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Hi ladies, I have dressed since I was 9 or 10. I have always loved the feel of silk, satin and nylons!!! I new I was different in my desires but felt I could not let anyone know. I am married and have been since 86. I dressed when I could while she was working but never would let her know. She decided to have a long term affair and I began to explore my femme side more. I came out to her about 2 years ago and she was accepting but not real interested. She knows I dress when I can but she isn't into playing while dressed. I have let a few close friends know and they really don't mind. Crossdresser Heaven is great and I hope to enjoy all the new friends I make here!
Hi Daina. Welcome to CDH; It's nice to meet you.
hi DAIANA----Welcome to C D H=== Sorry about your wife not fully accepting of you and that she is involved In an affair. I am glad that you have friends that accept you . I hope your wife is not telling others you dress,to embarrass you. This is a wonderful site where you can make lots of new girlfriends. HOPE TO SEE YOU IN THE CHAT ROOM. JENNIFER1
Beenbthere with the affair "thing" and can sympathise. It truely sucks and rips tou to your core. Be strong (crying isnt being weak) get counselling even just for you. Sometimes a person not invested in the relationship can offer input others cant and they are good listeners if you just need to vent. Make decisions that are for your benefit first and the relationship second. Dont make sacrifices that arent balanced.
Fixing things will take a long time and eventually you may find you dont want it fixed and want to move on alone.
If it starts to get to heavy find a friend that will share your burden for a while and if you start to feel like there isnt any hope and want to take drastic action to end things -get help quick. As much as it feels like the relationship ending (if it does) is the end of the world it isnt.
Hugs.
Hi Daina, welcome to CDH! I think you will enjoy the support from the other ladies here.
Mattie
Hi Daina and welcome to CDH.
Rachel
Hi daina welcome we are here for you if you ever need to talk feel free to message any of us hugs beth
