I´m Ana, from Shanghai

Hello Ana, welcome to Crossdresser Heaven.

It is wonderful to have you here. I'm sure you and your partner will gain a lot for the site.

There is also a dedicated group for wives and significant others. You'll need to approach managercodille for membership as she is the group's moderator. That group is not open to the crossdresser members.

Have a look at the forum topics and feel free to ask any questions you have. You can also join us in chat and talk to those there. As long as there is no discussion on politics or religion, and any discussion on sexuality does not become explicit, pretty much anything goes. The Moderators will give you guidance if need so you only have to ask.

Again, welcome. Have fun.

Hello Ana , welcome to C.D.H,   I am a closet cross dresser so to speak, wife knows of my desire to dress up, daughter kind of knows also, long story on that part,, daughter seen a pic of me I forgot to put away, showed mom, daughter tells mom that's he's body.   Wife lets me dress up when 2 kids are in bed or out, my 1 son that is 19 does not know. Wife lets me know thT I can do what I like to do. I already started dressing up.   Wife comes into room to tell me I put too much perfume on, I think she does that just to see what I am wearing and how pretty I am. I have more female clothing then she does, I buy my own dresses, skirts, nylons, panties, bras, perfume, jewelry, and even pads.    I buy on line and in stores.    I am 54 years old, retired medically,    Welcome again to C.D.H

Hi Ana Welcome to CDH

I am a Widowed CD , my wife was not aware of my choices  but , I have a current relationship with another CD here who I love very much and look forward to a marriage one day, hope to meet you and chat with you I spend alot of time in chat so please feel free to join us  and get to meet your other sisters

Wabbit aka as Sharron

Hi Everyone,

finally, I'm an italian guy living in Shanghai. I'm very happy to find this post started by Ana.

Although it's a big city is not easy to find like minded people, perhaps because of the culture.

I'm looking for some CD friends to chat and hang out with and hopefully build some friendship.

Hope to hear from you

Valee

Ana  welcome it so nice for you to come here to find the answers your seeking. Help is everywhere. Many of the gals here are all so helpful and welling to offer and assistance you may need. I myself married 39 years and just opened to her this year. Yes there was much shock, confusion and trust issues. Our marriage in whole is very strong and love is much in our lives. In time we did sit down and had that much needed talk. How, when,why and every other question that can be asked. After my extensive history of me to when this feelings started to this year and the urges to open up. Her big question, why not tell me earlier . Reasons family and being afraid of losing you. Stories I've read from past experiences from dresser were not good so hiding seam best, at least for me. Sorry now for that decision, not thinking of her and for that insensitive for her thoughts and feelings. And am     sorry for. Biggest fear coming from her saw my wondering off with other interests. But for me assuring her I'm here with you along aside together  and am still the man she married and there when she expect's him to be there. With guidelines and mutual agreements her acceptance became to show and now she allowing Stephanie into our lives. She does say she more and more enjoying steff  for her softer demeaner and understanding for her own needs. She likes having a girlfriend to mix with but she will aways know her husband there just for her and only her. I blessed for her acceptance and will never  compromise my relationship for no one. Your partner should be blessed having someone like you to be here trying to understand on your own and hope you seek the answers your asking  .best on your journeys together. 🌹

Hi, I'm Ssasha, a CD from Seoul, South Korea and very new to here.

I am going to shanghai for two weeks and looking for bars, clubs or cafes for cross-dressers in the city.

I searched on the net but results were mostly for gays.

That's not so bad but it's not a best option for me as a cd.

I would be very appreciated for sharing your information.

Thank you~

Hi! I am also a crossdresser living in Shanghai. Would love to meet up and talk and hang out!

Welcome Ana!