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Lady
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(@lipstickkate)
Eminent Member     Georgia, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Hi Girls,

I find myself in a bit of a conundrum—I have plenty of online friends, but few in real life. Does anyone have suggestions for meeting like-minded people in person?

Thanks, 

 

Kate

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1138

@lipstickkate 

I'm in the middle of Georgia. I know there's others. But many are deeply closeted. Atlanta and other big cities have more places and much more activities for girls like us. 

 The for sure way to meet is at CD and Trans events like Keystone, Atlanta Confort Conference etc. 

Some places are listed on this site. 

Fran 🥰 

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Managing Ambassador
(@lizk)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
Posts: 3859

@lipstickkate 

I ran a search of our member database and saw that we have hundreds of members from Georgia. 

Meeting other girls IRL means taking an active role in finding them.  You have to put yourself out there.  Chat is a good way to do that.  Another is right here in the forums.  Just started asking around.  You'll get some takers if you're persistent.  If I lived closer, I'd be happy to meet for coffee or a cocktail.

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/LK

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 Erin
Princess
(@erinb)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 1171

@lipstickkate face time lol I’m sorry unfortunately I do not as I’m a closet dresser but truly wish you are able to find others to meet in person keep an eye out in the events form some ladys post here when things are going on TC 

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Lady
(@cherylt)
Joined: 7 months ago

Prominent Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 485

@lipstickkate I know how you feel. We moved from NJ where we were part of group that met regularly. We had meetings, outings, parties and the like and it was so nice having all those people to interact with regularly. Now we are in the mountains of Pa and it seems I'm all alone. What I wouldn't give to have a group of friends, or even just a few, in the area to meet with now and then, talk and share our interest. 

Hope you have better luck than I've had so far.

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Lady
(@harriette)
Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 2 years ago

Your profile doesn't give me much to respond to, but you do say:

Outgoing and adventurous crossdresser seeking new friends! I’m passionate about golf and love exploring new places through travel.

So you do have the enthusiasm and ability to get out there and meet people. I don't know Georgia all that well, but Georgians seem to be friendly, in general. Surely there is one or more crossdressing group that may be close to you. Joining one gets you face to face, or to go to other events. CDH has resources which can help you find others nearby neighbours, too. You could also use something like Meetup, to either find a local group of crossdressers or help you create one, such as a crossdressing golfing group.

Asking for help is just the beginning of new adventures. 

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Duchess
(@rozalyne)
Famed Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Kate, 

There must be some support groups around where you live, I'm sure you can Google it and they will help you find one nearby, 

I'm always going on Google when i need to find things out, 

Hugs Roz X 

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Guest
(@Anonymous 97944)
Reputable Member
Joined: 6 months ago

It is hard to fight the impatience within.  I would love to spend a day (or week) with a sister.   "The Odd Couple" style, except for the addition of en femme when possible. Cognizant that some of us have much to fear from being 'outed' or exposure, and some don't.  

But I don't go from "new member" to travel buddy overnight.  It would be nice if tonight a sister was open to watching Monday Night Football and we are fully dressed.  I am agreeable and totally open to chatting with sisters about anything:

Which is better, Toyota or Honda?  Do you think the ref's are affecting NFL scores?  Do you like Fantasie more than Prima Donna, or Bali more than Goddess?  Do you wanna travel Route 66 and come back on the Lincoln Highway, etc?  How do I attach a new fitting to cast iron plumbing?  Here is how I handled misbehavior in the classroom... etc.  

Do you know all about car cameras, or home security systems?  Maybe put that in the profile.  One must realize, one is not going to be identified to be 'outed' if they like carpentry, or they taught HS math in Illinois, etc.   I think there might be a shyness with us girls that no, you can't PM/chat about anything except what's your favorite color bra or how much your SO is accepting.

As I attend meetups and it's more than just 4 or 5 times and they're no longer strangers, I hope to figure it out.  We girls like to talk.  So there you go.

A progressive move would be for me to put this kind of information in my profile, now that I have been a CDH member for a while and I am getting to know my sisters here.

Affectionately,

Dani

 

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

My advise is to make friends. If they have an issue with how you dress, they are not friends. Conversly, if they are friends only because you dress, they are not friends either. A true friend would not care either way.

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