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(@tiffanycd)
Trusted Member     Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia
Joined: 9 months ago

Hi, Im Tiffany. I have cross dressed for as long as I can remember.
I am very happily married and have a loving and supportive wife

I don’t consider myself a woman, but I experience very strong feminine desires and feelings. While I’ve identified as male throughout my life because it made navigating the world simpler, deep down I’ve always known there’s a girl within me. For years, I’ve referred to myself as a cross-dresser, but that label no longer feels complete or fully representative of how I express myself. Cross-dressing is not the whole story of who I am.

In my daily life as a man, I find myself gravitating more and more toward clothing traditionally made for women. What started as subtle experimentation has grown into something that feels natural, authentic, and aligned with my deeper sense of self. Often, the clothes I wear—women’s jeans, shorts, tops, and shoes—blend seamlessly into an androgynous style and go unnoticed by others. But for me, they’re transformative. Wearing these clothes makes me feel connected to my femininity in a profound way that’s not about sexuality or kink; it’s about acknowledging and honoring a deeply ingrained need to feel feminine.

Over time, I’ve realized that this isn’t just about clothing—it’s about embracing and expressing my feminine nature in every aspect of my life. I love how I look in women’s clothing, but beyond that, I find myself desiring to embody more traditionally feminine ways of being. I want to move, speak, and carry myself in ways that align with the femininity I feel inside. This isn’t about adopting a separate female persona or alter ego—I don’t feel the need to create a distinct "female version" of myself. Instead, I’m accepting myself as a feminine man who prefers to present in ways that feel more aligned with a female identity than a male one.

I no longer see myself as strictly male, but rather as someone fluidly expressing femininity in their everyday life. My desire to connect with and express this part of myself has grown stronger with time, and I’m learning to embrace it fully. I’ve come to a place of peace with this expression, and it feels freeing to accept that I don’t need to fit into a rigid category to be true to myself. I am simply me—a person honoring the feminine spirit that has always been part of who I am.

I would love to meet you all here and enjoy your friendship as I progress on my journey of self discovery and feminization

 

Kisses
Tiffany xxoxx

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Posts: 1736

@tiffanycd Like you Tiffany, I no longer think of my self as male either. I have morphed into a full time trans woman. My outer appearance now aligns better with the more dominant female part of my persona. It is much more pleasant going through life as a trans woman versus as a male.

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Lady
(@tiffanycd)
Joined: 9 months ago

Trusted Member     Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia
Posts: 21

@d44 Lovely to hear this Fiona, i feel more settled now I have let go of my maleness too and accepted I am trans xx

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1687

@tiffanycd Tiffany, heck I'm no expert but it really does sound like you are fully trans. It's wonderful that your wife is accepting, and even more wonderful that you are so comfortable in your own skin. You go girl! My feelings are all over the place. Welcome to CDH!

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 12 months ago

Famed Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2006

@tiffanycd 

Hi again Tiffany, I'll re-welcome you then 😊.

Yep, once the genie is out of the box..... Allie is now fully half of my daily life and I could not be happier.

When I filled in my profile 11 months ago, I put No at the "first realised transgender" question. Later I changed it to Bi-gender. Yesterday, as I was enjoying my first makeup consultation in a store, in full view of passing customers, I told the makeup consultant that I now consider myself somewhere on the trans spectrum, being around 50% girl. That was two firsts for me, seeing myself as trans and telling someone who's not my wife or a member here!

Good post, Tiffany.

Allie x

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3847

Welcome to CDH, Tiffany!

Posted by: @tiffanycd

Often, the clothes I wear—women’s jeans, shorts, tops, and shoes—blend seamlessly into an androgynous style and go unnoticed by others. But for me, they’re transformative. Wearing these clothes makes me feel connected to my femininity in a profound way that’s not about sexuality or kink; it’s about acknowledging and honoring a deeply ingrained need to feel feminine.

My style is mostly androgynous, too, but, in my case, it mostly is about the clothes. Women's  clothing is just so much nicer looking or feeling. I would prefer to be a peacock rather than the drab hen.

It's just that for a CD to pull off dressing androgynously well requires being a magician, to find the right clothes that obfuscate or create illusions. You probably found that out, as well.

 

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1161

@tiffanycd Hi Tiffany!  You're in a great place to find support as you progress on your journey.  Your story sounds so much like mine.   My female persona is taking over and pushing my maleness out.  Like you I want to be a woman in all ways including how I relate to the world and how it relates to me.  I look forward to hearing more about you and your journey as it progresses sister!

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Lady
(@lanam)
Trusted Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Tiffany, I can relate to the feeling I'm neither male or female any longer, one or the other, but both.  Thanks for so elegantly sharing your feelings, it helps me understand my own.  ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ 

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Once you realise who you really are there is that inner peace and confidence to build that future as the feminine person.

Thank you for posting this lovely story.

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Tiffany,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Duchess
(@crazycynthia)
Estimable Member     zuid holland, Netherlands
Joined: 3 months ago

What A nice story. Makes me think, sure, there is man and woman, but does it really mean what we believe it does or does it just mean whats between the legs and the rest is just learned along the way?

I like to think of myself as man and woman, i can be fully man when with friends, but fully female when with other people. Is that fluid? I geuss? 😜

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(@jessicacynthia)
Reputable Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 months ago

Hello Tiffany,

Welcome to CDH.

Jessica

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(@Anonymous 99388)
Estimable Member
Joined: 2 months ago

Welcome to CDH Tiffany we're glad have you.

Alexis Grace 

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi again Tiffany Hope things are going well with you and your other half as a husband and girlfriend both to your wife.. Having fun and just being the girl of your dreams then so happy your wife is a support to Tiffany its a world of help and pleasure to have a supportive wife good luck girlfriend and don't be a stranger  we love to hear from you ..

Stephanie Bass

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Tiffany!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Honorable Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 1 month ago

Hi  Tiffany , Welcome to CDH , Marry Christmas & Happy Holidays to you & your friends & family ..  

And all the encouraging and supportive.

Stephanie👠👠

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