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Hello my name Is Jane, I am getting into crossdressing after suppressing the feeling for many years. I'm tired for lying to myself and feeling guilty about it. I finally got the courage to go out and buy my own set of panties and that's all it took I wanted more! I came to this site for more support, in dealing with a whirlpool of emotions with this. For I am married and finally told her about it after a week of wearing panties, It was super scary and hard especial sense after 10 years together I bombshell her with no warnings or clues. All the same I know what i wanted and i couldn’t keep this a secret from her it would burn me up inside just as it has trying to suppress it. She was understanding but not as accepting as i hoped for. I don’t ever plan on telling anyone else in my real life. </span></span>
Jane welcome, it's so nice you have joined us. I too held my feelings for many years and this year opened to my wife after 39 years of marriage. She went through all the questions, the emotional feelings and in time was accepting but with caution. I would have liked a more welcoming acceptance but was happy for what was offer and relieved that I didn't have to hid it any more. Since then things have gotten much better as she is seeing a likeable and more sensitive husband one who understands her and her needs and things important to her. Now we're moving forward as she now to allowing Stephanie more into our lives. All I can say is follow her lead, set guidelines and never move on anything until your both ready to do so. And most important talk, talk and more talk. These to me helped but like everything different strokes for different folks. I'm happy to meet you and if you gave any questions please be free to PM me, love to help. 🌹
hello jane nice to meet you and welcome to C.D.H. like Stephanie replied . keeping inside would burn me up also. i came out to my wife a few years back when daughter seen a pic of me dressed up and showed mom. nothing was said except daughter said its his body. wife lets me dress up when no kids are home and i love every min of it. i wish i could come out of the closet and share it with wife and show her what a different person i am dressed up feminine. in which i am i feel more relaxed and free. i am dressed for what i should of been a girl. i feel i am trapped in a male body with a female figure and brain but male parts. i have my own collection of female clothing and all that. i have more then wife does and wear them more then she does. i am a medically retired worker, had open heart years ago and cant no longer work so i am the female of the house and i dress like one when no one is home except wife. feel free to look around and get new friends and don't be ashamed of what we do, for there is allot of us from all around the world but society is not ready for us to a way. Lucinda
Hi Jane and Welcome to the CDH site. I understand what you are going thru and you have plenty of girls on the site to help you thru your delemna. My door is always open to you, so if you have any questions or problems....don't hesitate to drop me a line or two and we can chat.
Lady Veronica
