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(@lexiolivier)
Active Member     Davenport, Iowa, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago
  1. I’m not sure where to begin to feel about crossdressing. It started about two- three weeks ago. It started with a pair of panties. I got a huge hit of euphoria then I went to a bra then some breast forms. I feel so good when I wear women’s clothes but I have a lot of internal turmoil about like it. Almost feel like I just want to do the feminine look and act.
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(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1133

@lexiolivier 

Welcome to CDH Lexi!

 Your not alone with these feelings. There are plenty of stories on this site about this feeling. 

 Your in the right place for all things feminine. Your in a safe place with caring, understanding and compassionate girls like us.

Browse this site for information, chat and friendship. We will assist you in anyway we can. 

 Welcome to the Pink Fog!

Fran 🥰 

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Lady
(@lexiolivier)
Joined: 3 months ago

Active Member     Davenport, Iowa, United States of America
Posts: 4

@gafran thank you so much!! I’ve been sitting here and struggling with myself. I just kept telling myself that I’m sick and broken in my head. But every time I put any woman’s clothes on I feel ecstatic!! I feel good about myself. But then I also feel guilty about it

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(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1133

@lexiolivier 

Your welcome my dear,

 I've felt the same way. When I finally went to a CD/Trans event and saw so many girls like me. I realized I wasn't alone. 

CDH is also a place for validation. Funny as I write this I'm wearing a black mini skirt and a pink golf shirt. Pink panties too! 🥰

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2191

@lexiolivier 

Hi, Lexi, welcome to CDH, this is a safe place to share with like-minded sisters, we've all been where you are. Firstly, all of us have both female and male aspects to our personalities. You are discovering the feminine aspect to yours, it can be scary but it's well worth embracing. I denied and buried mine for years and I say to you now, since I embraced both sides of me, I've never been happier.

This truly is a unique community, you will be met with acceptance, understanding and support from the warmest bunch of girls. 

Just shout if you need anything or have any questions.

Allie x

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1713

@lexiolivier Hey Lexi, I think you've found us at an opportune moment. The key thing is you are no longer alone. You are most certainly not sick or broken. There is a significant proportion of men who discover a need to express their feminine side and we variously find the experience ecstatic, relaxing, exciting and quite often just completely normal, as in this is just how it should be. If you check out the forums and the girls' profiles you'll soon get a feel for what a supportive, friendly and accepting community this is. Join in the chat and hopefully we can get you to a better place where you're comfortable with your dressing and can happily embrace your feminine side.

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Do you have hobbies you enjoy and get a pleasent feeling while doing? If so, why is wearing pantirs and a bra any different? I enjoy skiing, running and rock climbing, and dressing en femme. Is any one worse then any other?

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Lady
(@lexiolivier)
Joined: 3 months ago

Active Member     Davenport, Iowa, United States of America
Posts: 4

@jjandme im not really sure what about it, that makes me feel better. I just feel and know that it feels natural. I like to working out and anything outdoors. I’m just afraid of the judgment to wear women’s clothes outside my home. That is clearly visibly women’s

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4015

Posted by: @lexiolivier

I’m just afraid of the judgment to wear women’s clothes outside my home. That is clearly visibly women’s

Welcome to CDH, Lexi!

Read my old posts and learn how to deal with your current situation. I don't go out en femme in public, but I do always wear women's clothes. Use that as a starting point.

Because you are just starting to crossdress, take a few deep breaths, think about how far you want to go and set some easily attainable goals. Take your time so that you make fewer mistakes.

I look forward to hearing more of your adventures.

 

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1713

@jjandme Yes JJ, skiing, running and rock climbing are all worse than crossdressing. You're making me feel exhausted just thinking about it xx.

