore an incredibly short dress at a costume party, I made sure my underwear had full cover, but was silky and gleaming white, in imitation of Agnetha from ABBA in their early days.

I got that tip from an ex and her friends who liked clubbing in very skimpy outfits - as I helped them out of taxis I invariably caught an eye full. The first time I must've looked really embarrassed, as my girlfriend said to me "Why wear such pretty underwear if we didn't want people to see it?"

Happy days!

Love

Laura

I remember my first time buying women's underwear in the local Wal Mart. I went in with a long list of items so that it wouldn't be so obvious I was buying women's panties. The second time, the list got a bit shorter. The third time, I pretended I was on the cell phone. I finally realized that nobody was looking at me and nobody cared what I was buying. Now, I just stroll through the racks at the department stores and browse. If I see something I like, I buy it. I've never had a salesperson ask who it's for. Occasionally, if I'm getting a weird vibe from the salesperson, I'll ask for a gift receipt. But, honestly, at this point I really don't care that much.

I keep saying to myself that one day I'm gonna get brave enough to say it's for me and show the salesperson a picture just to see their reaction. But, so far, I haven' been brave enough.

Oh, and I will never go back to wearing men's undergarments. I don't know how I tolerated those heavy cotton boxer briefs for so long, especially here in hot and humid south Florida. Give me a pair of satin and lace cheeksters any day!!

you go girlfriend!