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Lady
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(@eric555)
Eminent Member     Wyoming, United States of America
Joined: 11 months ago

So I found this forum board through a little digging on the internet. Anyway I'm a 21-year-old college student who crossplays in private. I have crossplayed in public once but only in a classroom environment. I haven't formally or casually cross dressed before. Very few people about in real life know about this hobby of mine. I am masculine and have a little feminine side to me. I was on a model car forum board in my teenage years for a bit. I am very new to crossplay and crossdressing in general. 

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Lady
(@eric555)
Joined: 11 months ago

Eminent Member     Wyoming, United States of America
Posts: 8

I use he/him/his pronouns, I was unsure for a while about my gender identity for a couple of years until I started crossplaying in August 2023, for now I believe it Is not dysphoria or a self pleasuring desire. I do have a friend who is mtf I know in real life and from watching and looking at other mtf's stories and journeys and experiences I don't have similar feelings or experiences as they do. 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 1 year ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 4616

@eric555 Hi Eric

Welcome to CDH 🙂

The only other crossplayer I've heard of is Sneaky / Zachary Scuderi.

You've just joined a very warm, friendly and supportive community. I hope you'll have fun here.

Ellie x

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Posts: 5845

@eric555 Hi Erica 

Nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Everyone here has a big girly heart and loves to chat so say hello any time like making friends so easy girlfriend just a simple click and its done ha ha have fun girl ..

Stephanie Bass

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Duchess Annual
(@liara)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     Texas, United States of America
Posts: 1982

@eric555 

Welcome

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Eric and welcome to the site. It is often confusing for someone to understand themselves and why the need to dress. There are so many reasons and although may not be dysphoria but just for the pleasure of wearing the clothes. Life is an exploration and although being twenty one has long gone for me there are recollections of similar feelings and confusions for me and probably many girls here. 

Have a look around the site and feel free to to ask questions

 

Angela

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi Eric, welcome to CDH.

We love to chat about crossdressing in all its incarnations, so don't hesitate to ask questions or seek advice.

Take care.

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Lady
(@eric555)
Joined: 11 months ago

Eminent Member     Wyoming, United States of America
Posts: 8

@jacquelinelarkspur Thank you. I had some tendencies to buy women's apparel before my college years. Currently I own three cosplay dresses and another cosplay outfit. I have never tried on a bra or panties before. I have done one outing so far during a spirit week at my local college. It wasn't too bad actually. I haven't tried makeup yet but might some day.

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1419

I googled 2B. That's quite the outfit! The closest I've ever come to cosplay is going to a Halloween party as a witch. I imagine that doesn't count as cosplay, unless it's as a character like Zelda or Yennefer.

I must admit to some surprise that you've never worn a bra before. It's such an essential part of the crossdresser's kit. I guess your cosplay outfits maybe have a built-in breastplate?

You're going to have a lot of fun when you come to use makeup. It really adds a whole new aspect to what we do, though not all of us use it, of course. It all depends on your own preferences, and there are no rights or wrongs. I love my makeup, never go en femme without it, and even after all the years I've been crossdressing I'm still learning about it.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 1 year ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 4616

@jacquelinelarkspur

And of course then I had to Google 2B as well.

She definitely looks as though she might need a bra 🙂

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Lady
(@eric555)
Joined: 11 months ago

Eminent Member     Wyoming, United States of America
Posts: 8

@ellyd22 I am still a college student, who works a student worker job. I am still living at home. My parents don't really care about my hobby, they accept but I still find it awkward to cross dress around them (self-conscious reasons). Which is why I do it in private behind a closed door. I also worry about being judged by real life friends, I have wanted to tell a couple but I don't want to mocked by them. Once I graduate with a couple associates degrees and get a full-time job then I plan on experimenting further.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 1 year ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 4616

@eric555

My Mum knows that I'm trans, and is fully accepting, but yes ... dressing around her still feels decidely awkward.

My sister, not at all. We even shop for clothes together.

However, after a lifetime of hiding who I really am, I didn't tell either of them until last summer. Why? Despite knowing in my heart how they'd react, I still wasn't 100% sure.

So I completely get the whole secrecy thing. If you don't NEED to tell anyone about the crossplay, why bother? You aren't doing anything wrong. It's okay to simply close the door and get on with whatever makes you happy. 

Hugs

Ellie x

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Lady
(@eric555)
Joined: 11 months ago

Eminent Member     Wyoming, United States of America
Posts: 8

@ellyd22 Thanks for the tips. From my knowledge of the crossplay community, the majority of people are FTM, MTF exists in the community but it's mostly FTM. I would like to try going to a convention where I would feel comfortable.

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(@tubbydullard)
Joined: 1 year ago

Honorable Member     Citrus hills, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 328

@ellyd22 

Agree, there. Is no need for showing up for people not interested in your presence. .

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Ambassador
(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 7 years ago

Erica happy to welcome you here with us . Girls here love to chat and will be looking forward to hearing from you. Enjoy being part of this wonderful place of same mined souls all expressing their own unique opportunities in this exciting new world . Very nice meeting you.

 

Stephanie 🌹   

 

 

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Erica,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Lady
(@jml)
Estimable Member     Near Boston, Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 12 months ago

Hi Erica,

Welcome to Crossdresser Heaven.  I’m new too.

Joan

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