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Hi, I'm Nicole. I am a SO. My husband recently told me that he is a CD and I really want to be supportive. His parents were not very supportive of him in general growing up, and I want him to always know that I've got his back 100%. I am struggling a little, though. I don't want him to feel any shame, but I still have reservations about accepting it fully. I let him use my clothes and things, but I'm not yet comfortable seeing him dressed up. I'm just looking for community from other SO's (particularly those who are or were less than 100% accepting in the beginning) and seeking to understand the CD community. Thanks.
Hi Nicole and a very warm welcome to CD Heaven. Thank you for supporting another of our sisters and I feel sure that you would feel more comfortable with the dressing if it were not in your own clothes.
We do have an exclusive section for SO's and I know you will be welcome there too.
Hugs
Sheryl
hi Nicole, I agree with Sheryl that he should wear his own clothes, maybe take him shopping for him to decide what he wants to wear, its great you want to accept him for his better side but my advice is take it at your pace so you are comfy with it too.its a massive step him telling you and coming out but remember he is probably worried what you think as much as you are. I really hope this helps, please remember its only clothes he is still your husband inside x
Hi Nicole, welcome. I'm touched by your desire to support your husband and understand crossdressing. I hope you find the insight you are looking for.