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Hello everyone,
It's great to find a group of like-minded people!
Well, what can I say 🙂 I'm a life-long member to the club, starting probably around 10, although as I remember I wasn't quite certain why I liked dressing that way back then. Being at a single sex British boarding school from 11-18 didn't exactly help either. But the holidays were fun when I went home and was alone while my family was out...you know what I'm talking about!
I tried to be open with partners, although you can kind of tell who is going to accept it and who isn't, can't you? My first girl-friend (I was a late bloomer) was open and understanding. Alas, things didn't work out. My next (maybe too much of a rebound, who knows?) didn't give me the feeling of being open-minded enough, and one day found a pair of my "old girlfriend's underwear". Hmmm, any answer was going to be tough there. I think she probably guessed, but she never knew for sure. Let's keep it that way.
Then I met the one, now my wife. I was open with her beforehand. "Cool!" she said, "what's that like?" Marriage material.
Now we're living in the US outside of Seattle, have been married for 16+ years, with two fun-packed twin boys.
I work for myself at home, which is, er..., convenient, you could say.
I had a little break from being myself, but have gone a little crazy recently and loving it!!
Anyway, have fun,
Love
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Claire welcome , this is an awesome place where to be who you want to be with same mined souls all here traveling their journeys. Meet, chat with and make friends with . Enjoy your stay and I'm very happy to meet you and looking forward to seeing you here 🌹
Hi Claire, Welcome to the group. Michelle
Thanks Claire. My story isn't that much different from yours. But I have only admitted my secret life to one person, a girl I dated a while before I got married. I thought she would understand, but it didn't go well and I decided it wasn't worth risking again. I've been married now for 23 years, have 4 grown step children, and 5 grandkids that adore me. I won't risk losing my wife or them, so I'm just going to have to stay in the closet for now.