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

That is something we all have to decide for oirselves. To be honest, I have found nobody cares and we are our.own worst enemy. I have gone out fully dressed, but am marginally passable at best, underdressing in items well hidden, and worn various.levels of femme clothes or breast forms in otherwise drab mode, and nobody cares. I have shaved my kegs for nearly forty years and wear shorts nearly every day of the year, and nobdies cares and I have had a total of about five inquierries about them. If I wear jeans, they are women's Levis, and no one cares, so just relax and play with what you wear and find what works for you.

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Lexi and welcome.

You will never feel alone here as there is much support and advice available. 

Enjoy being part of a wonderful community.

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Duchess
(@lizzy89)
Reputable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome Lexi, you have certainly joined a very supportive and welcoming community of girls. Don't worry I feel uplifted whenever I dress and did used to feel a bit guilty as I was unsure of my feminine identity too but over time have decided to embrace this more.

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Lady
(@sailor2000)
Reputable Member     Houston, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Oh yes, I know what you are feeling! When i started my journey by putting on a pair of heels and i had this OMG feeling... felt special and sexy in a way i never had... I knew i had let part of me free and i wasn't going back inside! I was going through a tumultuous time of  a divorce and my wife had just moved out but the positive side to that was I could buy some things to explore what i was feeling without worry of 'her' discovering 'me'. If hearing my experience helps, I immersed myself in on line support resources like this one, which is an EXCELLENT place. In fact count yourself lucky to now be in the midst of a huge community of your sisters, all of whom have been in your shoes and have a real desire to help you. Welcome to the pink fog! Megan 

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Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome nice to meet you welcome to the world of crossdressing your not sick in any means but find dressing relaxing fun and absolutely the greatest feelings ever least for me truly tho this world is sometimes complicated and confusing with lots of challenges but like most said already you joined such a wonderful caring community to help you on this journey TC enjoy the moments 

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Duchess
(@jennconn)
Noble Member     Florida, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Lexi, I think every one of has felt what you describe.  At first we are confused and not sure what we did means, but one thing I now know for sure is that you can’t stop it.  I’ve tried, and the fact that you are here with us will help you immensely.  I know it did for me just knowing that there were lots of girls out there like me and I was finally in touch with them and could talk to them about it without shame or fear.  What a beautiful place this is to be.  Welcome!

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(@kimberlyannvictoria)
Honorable Member     milwaukee, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Welcome to CDH. You are definitely not alone there are many girls like you. CDH is a great place to explore your femininity with like minded Women.

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Lexi,

Welcome to CDH.  Enjoy looking around the forums and making new friends.

Alice

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(@coloradog1)
Honorable Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hey Lexi! Crossdressing can bring lots of joy but also confusion and stress in the beginning stages. It’s an ongoing struggle to deal with the guilt and shame we feel from this harmless activity. Remember you are not alone! If you ever need to chat you can send me a message any time (:

-Natalie 

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Lady
(@krisburton)
Prominent Member     The Hub City, New Jersey, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Lexi - It is true that crossdressing can be confusing in the early go, but it has been a beneficial part of my life since I began actively about three years ago. I consider CDH ia part of my overall CD experience also, and the end result I have not felt better psychologically in years, maybe ever. It has been a gift to me, i hope you will find it the same.

Best, Kris

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Duchess
(@joannat)
Reputable Member     Gwynedd, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 months ago

Hi Lexi. I decided to stop suppressing the female side of me a little over a year ago. As the other sisters have said, there really isn’t anything wrong with you. 
In the words of Sheryl Crow: ‘If it makes you happy, it can’t be that bad!’

It certainly gives me some inner peace.

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Lexi so nice to meet you nd happy you found and joined us girls here so keep looking around and reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you feel comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Lexi as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Honorable Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Hello. Lexi   .🎄🎄  So good to meet you, I so glad you joins us,  this is a very good place to be , lots of good nice kind gurls & support here. Awesome Place ... 

Lexi Gurl. We all been just were you are,  most all of use Gurl.

There is lots of Support Here, for you , Honey !!!

Would you like to be Friends , ???

Anytime you like to talk or chat , l lov to Chat ,  Help you  !!!

Huggs 

Stephanie👠

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