Notifications
Clear all

Welcome to Crossdresser Heaven, a safe and welcoming place for everyone in the crossdresser community.

Join Crossdresser Heaven today to participate in the forums.

Introduce myself

26 Posts
18 Users
91 Reactions
141 Views
Posts: 13
Lady
Topic starter
(@sandra73)
Eminent Member     ROTTERDAM, Zuid-Holland, Netherlands
Joined: 4 years ago

Hello all, I'm not really new here but neglected further conversations due to personal circumstances. 

I'm Sandra, 51 years, live in the Netherlands. Always was the guy who solved other ppl problems, totally neglecting my own wishes and desires. Grew up in a military family and thus....my faith was already decided. Served as a paratrooper in the Dutch army and was sent to Srebrenica in 1994. Left army in 1998 with ptsd.

Never could I imagine that I am what I am today. A CD. And I love it. Embracing my feminine side, playing with makeup, try new outfits etc etc.....

It started 5 years ago. My ex-gf and I were under the influence and for some reason it opened up my inner wish. She already knew it since she noticed I was wearing her clothes in secret. She supported me since then. Even helped me with makeup etc etc. But it also broke up our relation as man-woman. And guess? We still live together, giving each other's the space we need. I can dress everyday which I do. 

Long story short.....nice to be here. Love from the Netherlands 💃♥️

Reply
25 Replies
14 Replies
Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@sandra73 

Hi Sandra

Welcome to CDH 🙂

Thanks for a very informative intro. I'm the other side of the North Sea to you, in Norfolk UK.

This is a very warm and supportive community, and a wonderful place to make friends. We have around 46K members worldwide. Between them they have a vast range of backgrounds and circumstances, though I haven't come across any stories quite like yours before. It's wonderful to be able to dress every day; I'm also in the fortunate position of being able to do that.

There's lots to explore here. Have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything just shout.

Hugs

Ellie x

Reply
(@sandra73)
Joined: 4 years ago

Eminent Member     ROTTERDAM, Zuid-Holland, Netherlands
Posts: 13

@ellyd22 Thank you Ellie💃

Norfolk, been there once. More often have I been to Devon and Reading. 

Nice to read the stories and things that other crossdressers have on mind. I certainly can learn from their experiences and they hopefully from mine as well 😃

If you, ppl here, want to know more about how my process went, feel free to ask.

Love from Holland 💃

 

Reply
Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2208

@sandra73 

Hi, Sandra, it's a pleasure to welcome you to your new second home. And thanks for your great introduction, we like getting to know our new members 🙂.

If you've had a look around the forums, you'll see what life is like here and why we love it so much. And, it won't be long before you make real friends. We share each other's joy and give our support when the other, outside, world is difficult. That's not staff PR either, you see it here every day.

As ever, don't hesitate to ask if you need any help, you'll get plenty.

Allie x 

 

 

 

Reply
(@sandra73)
Joined: 4 years ago

Eminent Member     ROTTERDAM, Zuid-Holland, Netherlands
Posts: 13

@alexina Thanks a lot 😊

I will certainly read the forum removed link It allready feels like a warm bath. 

Reply
Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2208

Ha ha! Warm bath, I like it 😂

Reply
(@crazycynthia)
Joined: 4 months ago

Estimable Member     zuid holland, Netherlands
Posts: 87

@sandra73 hallo buurvrouw ❤️ (ik woon naast rotterdam, niet schrikken 😆🤣)

Reply
(@sandra73)
Joined: 4 years ago

Eminent Member     ROTTERDAM, Zuid-Holland, Netherlands
Posts: 13

@crazycynthia hey that isnt far from where I live lol. An Island below Rotterdam. Think you know what I mean 😉

Reply
Lady
(@jillleanne)
Joined: 2 years ago

Prominent Member     Renfrew, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 605

@sandra73 welcome hon. Nice intro. Story.

hugs, Jillleanne

Reply
Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1142

@sandra73 

 Welcome to CDH from the USA Sandra!

  You've come to the right place for all things feminine. 

 No worries about being accepted here. We get the desire to dress enfem. 

 Welcome to the Pink Fog!

 Fran 🥰 

Reply
Baroness
(@river)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     New Hampshire, United States of America
Posts: 827

@sandra73  Welcome from the Americas.... one of my closest friends was a paratrooper medic in the US Army.  another got ptsd in Iraq war so..   respect !!   every story I read is just more affirmation that it does not matter where your from , or how you were raised there is no secret recipe. Cheers RC

Reply
(@sandra73)
Joined: 4 years ago

Eminent Member     ROTTERDAM, Zuid-Holland, Netherlands
Posts: 13

@river Thank you! Indeed, it doesn't matter where you're from. Funny, I was also a medic in the para's. Combat Life Saver it was called that time. 

Glad thats all behind me and can enjoy my life and more importantly; accepting myself. 

Reply
Guest
(@Anonymous 99344)
Joined: 3 months ago

Active Member
Posts: 18

@sandra73 Welcome.  I get your story. Love to Dutch! I used work in Eindhoven and could travel there fairly regularly.  Thanks for sharing your story. It is an interesting one.  I'm envious that you get to dress every day.  I get to dress next week and try to find chances to do this one every few months...

 

Welcome!

Kirsten

Reply
Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

@sandra73 Welcome to CDH, Sandra!

Crossdressing in Holland could be interesting. 

Reply
Lady
(@pettie)
Joined: 3 years ago

Honorable Member     Maastricht, Limburg, Netherlands
Posts: 669

@sandra73 

 

Welcome here on CDH Sandra.

Welkom hier Sandra !

Leuk dat er weer een Nederlander bijkomt hier op de site !

 

 

Reply
Posts: 18
Guest
(@Anonymous 99344)
Active Member
Joined: 3 months ago

Welcome to CDH Sandra we're happy to have you. There is nothing better than embracing our feminine side, I just wish I would of done it sooner.

Alexis Grace xx 

Reply
1 Reply
(@sandra73)
Joined: 4 years ago

Eminent Member     ROTTERDAM, Zuid-Holland, Netherlands
Posts: 13

@alexisgrace yes hahaha. Also wished I've done it earlier. But....better late then sorry 💃

Reply
Posts: 1172
 Erin
Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome Sandra nice to meet you wonderful community here be yourself and enjoy TC 

Reply
Posts: 162
Duchess
(@lizzy89)
Reputable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome Sandra from across the channel in Lancashire, England. I'm sure all the girls on here will make you feel most welcome and support you in your CD journey. Hugs Lizzy

Reply
Posts: 3446
Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Sandra and nice to meet you.

An unusual tale of 'How we arrived to where we are'. Despite the bad things it seems you are happy in yourself and circumstances.

You are among a great diversity of ladies here in what is a unique and wonderful area to be and express yourself. I have been to Holland too, even worked there many moons ago and loved it. 

I am sure we would love to hear some of your nicer dressing experiences, enjoy your time here.

Reply
Posts: 64
Lady
(@chlosm)
Estimable Member     Dublin, Leinster, Ireland
Joined: 3 months ago

Welcome @sandra73 all the way from the Emerald Isle of Ireland I am 38 but have vague memories of those events you mention then learning about them in school and uni i am new to this world myself ao am looking forward to starting my journey

So just wanted to say hi

Reply
Posts: 7835
(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Sandra,

Welkom bij CDH en bij het zusterschap. Veel plezier met het bladeren door de forums.

Alice

Reply
Posts: 6046
Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Sandra nice to meet you as we see you have been here for a while so we hope you have ben reading the forums and posts from the many ladies here.. We are all here for you so dont be shy jump on in the waters warm and friendly .. Again girlfriend Sandra nice meeting you and hope to see you around more often ..

Stephanie Bass

Reply
Posts: 13
Lady
Topic starter
(@sandra73)
Eminent Member     ROTTERDAM, Zuid-Holland, Netherlands
Joined: 4 years ago

Wow!!! Thank you all!! Really feels like a warm bath on a cold winter's day ❤️❤️❤️

Reply
Posts: 675
Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Sandra!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

Reply
Posts: 526
Lady
(@stephanieann)
Prominent Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

🍒🍒 Hi  Sandral   , 

 Just wanted to say.    Welcome to CDH, !!!!

 It's  been a busy Holidays and now there are over,   and Survived them ,  and Now a New Year 2025 ...

Don't Worry,   It takes time starting to know you way around CDH and meeting new Friends ..  Don't Worry   Just Enjoy Your Self !!!

Any time 

Huggs 

Stephanie 👠

Reply

©[current-year] Crossdresser Heaven | Privacy Terms of Use | Link to usContact Vanessa | Advertise with Crossdresser Heaven

 
[kleo_social_icons]
Subscribe To Our Newsletter

Subscribe To Our Newsletter

Join our mailing list to receive the latest news and updates from Crossdresser Heaven.

You have Successfully Subscribed!